Who's saying anything about being a homophobe? I have nothing against the gays, but most normal heterosexual males don't discuss how good looking other grown men are, much less talk about how much swag another grown man has?
Same supposedly straight dudes that turned a thread about WEAVE (yes, nikka, WEAVE) in to one of the longest coli threads I've ever seen
Wrong. You have the reasoning of a 15 year old
"Normal" doesn't exist, first off.
TLR is obvious opposition to your claim that heterosexual men don't discuss these things. Heck most of American culture refutes your claim. Straight Men gossip like females in the 21st century. People have the time to think in our current society where as Men were to busy attending the fields to be thinking about stupid stuff.
The thread on weave was actually about self-hate, but I understand that's too much nuance for you.
Like I said, people who worry about what's gay and what's not have sexual orientation issues. Things that are obviously of a homosexual nature are clear but this is not one of those things.