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"Y'all Dont Deserve Black Women"
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Rell Lauren
Banned
She is.
Rhyme n Tekniq
Superstar
Much of the dialogue, drama and so forth we see on the Internet is the product of deluded, misinformed and irrational people getting together and forming echo chambers; circle jerking over the same sensationalized topics til their brand of group-think intersects with another community's group-think and it becomes a big ball of grand fukkery. This shyt aint real. For all of the idealism, various race/gender political movements, and so called progressive thinking online, none of that shyt matters because the fundamental truths still apply when you log off and go back to reality. Everything online is just propaganda and sensationalism.
Young nIkkas arent out here dressing like Uzi Vert and Young Thug en masse like the internet would have you believe. The attack on masculine black men exist but not to the degree some nikkas make it seem.
Black women and men arent locked in some eternal civil war like these weirdos in small pockets of the internet would lead you to believe. Black love is still alive and kicking; Stable familys do exist and not every black man has the defacto gangsta rapper origin story of having it the roughest of rough being raised in a single parent household.
The sky's not falling people. Yes hardships and unhealthy trends exist but that's life. The shyt is overblown. Nikkas need to walk past the computer straight out the door in the morning and go for a long walk instead of getting their hit of daily indoctrination via social media.
Yesterday was step one "Black women won the election"
Today is "Ya'll don't deserve Black women" by some black woman
I'm about to take Twitter off my phone
Today is "Ya'll don't deserve Black women" by some black woman
I'm about to take Twitter off my phone
Yeah it's stupid, the focus and spotlight should be on WW.
WW are ones who are victimized in private, cry about injustice, but yet still sought refuge by and large, under the guise of white supremacy. Yet no one wants to have that convo.
And bravo for the hundreds of thousands of black women who showed up for the election, but this just another example of wanting merit( attention) for shyt people are supposed to do upon enter adulthood. People are supposed to be vote, people are supposed to graduate hs,people are supposed to work, people are supposed to want more out of life than being stuck on government assistance etc.....
So I think driving the point further home, the real issue I have with these type of articles, is that they just point the fingers and offer no real interpretation or solutions.
In the OP, it focuses on domestic partner violence, with african americans being the highest at-risk group, but she doesn't divulge into the underlying causes of it. It's disingenuous to ignore how structural racism fits into the equation. Historically blacks in America have been discriminated against in terms of employment, access to health care, housing, education etc. So numerous people in the African American community come from broken homes with a lower socioeconomic status. Contemporary research shows lower socioeconomic status is commonly associated with lower earnings, poverty, economic distress, enhanced violence and lower educational attainment. Moving up the economic ladder is no easy feat for people of color, coming from any SES. Having to overcome a series of discriminatory factors in order to succeed is a daunting task within itself.
Now on to the bigger picture, we know that there's a correlation between poverty and crime. So, it's easily explainable why domestic abuse among African American partnerships occur at elevated rates. The rates of domestic partner abuse among African Americans in a higher socioeconomic class occurs at significantly smaller rates than it does with people from a lower SES. So the problem here isn’t really a black male issue, as much as it really is a structural and systematic problem. The best way to address the problem of domestic violence in African American couplings, is to address and fix the factors that lead to it. Economic distress causes a lot of anxiety, uncertainty and irrational behavior. Simply enacting the blame game does nothing.
@Booksnrain @xoxodede
Link between socioeconomic status and domestic partner violence:
http://criminal-justice.iresearchnet.com/crime/domestic-violence/social-class-and-domestic-violence/
Economic Stress and Domestic Violence
http://www.apa.org/pi/ses/resources/publications/violence.aspx
Also I left out how many reports from our nonblack counterparts are never recorded into the FBI stats, but thats for another day.
xoxodede
Superstar
So I think driving the point further home, the real issue I have with these type of articles, is that they just point the fingers and offer no real interpretation or solutions.
