Women Taking Too Long to Respond to Texts is Now a Deal Breaker for Me.

[Uitomy]

I feel the same way bruh...
If shes a new broad... shes on a very short leash... basically id throw her to the bushes for alot of seemingly minor shyt... but id hit her up randomly over some months to chill/smash...

That's the formula right there
Specially for me, most the chicks that want to fukk with me only got that feeling a few months or even years down the line

 

[Deuterion]

dont be a p*ssy get busy in the gym or build

Women are probably sensing how needy you are and it's turning them off.

Y’all are dumb.

I don’t like texting convos nor phone convos so I just set the plan up and talk in person

I don’t small talk either but sometimes they even take a long time to respond back when setting up a date. I like to call but so many people prefer text nowadays and will decline your call and text you...

I take hours to respond myself

If it bothers you, then call

You sound needy though

Nothing about my post sounds needy...it’s about having value and knowing what’s acceptable.

Very simple truth, you're not a rockstar - insofar, you're not famous, so of course you aren't priority 1 in her life, even if she's feeling you. We all know its bullshyt, with how much people check their phones, a bytch can't text back within 30 mins? Its never that she "can't". She's simply not interested in chatting with you, unless you have something planned. Even girls who treated me like a living god, took long to reply. Women are vapid, they're not with any kind of real conversation that doesn't involve you punching their throats with your cock. So you have to act accordingly.

This of course is no different to emails, AIM, and screening phone calls. Its been done in its own context for decades. The goal is to try to skip texting or expedite the process and meet up with the broad. I like your bravado OP, but you're trying to reinvent the wheel, we already know the text game, all women do it. So the gist of your post should really be; Chase it if you want to, I prefer not to text at all and meet up.

But the thing about this grand text (which is appreciated) is that I have women in my phone right now that are the total opposite. Attentive, engaging, and carry on a conversation. I also prefer to use the phone as merely a tool to set up face to face engagements but when the convo is like:

Her: I’m free tomorrow I’m up for drinks or coffee.

Me: Tomorrow works for me, what time are you available?

*4 hours goes by*

Her: Around noon.

Me: Ok cool how about 12PM at the Coffee House?

*6 hours goes by*

Fuuuuuuck all of that.

 

[Serious]

Y’all are dumb.



I don’t small talk either but sometimes they even take a long time to respond back when setting up a date. I like to call but so many people prefer text nowadays and will decline your call and text you...



Nothing about my post sounds needy...it’s about having value and knowing what’s acceptable.



But the thing about this grand text (which is appreciated) is that I have women in my phone right now that are the total opposite. Attentive, engaging, and carry on a conversation. I also prefer to use the phone as merely a tool to set up face to face engagements but when the convo is like:

Her: I’m free tomorrow I’m up for drinks or coffee.

Me: Tomorrow works for me, what time are you available?

*4 hours goes by*

Her: Around noon.

Me: Ok cool how about 12PM at the Coffee House?

*6 hours goes by*

Fuuuuuuck all of that.

Now that's pathetic. I know what you mean though. Sometimes people are legit busy though.
I also realize that some people are worried about how they'll be perceived. Obviously you have to know the mannerisms of the person you're dealing wit. The way I talk wit my homies is different than people in a professional setting. And the way I come across to certain women is different than others. I might take a bit more time and have more thought out responses. If you're getting weak energy back, than dead them, but if they're thought out responses, maybe they wanted to be concise.

Also wit me. I have a few projects that I work on, so I'm a few group chats and I absolutely hate looking at my phone at times. That's why I keep my phone on silent now. So I won't notice certain dm's until a few hours later.

Also there's some people I hate talking with because there's no such thing as a short convo, but this is null and void if it's a romantic interest, but looking from a woman's perspective maybe she sees someone she hesitates convo wit as a simp or meal ticket, so she tries to do the bare minimum.

Point is context is important.

The best example I can use is my breh. My breh is grinding damn near 24/7. He's a CEO, always traveling internationally and shyt, meeting with other CEO's.....and I say this to say, I can text my breh and get a response usually within 45 seconds. Ain't no fukking way a woman I'm dealing wit is busier than my breh....

