Wow. Kevin Samuels was getting some buns from a dime the night he passed.

[#1 pick]

What makes you guys husband material?

Husband material is a guy that's willing to compromise, work with you for both short and long term, he's really into you and you both want to make this work and understand that relationships are hard and constant adjustment have to be made. He has full appreciation for you. He provides to the best of his abilities. He's loyal and if he's not, you don't got a husband material. That's where me and Kev differ. I believe a man should be faithful, not just as faithful as his options. Men who are only as faithful as their opinions shouldn't be getting married to no woman and I know friends who did and of course, it ended in divorce.

That's what I believe. I believe too many BM aren't marriage material but I do think over 50% are. With BW, I think it's like 30% tops that are marriage material.

I do believe most men would like to get married under their ideals which might be unrealistic and an impossible ask.

I do believe most women would like to get married under their ideals which is also unrealistic and an impossible ask.

Because of sexual relations, I think they are a lot more marriage material men than women as woman feel they never have to settle. Many men come in with temper expectations due to their reality.

 

[Rum&Pineapple]

Gay lol. Just say he hurt your feelings and let it go.

he wasnt anti-black, but kept his foot on everybody's (men and women) neck to have accountability.

Regardless of how you feel, the black community is in trouble if it continues the cycle of broken homes and bad choices

all that magical thinking is gonna get us no where

So anytime you or anyone else voice an other than glowing opinion of someone on this site, will it be because they “hurt your feelings”?
And let what go? I guarantee I’ve made way less comments about this man than any of the women y’all discuss on a regular basis.

 

[xoxodede]

You think BW can be redeemed? I was just on LSA in the Kevin Samuels thread. I don't think so.

If you want to marry a man and you don't care about any of a man's wants, needs or requirements, how do you get any man to marry you and even if you do, how do you expect it to be successful?

Explain?

I said the same about we need to purge Pookie and em who be in the hood killing everyone as well. We need to clean out the bad actors in the Black community. We need only those who want healthy Black families and healthy Black relationships and a forward minded action within our community. Is that too much to ask for?

Do you think BM can be redeemed?

First -- marriage is not the end all or be all. Many BW are not seeing the value in it -- due to giving more than receiving.

Especially, if you marrying someone who can not take care of their family and household.

It's hilarious to me that some BM want women to compete for marriage but they can't even take care of the household fully. It's many women out here doing 50/50 or more and having to come home and cook, clean, stay in shape, have a open mouth and vagina -- and take care of kids. That's clown shyt.

Start with BM and BW will follow -- hold the ones who are causing fatherless homes accountable first. Call to action BM to be better for BW and their community in all ways.

 

[xoxodede]

Husband material is a guy that's willing to compromise, work with you for both short and long term, he's really into you and you both want to make this work and understand that relationships are hard and constant adjustment have to be made. He has full appreciation for you. He provides to the best of his abilities. He's loyal and if he's not, you don't got a husband material. That's where me and Kev differ. I believe a man should be faithful, not just as faithful as his options. Men who are only as faithful as their opinions shouldn't be getting married to no woman and I know friends who did and of course, it ended in divorce.

That's what I believe. I believe too many BM aren't marriage material but I do think over 50% are. With BW, I think it's like 30% tops that are marriage material.

I ain't with the 50/50 shyt. If you can't take care of me fully -- then what I look like trying to be married. I have never been into the marriage concept -- but I stay with beneficial long-term relationship.

Most BM are not marriage material.

 

[#1 pick]

I ain't with the 50/50 shyt. If you can't take care of me fully -- then what I look like trying to be married. I have never been into the marriage concept -- but I stay with beneficial long-term relationship.

Most BM are not marriage material.

That limits your sexual marketplace options tremendously. You are aware of that right? In modern society in a 1st world country, you need two incomes.

I disagree but with your standards the type of man you require might remove most BM from the conversation. At the end of the day, BM as a collective only make so much money.

 

[Paper Boi]

Umar promoting lecture dates while giving his condolences The grift never stops

breh KS getting a mural in the school

don't worry.

 

[humminbird]

Umar promoting lecture dates while giving his condolences The grift never stops

To be fair he did this with Kobe in fact he went too far some would say

 

[xoxodede]

That limits your sexual marketplace options tremendously. You are aware of that right? In modern society in a 1st world country, you need two incomes.

I disagree but with your standards the type of man you require might remove most BM from the conversation. At the end of the day, BM as a collective only make so much money.

I'm making out pretty well.

I'm traditional -- was raised in a traditional home. I am being and doing what my father taught me to look for and be.

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

You wanna die naked and alone with some woman you don't know?

 

[#1 pick]

I'm making out pretty well.

I'm traditional -- was raised in a traditional home. I am being and doing what my father taught me to look for and be.

I am pretty sure you aren't doing bad. I noticed you learned men which was the biggest flaw in your game. I saw that a mile away and I watched you over the years figure it out and you know how to control the tempo of the Engagement which is like a cheat code. I knew you had the potential, you just needed to understand men and how they think

 

[Silver Surfer]

I’m a black woman and totally indifferent to him. Never paid much attention to him until now since he’s trending everywhere. My original opinion was that he was a sassy gay man who was tired of fighting over the same men as women. Now I’ve downgraded my opinion to he was likely bisexual.

Women are creaming their pants that the Spanish girl might be thick so they really were fantasizing it was a man

 

[xoxodede]

I am pretty sure you aren't doing bad. I noticed you learned men which was the biggest flaw in your game. I saw that a mile away and I watched you over the years figure it out and you know how to control the tempo of the Engagement which is like a cheat code. I knew you had the potential, you just needed to understand men and how they think

Why thank you. I just love and support those who do the same for me. It's not a cheat code - it's a love yourself code.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Men want to fukk good looking women

Obviously

even the less than perfect ones

look at the threads on here with the lusting

that doesn’t mean we can’t be rational and settle down with the ones we think are the best


I explained this in about 3 different ways and you still don’t get it

The rest of this has nothing to do with looks. It’s obvious you want to settle down with the person the best person you can.

 

[#1 pick]

Why thank you. I just love and support those who do the same for me. It's not a cheat code - it's a love yourself code.

It all depends if you want to use it for good or bad. I always felt you did a good job with love for yourself. You always analyze yourself well. Part of the reason why you were such a successful entrepreneur. I wish you the best, Xoxo. Even if you hate me, I always got love for you. You were a really good friend. I miss it from time to time honestly. You always had a unique perspective of things.

 

[Music Fiend]

So anytime you or anyone else voice an other than glowing opinion of someone on this site, will it be because they “hurt your feelings”?
And let what go? I guarantee I’ve made way less comments about this man than any of the women y’all discuss on a regular basis.

okay let me break it down for you sis. calling a man you dont know gay and/or bisexual with no evidence isnt an opinion.

Actually, he was with a woman when he passed and still you cant let go that the man was straight. Nope, "he was bisexual".





you only say it to negate his message and practical life advice.