In the OP, it focuses on domestic partner violence, with african americans being the highest at-risk group, but she doesn't divulge into the underlying causes of it. It's disingenuous to ignore how structural racism fits into the equation. Historically blacks in America have been discriminated against in terms of employment, access to health care, housing, education etc. So numerous people in the African American community come from broken homes with a lower socioeconomic status. Contemporary research shows lower socioeconomic status is commonly associated with lower earnings, poverty, economic distress, enhanced violence and lower educational attainment. Moving up the economic ladder is no easy feat for people of color, coming from any SES. Having to overcome a series of discriminatory factors in order to succeed is a daunting task within itself.
Now on to the bigger picture, we know that there's a correlation between poverty and crime. So, it's easily explainable why domestic abuse among African American partnerships occur at elevated rates. The rates of domestic partner abuse among African Americans in a higher socioeconomic class occurs at significantly smaller rates than it does with people from a lower SES. So the problem here isn’t really a black male issue, as much as it really is a structural and systematic problem. The best way to address the problem of domestic violence in African American couplings, is to address and fix the factors that lead to it. Economic distress causes a lot of anxiety, uncertainty and irrational behavior. Simply enacting the blame game does nothing.
@Booksnrain @xoxodede
Link between socioeconomic status and domestic partner violence:
http://criminal-justice.iresearchnet.com/crime/domestic-violence/social-class-and-domestic-violence/
Economic Stress and Domestic Violence
http://www.apa.org/pi/ses/resources/publications/violence.aspx
Also I left out how many reports from our nonblack counterparts are never recorded into the FBI stats, but thats for another day.
I agree - that is why it is important to look at who are writing these types of “think-pieces” — cause your average African immigrants/1st/2nd etc — are not going to reach back like you did and put the factors together - nor understand how our past and how we have been treated here ties in to our issues in our communities.
They lack connection and sometimes even empathy — they look at the now and after Civil Rights and think our issues are because of us and Black men and women being this or that.
The point is they really can’t verbalize or understand our community — even though they are a sub-category in it.
They can’t offer solutions cause they don’t truly grasp the problem. We can’t solve it cause we are not on the same page — we meaning DOS.
So, we are letting others come in and rep for us — creating a divide when they shouldn’t be talking about our issues/community anyway.
Again, I love my AA immigrants but they need to take a history class on Black America from slavery to now — and some self research and humble themselves — and stay out of conversations they have no blood in.
What I look like going to Nigeria talking about Nigerian men don’t deserve Nigerian women.
The nerve! I was taught better than that and more respectful than that — most Black Americans wouldn’t dare do that ish.
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women overseas put respect on their mens name
Or they reserve the right to shyt on their own men, but won't let any other group of women do it
My penultimate issue is the lowest common denominator of our race using issues in our community as poster boards for their own trifling ass problems.So I think driving the point further home, the real issue I have with these type of articles, is that they just point the fingers and offer no real interpretation or solutions.
In the OP, it focuses on domestic partner violence, with african americans being the highest at-risk group, but she doesn't divulge into the underlying causes of it. It's disingenuous to ignore how structural racism fits into the equation. Historically blacks in America have been discriminated against in terms of employment, access to health care, housing, education etc. So numerous people in the African American community come from broken homes with a lower socioeconomic status. Contemporary research shows lower socioeconomic status is commonly associated with lower earnings, poverty, economic distress, enhanced violence and lower educational attainment. Moving up the economic ladder is no easy feat for people of color, coming from any SES. Having to overcome a series of discriminatory factors in order to succeed is a daunting task within itself.
Now on to the bigger picture, we know that there's a correlation between poverty and crime. So, it's easily explainable why domestic abuse among African American partnerships occur at elevated rates. The rates of domestic partner abuse among African Americans in a higher socioeconomic class occurs at significantly smaller rates than it does with people from a lower SES. So the problem here isn’t really a black male issue, as much as it really is a structural and systematic problem. The best way to address the problem of domestic violence in African American couplings, is to address and fix the factors that lead to it. Economic distress causes a lot of anxiety, uncertainty and irrational behavior. Simply enacting the blame game does nothing.
