Its not even if the ex part, it could be anybody. If you get 100 mil and have to give away 80 to keep 20 thats just bad business no matter how you slice it. Yall keep creating these scenarios where they going to break yall off to get around this fact
But you're not getting $100 mil, you're getting $20 mil. That's the deal. You never had the $100 to begin with.
If this situation was someone gives your ex $80 and you get $20 or $10, the end result would be no different - would people still choose $10? Some of yall would rather cost yourself $10 mil to ensure someone else doesn't get money which just seems like some emotional, cut off your nose to spite your face shyt.
This scenario breaks down to choosing 20 mil over 10 mil or choosing to lose 80 mil versus 90 mil depending on your perspective and half of yall are so focused on someone else's pockets instead of your own.
Get your money people. "I don't want my ex to have something over me"?