Women HATE admitting their faults but they'll gladly give you the "it's not you, it's me" routine

[SheWantTheD]

Clearly we're talking about two diff men.

I'm talking about guys who hounding you for a number.

Y'all clearly talking about men who were actively pursuing a woman and maybe she was all for it but somewhere down the line she changed up. Ok cool get over it.

Men and women go ghost, lie, do all kinds of things to get out a situation it's not a "women thing" as some men have stated in here. Get TF over it and stop whining.
I been stop caring when a nikka played games with me...he'll NEVER tell you the truth. Move tf on.

When did I say men don't do it?

You saying women lie when rejecting men cause a small percentage of men do some crazy shyt. Those dudes groping those women ain't got shyt to do with rejection.

 

[SheWantTheD]

It's women I will see again whether I want to or not. Same circles. For the others I don't care, I either say I'm not down or don't even bother answering. Since they can't handle the truth and can't question themselves they direct their animosity towards me. Don't want to have to deal with that : a small lie buys me some peace of mind.

Oh I see. That's why I don't deal with women at work, school, stores I frequent etc.

Because if things don't work out it becomes uncomfortable and you may have to leave.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Men and women love to bring up these stories but fail to mention that those cases are rare.

Women on social media all of a sudden get mouth when they hear stories like this and say "See this is why i dont...." yet if you ask them to name a list of their friends this or a similar situation happened to they will fail to do so. Sure some guys are immature and will do the whole "fukk you too" emotional petty thing but most men in general if a woman just says she isn't interested right now and is perfectly respectful they will respect her for that.

No homie it's not rare.

A family member of mine was stabbed 70 something times IN FRONT her kids. The oldest got away to call the police. Lil man had to see all that at the age of 6. From his own father nonetheless. His own fukkin father than set the house on fire...shyt isn't rare.

I tried to break up with an ex and let's just say shyt got ugly. I'm not going no further into my own situation but it's serious. fukk how any nikka feel about it.

 

[Auger]

It's passive aggression, I have problems with it in other areas of my life.

It's basically the fear of confrontation,
It's also the reason why some people can "ghost" others regardless of how long they've known said person.

 

[MaxPain]

Expect the truth from women brehs

Yall expecting the truth from females when they wont even wear their bare face without makeup and use angles and filters. They live in deception

And dudes do go crazy over rejection but ofcourse the women in here are overexxagerating just to use it as an excuse. The truth is women are too passive aggressive to be blunt unless they REALLY dont respect u. They hate being the bad guy and they hate confrontation.Its the same reason alot of em dont approach.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

When did I say men don't do it?

You saying women lie when rejecting men cause a small percentage of men do some crazy shyt. Those dudes groping those women ain't got shyt to do with rejection.

Every time you quote me I swear you dense.

 

[VFib]

No homie it's not rare.

A family member of mine was stabbed 70 something times IN FRONT her kids. The oldest got away to call the police. Lil man had to see all that at the age of 6. From his own father nonetheless. His own fukkin father than set the house on fire...shyt isn't rare.

I tried to break up with an ex and let's just say shyt got ugly. I'm not going no further into my own situation but it's serious. fukk how any nikka feel about it.

They don't understand that while it's a small percentage of men who do this, WE don't know who is part of that small group.

No man would be too thrilled if women REALLY spoke their mind about why they were rejecting him.

I just politely decline and quickly leave the scene.

 

[Cuckkleberry Finn]

ive been ghosted and 'let down gently' before a number of times. once i was over the age of 15 i stopped taking it personal and kept it moving. i dont need any explanations. if i gotta have that conversation in the first place, it's over.

even had one girl hit me with the 'wait, really, that's it?' when i told her i was cool with her telling me to bounce. ill never understand the mentality of these desperate sad dudes who need a fukkin performance review with their breakup

 

[mbewane]

Oh I see. That's why I don't deal with women at work, school, stores I frequent etc.

Because if things don't work out it becomes uncomfortable and you may have to leave.

That's the way to go...I had to learn the hard way

 

[Negus in Detroit]

nikkas really be fighting over being rejected

Unfortunately yes
There's some bytch ass nikkas who can't take rejection. BUT sometimes the lies are annoying

 

[CASHAPP]

It's passive aggression, I have problems with it in other areas of my life.

It's basically the fear of confrontation,
It's also the reason why some people can "ghost" others regardless of how long they've known said person.

Yep. This whole "its my life i'm not obligated to give you a reason" bullshyt has to stop.

Because that same person that ghosted you...if you become 10 times more successful in life and run into them all of a sudden its a different viewpoint. You not "obligated to give me a reason" so i'm not obligated to acknowledge you either lol.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Yep. This whole "its my life i'm not obligated to give you a reason" bullshyt has to stop.

Because that same person that ghosted you...if you become 10 times more successful in life and run into them all of a sudden its a different viewpoint. You not "obligated to give me a reason" so i'm not obligated to acknowledge you either lol.

Ok then play it that way. They still not obligated

 

[CASHAPP]

Ok then play it that way. They still not obligated

Ok... so then lets not have people do the "hey bighead..." thing after going ghost. Thats all im saying...