Women are accustomed to operating from a position of leverage typically because men are after p*ssy. A large percentage of guys would go smash any woman of average of even slightly below average aesthetic quality just to get some p*ssy.
Most of the time fellas just go after what they think they can fukk easy, but it confuses women because we as fellas aren't as selective about what type of women we smash for a night as opposed to what type of woman we'll take home and let meet mom, dad, and our family.
A lot women be thinking they have their pick of the litter when most of the time dudes are just trying to use them for sex.
When they start wanting something more of substance out of a man that's typically when they get served that humble pie.
Nobody likes rejection but when those ladies have 100 men in their DMs trying to holla, getting hit on daily (even average women), and you are use to having men offer to do shyt for you. Now all of sudden that same woman that is use to having men in the palm of her hand has some guy she's probably really interested in telling her no. It's a very humbling experience.
It's kinda like someone accustomed to being rich their whole life suddenly encountering something their money won't buy, it makes them feel a certain way. Same psychology applies here with most women.