as far as the original subject of the thread, women aren't really playing men. again no one is forcing men to pay for shyt or to bend over backwards. everything we do, we do with our free will. if you simp it's because you choose to simp.
women might like sex as much as men in general but there is such a thing as supply/demand. i think a lot of it has to do with women being "more emotional". in general, women could never handle rejection when approaching men. they simply aren't built for it. they'd be nervous wrecks and go into depression after a while. simply because of their hormones and because of cultural upbringing. hell even men can barely handle it so imagine them. this is one of the major reasons why women don't approach men, don't make the first move, etc. as a result, men are faced with the dilemma to either be more aggressive and risk rejection OR not getting laid (note women also have that same choice excpet they choose the safe route because of what i explained). so most men end up choosing the risk. so you end up with a "market' where supply/demand favors women. so the price of p*ssy goes up.
forget trying to change the market as a whole. all you can do is control your own actions. if you think a chick is too demanding and offers nothing, don't mess with her. if she finds some other simp, let her eat, don't hate. the game needs simps just like hoes need tricks and wife-beaters need low self esteem women. they all belong together. if the demanding woman demands too much and no one gives it to her, she'll either wise up and lower her price or she'll remain lonely. it's the invisible hand at work. but if a single unemployed mom of 5 by four different men passed her prime and overweight asks for a 6 feet tall 6-pack having 6 figure making man with no kids and not married who can make her laugh, has a big dikk and is cultured, and if that dude chooses to be with her, than who are we to say she doesn't deserve him? if dude is dumb enough to choose her than they deserve eachother. let the chips fall where they may. let the hoes be hoes, let the simps be simps, let them all be together. stick to your own principles and let the hoes disqualify themselves. you will eventually find your match (almost guaranteed if you are about your business because believe it or not, this will make you a VERY rare commodity). and if by some extreme bad luck you don't find your match, then it will be up to you to re-evaluate your code and principles.
changing the game is a pipe dream. even if you broke it down logically to all men and we all agreed, shyt wouldn't change because of Game Theory (The Prisoner's Dilemma)
no i feel like i have my own apartment a tv and a dvd player so either we meet up at her place or we meet up at my place and make it a movie night. if she demands more than that drop her and move on. if that works in the beginning and later she wants to go out on a date i tell her that's cool and we go and i don't offer to pay anything for her.
if we go out to eat and the check comes i tell the waitress the bill is separate and pay my share. if we're at the movies i ask for one ticket to the movie then step aside and let her get hers.
she doesn't like that then i'm probably not the guy for her and she should deal with someone else. i don't wanna deal with children that expect to be provided for anyway.
this nikka cold blooded......I agree with a lot of what u said but you don't tell them beforehand you not paying? U know most women assume u gon pay,by not telling them u not payin up front you pissing off women who might not be pissed about paying if u say it up front....just buying your ticket and moving to the side is but its a good chance u ruined that date from that point and shoulda just stayed home...its like invitin bums to a soup kitchen and talkin bout "10$ y'all and fix ya own damn plate"
Your second mistake is taking sumbody out on a date u don't know,and don't know if you like....and then spending 20$ to 40$ in a evening on this stranger like it ain't free shyt to be done if u absolutley gotta take her out.....Can I suggest using the phone to get to know her first,its unlimited for most and if u don't vibe with her on the phone probaly won't vibe on a date or it will be a false vibe...save ur money.
And if u get a "when are you going to take me out" from a chick simply tell her you need to see if u like her before u take her out....shell either cut u lose off that and wuz usin u for entertainment and free food.....she will take it as a challenge and put her best foot foward so u will take her out...or she will offer to pay her own way....nobody gets suprised in the movie line.
Please don't offer anything but free dates to these strange women like dinner at your house,a park,a movie at your house...let her ask to go to places that cost money then u can simply use the "I need to see if I like u first before I start investing money in us"...anything else u settin yourself up
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the whole date game is a hustle. now these chicks got men defending their circular a whoever ask should pay hustle when 80% of these chicks know they're not gonna ask a guy out.
honestly a woman has no reason to ask a man out. hell for the most part they're not even gonna approach a man they'll just look at him and "expect him to be a man and step up" that's a euphemism women use when they don't wanna do something or want a man to do it instead.
That 3:30 am fake coughing to obviously get your attention,that 2:00am tugging, that 2:30am sucking u awake.....all give u the feeling of when a new chick does it....when ya girl does it its more like " why u ain't say nuthin before we went to sleep"
reason why I prefer getting some head than getting some peen.