Would you rather see someone you used to deal with and fell out with.....

[DaRealness]

As long as I'm doing good that's all that matters to me. I don't wish to see an ex down and out or suffering and even if she would want to see that for me, that's her issue, not mine.

Life's too short to be embittered against someone who's no longer a part of your life any more. I've learned that kind of negative emotional and mental energy only hurts you and no one else. That's why they say the best form of revenge is success.

Like Umar Johnson said, you have to learn to cultivate spiritual indifference for your own sake.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Generally, I'd be indifferent.

But realistically, it would depend on the falling out. If it was something petty, then better...if it was something scandalous/treacherous, worse. Otherwise indifferent.

Indifferent means you would care less whether they were doing bad or good.

So, some form of caring is still there if you have to differentiate

 

[BedRoomI'z]

I like being right

Which makes you no different than the person you fell out with.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Indifferent means you would care less whether they were doing bad or good.

So, some form of caring is still there if you have to differentiate

I couldn't care less how they're doing...hence the indifference.

Which makes you no different than the person you fell out with.

That's quite the leap you made.

 

[Malta]

I wish all my exs the best, except for one.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Generally, I'd be indifferent.

But realistically, it would depend on the falling out. If it was something petty, then better...if it was something scandalous/treacherous, worse. Otherwise indifferent.

I like being right

My dude, no disrespect, but general indifference doesn't have terms applied
to them. Here you talking, generally, realistically, scandalous/worse, petty/better.

General indifference means you don't care EITHER WAY. No specific terms implied.

And, as for the second, you made the leap, I didn't. Everybody wants to be right in an argument or fall-out.. Your perception of what "right" is
doesn't make it so. Hence the reason why I said you are no different than the person you had the argument with.

Not that hard to understand

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I wish all my exs the best, except for one.

do tell

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

My dude, no disrespect, but general indifference doesn't have terms applied
to them. Here you talking, generally, realistically, scandalous/worse, petty/better.

General indifference means you don't care EITHER WAY. No specific terms implied.

Nah, you don't get it. I'm not indifferent to how we fell out.

Depending on how we fell out, I could be indifferent to how that person is doing.

And, as for the second, you made the leap, I didn't. Everybody wants to be right in an argument or fall-out.. Your perception of what "right" is
doesn't make it so. Hence the reason why I said you are no different than the person you had the argument with.

Not that hard to understand

Nah, you made the leap that that thing that I'm right about has anything to do with the falling out.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

nyggaz shouldnt be worried about shyt like this

 

[Malta]

do tell

She was a bad Puerto Rican chick and I was blinded by her body (36 24 38) & face, and looked past all the warning signs of her background. She was a habitual liar, but she was nasty sexually, and not just the typical "Im a freak" nonsense chicks say, but really really nasty on a porn type level so I didn't care too much. We were together two years and she ended up joining the Air Force and being stationed all the way in Hawaii. It didn't take much time for her to go out with friends that all happened to be guys, when that shyt didn't fly when I was around. So, I broke up with her on the spot, I really got heated after she tried to put some chick on the phone to co-sign her lies, you don't put our business in the street like that and most importantly I don't know that bytch.

After that she would call me every week for about 2 months, but I'd just ignore her. Then a about a year later she came back to NY for PTO, she wanted to hang out and I said ok. She talked about getting back together, I said nah, the distance and lies were too much and that she was probably fukking a bunch of other dudes. She of course denied it, but that turned out to be a lie, cause the same chick she put on the phone with me ended up emailing me all sorts of info about her. She and my ex were no longer friends, she told me my ex was a liar (NO shyt) and that she was -

A. Had a man when she came to visit me
B. Was now a stripper
C. Wanted to trap me when she came out here
D. Had started drinking and fukked with a lot of dudes

(D notes - She always said she would never drink because her parents were alcoholics)

We didn't have sex when she came, but she sucked and swallowed a few times. I told her to leave me alone after her friend put me on game, and if she kept contacting me I'd tell her man what happened, we never spoke again after that.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

She was a bad Puerto Rican chick and I was blinded by her body (36 24 38) & face, and looked past all the warning signs of her background. She was a habitual liar, but she was nasty sexually, and not just the typical "Im a freak" nonsense chicks say, but really really nasty on a porn type level so I didn't care too much. We were together two years and she ended up joining the Air Force and being stationed all the way in Hawaii. It didn't take much time for her to go out with friends that all happened to be guys, when that shyt didn't fly when I was around. So, I broke up with her on the spot, I really got heated after she tried to put some chick on the phone to co-sign her lies, you don't put our business in the street like that and most importantly I don't know that bytch.

After that she would call me every week for about 2 months, but I'd just ignore her. Then a about a year later she came back to NY for PTO, she wanted to hang out and I said ok. She talked about getting back together, I said nah, the distance and lies were too much and that she was probably fukking a bunch of other dudes. She of course denied it, but that turned out to be a lie, cause the same chick she put on the phone with me ended up emailing me all sorts of info about her. She and my ex were no longer friends, she told me my ex was a liar (NO shyt) and that she was -

A. Had a man when she came to visit me
B. Was now a stripper
C. Wanted to trap me when she came out here
D. Had started drinking and fukked with a lot of dudes

We didn't have sex when she came, but she sucked and swallowed a few times. I told her to leave me alone after her friend put me on game, and if she kept contacting me I'd tell her man what happened, we never spoke again after that.

Damn

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

She was a bad Puerto Rican chick and I was blinded by her body (36 24 38) & face, and looked past all the warning signs of her background. She was a habitual liar, but she was nasty sexually, and not just the typical "Im a freak" nonsense chicks say, but really really nasty on a porn type level so I didn't care too much. We were together two years and she ended up joining the Air Force and being stationed all the way in Hawaii. It didn't take much time for her to go out with friends that all happened to be guys, when that shyt didn't fly when I was around. So, I broke up with her on the spot, I really got heated after she tried to put some chick on the phone to co-sign her lies, you don't put our business in the street like that and most importantly I don't know that bytch.

After that she would call me every week for about 2 months, but I'd just ignore her. Then a about a year later she came back to NY for PTO, she wanted to hang out and I said ok. She talked about getting back together, I said nah, the distance and lies were too much and that she was probably fukking a bunch of other dudes. She of course denied it, but that turned out to be a lie, cause the same chick she put on the phone with me ended up emailing me all sorts of info about her. She and my ex were no longer friends, she told me my ex was a liar (NO shyt) and that she was -

A. Had a man when she came to visit me
B. Was now a stripper
C. Wanted to trap me when she came out here
D. Had started drinking and fukked with a lot of dudes

(D notes - She always said she would never drink because her parents were alcoholics)

We didn't have sex when she came, but she sucked and swallowed a few times. I told her to leave me alone after her friend put me on game, and if she kept contacting me I'd tell her man what happened, we never spoke again after that.

but smh at the lies

i remember my visit to ny..never seen so much fine pr and dr chicks..we have none of that here in canada





































no pics breh

 

[Malta]

Damn

It all happened for a reason, had we gotten back together I never would have got with my current girl since I don't cheat. Being with her also helped me spot good women much easier.

but smh at the lies

i remember my visit to ny..never seen so much fine pr and dr chicks..we have none of that here in canada


no pics breh

The Dominican day parade is in August

This was years ago, so there are no pics of her no way I'd keep anything of her around.

 

[Pillowysoft83]

I don't care either way. If you do then perhaps you should grow up and move on.

 

[Gus Money]

I'd rather not see them at all.