@Booksnrain @xoxodede
Link between socioeconomic status and domestic partner violence:
http://criminal-justice.iresearchnet.com/crime/domestic-violence/social-class-and-domestic-violence/
Economic Stress and Domestic Violence
http://www.apa.org/pi/ses/resources/publications/violence.aspx
Also I left out how many reports from our nonblack counterparts are never recorded into the FBI stats, but thats for another day.
It's selfish. And reeks of attention whoring. And it does a disservice to actual blks with these problems and accomplishes the exact opposite goal they were "allegedly" shooting for which is supposedly empathy. "Allegedly" b/c blk men and women like her don't give a DAMN about our community.
They looking for a justification to be a neck-yappin, sorry ass, sell out. And they looking for attention they didn't get from the opposite sex growing up in their own race.
They weaponize black issues to throw the opposite sex under the bus. You really think all these blk dudes complaining about blk females care about blk women? They don't. You think blk chicks like her care about blk female issues? They don't.
It's a convenient front. I see blks throwing stereotypes towards each other sounding like white supremacists. To me they are just as much an enemy as a white person.
And I'll also add, ur validity is next to nil if ur with a non-blk partner and excusing white evils but always overly critical of one half of ur own race. If u dating out, cool, but keep blk people out ur mouth. We dont need ur token contributions to compensate for not sustaining a blk family, we don't need ur fake woke commentaries or your faux concern. Be humble, shut the fukk up and keep ur bytch ass opinion behind ur teeth.
God said b/c ur lukewarm he spit you out his mouth. We need to start spitting these c00ns out the mouth of our community.
The issue at hand is most of these women grew up around mainly whites and feel betrayed once they have their wake up calls (usually in college). They then adopt these “black coustumes” and become charictures lf that they think being black is (“black” people wearing black face).
They go “hard” wanting a “seat at the table” which is coded language for white acceptance.
Once they get what they think is white acceptance they toss the pro black gimmick to the bushes and assume “victory” (see the biracial chick marrying the white prince and the reaction as if we dont have examples of black kings and princes marrying black women).
Like i said c00ns have no nation, they want to feel good before they die.
People act like it wasnt another AA who snitched on Nat Turner
people act like ot wasnt another Congolese who set up Patrice Lamumba
These c00ns dont give a damn about ethnicity they dont care for black people period!
I'm missing something. I didn't dig too deep. The shyt she wrote was too goofy. Is she AA? Either way she still dumb as rocks.
Idk what she is. My statement regarding c00ns wearing “black face” to seek white acceptance secretly and also touching on those trying to tie c00ning being correlated with ethnicity.
xoxodede
Superstar
A Black enslaved man snitched on Nat cause he knew everybody was about to be punished — even those who lived in another county and state. Do you know how many people were killed? Hundreds for no reason all over the south. Why did he do it? Fear of death of his family and innocent black folks/children. It wasn’t right to snitch - but he saved himself and his family cause he did. He and his family would have been killed.
Hence, my point — African immigrants/1st/2nd generations don’t even get it — but they use examples like they do.
i wasn't disagreeing with him.Nah, I actually agree with @Karbaash on this one.Personally I was one of the Africans that used to just scoff and smh at African Americans that "went overboard" with their weariness of Africans. But now that I actually see how much havoc Afric00ns can actually cause...AA's need to be checking these Afric00ns at every step of the way, no matter how harsh they have to be. Haven't even injected themselves properly into the fabric but they're already trying be the bigger voice.
Because this shyt fam: A Nigerian woman talking about AA politics like she's entitled to AA history WHILE dating a white man and putting down AA men at the same damn time?!?!
This is the pinnacle of fukkery!!
Like, where does she get off?!
i was just pointing out the sentiment that you said you used to have.
There are no retractions.
No apologies.
I'ma just lie on black men because I'm allowed to.
We get on Keaton's mom for being racist, but, this is okay?
Devil behavior.
