Women with too many sexual partners are not marriage material

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many women regardless of age 20's, 30s and 40s who had 20 plus different dikks in they lives comes with a emotional baggage because they was accustomed or love the fact a certain person they was with gave them something that the guy they married have not.... it could be sex, it could be communication, it could be something else that women get emotional about..

that's why dudes should do a deep background check on the women they plan to marry, especially her family background with mom or dad, if they was even around
Breh there are woman who have deep emotional baggage and have only fukked 2-3 dudes. I can't imagine the bullshyt that would come with a woman that has a number 10x that.
 

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A strong quality that i look for is self control, you cant build with someone who's selfish, and always prioritizes their needs.I totally understand, but I'm not willing to risk that, when I'm willing to bring assets to the table as well trying to rise a family of black excellence. When their needs aren't being "met" they'll just leave and I'm not willing to give up half my inheritance :mjpls: (they wont know about it anyways)



I think the main reason why i hate promiscuous women, is due to the lack of self control and selfishness it entails. I personally attract tons of attractive women, but i restrain the urge to sleep with everything that moves. I see how it ends, mainly because that selfish woman who always puts herself first, never changes. My grandma in her old age of 85 years, still walks around like she still has it. She's lonely as fukk, not because she doesn't have any friends or cant attract people. It's because she wants certain people around her on her own terms. She refuses to see the fault in her ways, but then complains about feeling isolated and people not wanting to be around. When the truth is she wants people on her own terms.

This is a woman who used abandon her family on Christmas morning while we were unwrapping gifts because she had to go on date with some guy. She did this several times with different men. I'm being really general right now, but some of the specifics i can go into are very disheartening. The point is, while i love my grandmother, i could never take a woman with her characteristics seriously. So all these super selfish, I'm putting myself and my happiness first women, are filtered out of my radar. I'm not a selfish person, I'm actually very selfless, but like i said. I've seen how it ends for some of these promiscuous, put myself women and it's not pretty.
 
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A strong quality that look is self control, you cant build with someone who's selfish, and always prioritizes their needs.I totally understand, but I'm not willing to risk that, when I'm willing to bring assets to the table as well trying to rise a family of black excellence. When their needs aren't being "met" they'll just leave and I'm not willing to give up half my inheritance :mjpls: (they wont know about it anyways)



I think the main reason why i hate promiscuous women, is due to the lack of self control and selfish entails. I personally attract tons of attractive women, but i restrain the urge to sleep with everything that moves. I see how it ends, mainly because that selfish woman who always puts herself first, never changes. My grandma in her old age of 85 years, still walks around like she still has it. She's lonely as fukk, not because she doesn't have any friends or cant attract people. It's because she wants certain people around her on her own terms. I'm being really general right now, but some of the specifics i can go into are very disheartening. The point is, while i love my grandmother, i could never take a woman with her characteristics seriously. So all these super selfish, I'm putting myself and my happiness first women, are filtered out of my radar. I'm not a selfish person, I'm actually very selfless, but like i said. I've seen how it ends for some of these promiscuous, put myself women and it's not pretty.

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Never ever meet a selfless whore. They're always narcissist
 

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The only thing stopping most men from being complete whores is unwilling women. Someone with that type of natural instinct will never be in a place to tell me what is right sexually. Men will kill themselves just at the thought of fukking 40 virgins in the afterlife. I don't take men's opinions on sexuality seriously shyt is too hypocritical. I don't value the opinions of hypocrites.
:beli: you mean men not in the top 20% as the coli says. There's nothing stopping me from sleeping with 40 women, before summer ends. If i wanted too. This really isn't a hard task for someone like me, but it proves nothing and does nothing for me. It'd just be an temporary ego boost at best.
 

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What about any of my post in this thread makes you think I value the sexual opinion of men? I replied because I have a funny story related to the thread topic and also because I can. It's a open forum last I checked.

So the media makes you horny animals now? lol Boy bye. I guess the media makes you watch porn too. Being "okay" with having a "reasonable" amount of sexual partners sounds like you are speaking to me point. You're okay settling because you have no choice or because of repercussions. I never said men don't say no to sex. But given the choice without repercussions the vast majority of men would have a new women whenever they wanted. My point is that men are sexually motivated and their advice to women comes from a completely selfish and hypocritical place.

I am not sexually motivated and the only person whose advice on sex I would take seriously is someone of the same mind; ie not a man.

I am not trying to change you. Again, I really don't care how men feel about sex. You quoted me.


When you use the term, "sexually motivated", what do you mean? (I don't want to assume anything)

You just described @Ya? :dwillhuh:

:patrice:is she cute?
 

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When you use the term, "sexually motivated", what do you mean? (I don't want to assume anything)



:patrice:is she cute?
No idea, I always assume every chick online is busted and overweight until proven otherwise. I'm always down to trade pictures if they take offense to what I say :whistle:

With that said there's a couple legit total package dimes(looks, brains, fitness)on here though.I'll let you figure that out.
 
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Oh and you guys should read the actual Rhodes data collection this study is based on.

It states men who have had children out of wedlock also have horrible marriage statistics for the future (which isn't surprising) but also people who have had large wedding ceremonies reported happier marriages.

There should be a little note here. There is a correlation between larger weddings and happier marriages, but large in terms of attendance, rather than pomp. Expensive weddings are at higher risk of divorce than inexpensive ones.

PsychologyToday said:
In our recent report for the National Marriage Project ("Before I Do: What Do Premarital Experiences Have to Do with Marital Quality Among Today’s Young Adults?"), we focused on how relationship history before marriage relates to marital quality. We examined the history of relationships that came before the relationship with one's eventual spouse, and premarital experiences with the eventual spouse. For example, having more sexual partners; having cohabited with partners other than the spouse; or having children from prior relationships were all associated, on average, with lower marital quality later on. Further, those who had a child with their eventual spouse before marriage; reported that their relationship began by "hooking up"; or who said they slid into living with their eventual spouse (if they cohabited premaritally at all), also reported lower marital quality.

I find it interesting that moving in together is showing up as a bad omen for marriage in the data. I've heard stories of people living together for years but once they tie the knot, they divorce within months if not a couple years.
 

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You guys seriously think the average woman has 20 plus bodies in their twenties ? Lol unless they are on tinder ( which shows that they want casual sex) how do they meet these guys.
"the avg woman sleeps with 20 guys" = the average woman they see around, that they wanna fukk, that they heard about, has slept with 20 plus men

the real deal is the average american woman is fat (185 lbs at 5'7), a 5 (avg right?), and not getting all the attention these other girls are getting. for every dime in the club, there's 55 women sitting at home on friday, bored as fukk with no man... they never account for all the women in iowa, or montana, or bumfukk nowhere. or the women who ugly as fukk.. or have their own social, mental, physical issues...

there's 194 million people in this country, that are over 18.... ain't no way in hell the avg ANYBODY, is fukking 20 people each... the numbers wouldn't even make sense
 

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"the avg woman sleeps with 20 guys" = the average woman they see around, that they wanna fukk, that they heard about, has slept with 20 plus men

the real deal is the average american woman is fat (185 lbs at 5'7), a 5 (avg right?), and not getting all the attention these other girls are getting. for every dime in the club, there's 55 women sitting at home on friday, bored as fukk with no man... they never account for all the women in iowa, or montana, or bumfukk nowhere. or the women who ugly as fukk.. or have their own social, mental, physical issues...

there's 194 million people in this country, that are over 18.... ain't no way in hell the avg ANYBODY, is fukking 20 people each... the numbers wouldn't even make sense
Attractive women in major cities or attend college for 3+ years.
 
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