Women HATE admitting their faults but they'll gladly give you the "it's not you, it's me" routine
- Thread starter earthwalka
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I was friends with this woman. She was murdered when she tried to break up with him. He stuffed her in the trunk of her car. This is why women walk around on eggshells when rejecting men. You can literally get murdered from some mens inability to take rejection.
He stabbed her over 70 times.
Angie Escobar
Men and women love to bring up these stories but fail to mention that those cases are rare.
Women on social media all of a sudden get mouth when they hear stories like this and say "See this is why i dont...." yet if you ask them to name a list of their friends this or a similar situation happened to they will fail to do so. Sure some guys are immature and will do the whole "fukk you too" emotional petty thing but most men in general if a woman just says she isn't interested right now and is perfectly respectful they will respect her for that.
ShadowBroker
Born of the Night
I get what youre saying. I generally agree. I guess it goes without saying they are rare. But to be fair, would you agree men typically do not have to fear physical retribution when rejecting women?
Woman of god
Banned
It's a product of being indoctrinated to be polite and kind at all times. Usually the women who do the it's not you it's me routine are the same ones who will listen to a pushy salesperson routine for 5 minutes and still try to offer a valid excuse for not purchasing rather than just dismissing them from the start. Or the women who if you say 2 plus 2 is 5 will say well I can see how you could make an argument for that but let me show you anther way , rather than flat out telling u ur wrong. Sometimes a woman can think it's let's harmful or insulting to you to make herself the one with the problem instead
Of course. We are genetically stronger than them. The skinniest man could harm a fat chick.
I'm just saying far too many women act as if a guy is gonna attack them in broad daylight. Too many women say "I have to lie because guys..." when none of them have had guys be persistent for ages. It does not happen as much as they say, they just watch too much movies.
I remember at my old job this guy who worked at the deli in the store simply said hey how are you doing and was starting convo to one of the new cashiers cause he knew her by face prior to the store and she got an attitude and scrunched up her face and he just kept it pushing. Then told me on the other guys to stay away from her cause that is the type of girl to get people in trouble over the simplest thing. By the way he did not say this around her to be petty or anything. He just said ok cool and wished her the best. But that is what he said to us when around us.
Now we both know later on in the future this girl will think back to the past and then put out half truths and tell people of moments where she was "harrassed" by a guy or something. Lol
SheWantTheD
Veteran
They only say that so it leaves an opening no matter how small for them to come back in the future, if they don't find anything better or the dude they leaving you for don't work out.
MindOverMatter
Pro
This is really kind of true as well in some cases.
So again I say either "yes" or "no".
Its kind of like when men say " I'm not really looking for anything serious but maybe in the future" = NO I don't want a relationship with you but yes I will give u all this good D if u still want it
"So again yes or no.... And if ur confused then its no.
mbewane
Knicks: 93 til infinity
I use the "it's not you, it's me" line when I don't want to get with a woman or want to leave one. In my experience some women can't handle rejection, especially the cute ones. I had this one girl who I was first pursuing, she friendzoned me, then she was available and now was damn near mad I wasn't down anymore, on some "But now I'm ready!!!", calling me "strange" and whatnot. Hit her with that line to get some peace.
BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
Just today alone I heard two cases while women were at work and the customer grabbed a whole ass cheek and said he wants all of that after she asked what he wanted (she's a server). And another man coming up to another server saying how he wanna put his dikk in her and going in grave detail...seriously. Security was called.
And this my former job from a former co worker who's a male who was telling me this shyt. I thought it was ironic considering this thread.
I also know a co worker granddaughter was shot because she rejected a guy. O but were exaggerating. fukk it Ima do whatever I need to do to live another day. If I got to give the nikka my number and walk away and block him it's gone be what's it gone be
And this my former job from a former co worker who's a male who was telling me this shyt. I thought it was ironic considering this thread.
I also know a co worker granddaughter was shot because she rejected a guy. O but were exaggerating. fukk it Ima do whatever I need to do to live another day. If I got to give the nikka my number and walk away and block him it's gone be what's it gone be
SheWantTheD
Veteran
Who cares if they can't deal with the truth?!
SheWantTheD
Veteran
What does a random dude groping women they don't know gotta do with rejection? Those dudes are sexual predators, that ain't got shyt to do with most men.
mbewane
Knicks: 93 til infinity
Who cares if they can't deal with the truth?!
It's women I will see again whether I want to or not. Same circles. For the others I don't care, I either say I'm not down or don't even bother answering. Since they can't handle the truth and can't question themselves they direct their animosity towards me. Don't want to have to deal with that : a small lie buys me some peace of mind.
BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
Clearly we're talking about two diff men.What does a random dude groping women they don't know gotta do with rejection? Those dudes are sexual predators, that ain't got shyt to do with most men.
I'm talking about guys who hounding you for a number.
Y'all clearly talking about men who were actively pursuing a woman and maybe she was all for it but somewhere down the line she changed up. Ok cool get over it.
Men and women go ghost, lie, do all kinds of things to get out a situation it's not a "women thing" as some men have stated in here. Get TF over it and stop whining.
I been stop caring when a nikka played games with me...he'll NEVER tell you the truth. Move tf on.