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

She could be busy, but if she was really interested in you, she would make time. Women check their phones all the time. You could just not be important enough or "high up" on her list for her to respond to immediately.

Yep. A woman checks her phone at least 5 times every hour. If she takes over an hour during daytime non-sleep hours you can best believe she seen your text and just didn't prioritize it.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

12 hours max. And it shouldn't even be that long. 12 hours and 1 minute and she goes into the "when I got nothing to do" pile.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

 

[1thouwow]

She curved you first and you’re just now realizing it. It happens

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

I'm probably busy doing me so I don't care. Only one woman get quick text back.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Texting women in 2018.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Real talk, sometimes you don’t want to start a long text convo. If you the twitter fingers type, the type to keep wanting to chat forever over text versus picking up the fukking phone, I’m not hitting you back until I’m in the frame of mind to have a back and forth convo. And *gasp* some people still have The manners to be present in what they’re doing. if I’m hanging with friends, family, on a date, really into a movie or book, I’m not texting you until I damn well feel like it. Stop being a lil ho about the shyt. That’s the beauty of text, it allows communication in a way that’s less disruptive

 

[Deuterion]

Now that's pathetic. I know what you mean though. Sometimes people are legit busy though.
I also realize that some people are worried about how they'll be perceived. Obviously you have to know the mannerisms of the person you're dealing wit. The way I talk wit my homies is different than people in a professional setting. And the way I come across to certain women is different than others. I might take a bit more time and have more thought out responses. If you're getting weak energy back, than dead them, but if they're thought out responses, maybe they wanted to be concise.

Also wit me. I have a few projects that I work on, so I'm a few group chats and I absolutely hate looking at my phone at times. That's why I keep my phone on silent now. So I won't notice certain dm's until a few hours later.

Also there's some people I hate talking with because there's no such thing as a short convo, but this is null and void if it's a romantic interest, but looking from a woman's perspective maybe she sees someone she hesitates convo wit as a simp or meal ticket, so she tries to do the bare minimum.

Point is context is important.

The best example I can use is my breh. My breh is grinding damn near 24/7. He's a CEO, always traveling internationally and shyt, meeting with other CEO's.....and I say this to say, I can text my breh and get a response usually within 45 seconds. Ain't no fukking way a woman I'm dealing wit is busier than my breh....

This is a great post and the last paragraph is most important...your bro is international and can find the time to text. An extremely person with a business, a 9-5, and a son and I text back anyone within an hour. However, I find myself on the flipside of this when a fat chick texts me or someone that I’m not really feeling...I’ll read her text and put my phone down without responding. I try to dead every woman who I dont respond to right away cuz it’s not fair to them.

 

[JLova]

I know one thing. If a broad is interested, she will respond right away. I'd move on too.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Needy because nikkas don't want to take a week to have a simple conversation with a bytch? What the fukk is wrong with y'all?

 

[Cartier Murphy]

If I’m feeling her, and she takes too long? I might catch some feelings but I let it slide if it’s some shyt obviously out of our control (work, family, etc.) If she’s supposedly into you then she’ll hit you up in a timely fashion, if not you don’t need that energy in your life. If she takes too long, leaves you on read, has to be dragged for a convo, etc. then she’s not feeling it and you’re better off letting it go.

 

[JLova]

Real talk, sometimes you don’t want to start a long text convo. If you the twitter fingers type, the type to keep wanting to chat forever over text versus picking up the fukking phone, I’m not hitting you back until I’m in the frame of mind to have a back and forth convo. And *gasp* some people still have The manners to be present in what they’re doing. if I’m hanging with friends, family, on a date, really into a movie or book, I’m not texting you until I damn well feel like it. Stop being a lil ho about the shyt. That’s the beauty of text, it allows communication in a way that’s less disruptive

True...but if you were really interested in the guy, yo azz would be responding with the quickness. As far as texts go...they shouldn't be discussions. If that's the case then a call needs to be made. I don't like having an entire discussion through text, but I know one thing....I took my time to respond to broads I wasn't interested in . The ones I was, got consistent responses.

People don't ignore folk they're interested in.