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This is true but also...the most successful male female relationships are where they both are close to the same on looks scale. If one is a way better looking than the other...insecurities will rise
Women Are Boring And It's Our Job To Entertain Them
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This is true but also...the most successful male female relationships are where they both are close to the same on looks scale. If one is a way better looking than the other...insecurities will rise
MalikX
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All this can be summed up with the following....it don't got nothing to do with you being boring. You're just a loser to her because you're a regular guy. Women want THE BEST MEN. Thus, regular guys are boring and lame. You see, back in the day, women depended on men for their livelihood. It was frowned upon to be a single mother or a loose woman with multiple sexual partners. So women snatched down a nice man with a job and were satisfied. This guy (as in most of our grandfathers) would've been considered a LAME today but, most women back in the 40, 50s, 60s were satisfied with this because it was what was expected of women.
Then feminism happened. Women were tired of being dependent on men. Tired of being in marriages to men they weren't attracted to (they wanted top 20% men). They wanted their own jobs. They were also sick of being shamed for their sexually. They wanted to fukk as many men as they wanted, fukk as many top 20% men as they wanted and they didn't want to be branded with a scarlet letter for it.
Now in 2016 you have a dynamic where women don't have to date the regular guys their grandmothers did. They are placed on a pedestal through social media. They feel entitled to the best men, the absolute 1% of men. And they have access to these men in 2016 because casual sex is now accepted whereas 50 or 60 years ago it wasn't.
But it ends bad for most girls.
Women have sex with all these men and get things confused. Men will have sex with any girl who's halfway cute. But he's only going to marry someone he considers worthy. So women have sex with guys out of their league because their egos are out of control and they wonder why the guy won't marry them or why he left her with a baby. It's probably because you're a 6 on your best day and he's a 9. These chicks waste their youth (18 - 27) doing this, getting ran through, getting used up, becoming single mothers. Then when they're 30 they hit an inflection point where they realize they're getting old....AND THEN.....they finally start going after their real equal. But the male 6 doesn't want to marry a single mother or a female 6 that spent the last 10 years ignoring him and fukking 20 guys. He wanted you to choose him at 22 when you were young and full of life. Not at 32 when you're old and busted. This is why our generation has abysmal marriage rates (it's down to 23% vs. 65% in the 1950s). This is why 75% of children are born to single mothers. Our generation, especially women, are going to have a very difficult time getting old. It's all fun and games when you're 21 and cute but, what happens when you're 35 and fat?
Instead of using that currency of beauty and youth to lock down a nice man on YOUR LEVEL to get married to you wasted it going men WAY ABOVE YOUR LEVEL who will never ever ever EVER EVER marry you. That's the dating game in 2016. And it's hilarious to watch. Because every girl does it. They can't control it. It's their hypergamy in FULL DRIVE. I also think people are really overestimating how many simps will be around to marry these chicks once they hit their late 20s and 30s. Take a look at the women who are 35 years old right now? How many men are asking them out? How's it going for them?
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I dated her because we had a great vibe, not because of her looks. Stop deflecting by putting words in my mouth.Lmao my giggle is kinda cute, my mad face ain't nothing to play with tho. My eyebrows are vicious.
Thats what happens when you date for looks.And even then if ur with someone that's openmided you could at least teach them/ help them get into new things.
Idk why its hard to accept that a lot of women have as much personality as a used tampon while simultaneously demanding their man live up to a ridiculous standard they saw in a movie..
Excuse me im too busy taking care of my business to act as your fukking tv. And on a more personal note i cant stand being around loud mouth motherfuxkers anyway.
Vibing without words >
At the end of the day words dont mean shyt
Well my bad you mentioned her looks so obviously I'm a assume that's why you got with her if you didn't like her personality.
And I can easily admit that, just like some of you need to admit that you are not as interesting as you may think. And I agree with the rest, one of my favorite things to do is just chilling with my dude he doing his thing I'm doing mine.
BaldingSoHard
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Most people are boring, period.
I mean really, what is it everyone does every day that's so interesting? We all wake up and go to work, eat 3 meals a day, sleep for 7-8 hours, maybe work some hobby in there for the rest of the time... For men that either means the gym, video games, or sports. For women, probably shopping or reality television. The vast majority of shyt we do really isn't that interesting. We might go on a vacation a couple times a year but ask anyone "What is the most interesting thing that's happened to you this year." and 9 times out of ten you'll get a blank stare.
I mean really, what is it everyone does every day that's so interesting? We all wake up and go to work, eat 3 meals a day, sleep for 7-8 hours, maybe work some hobby in there for the rest of the time... For men that either means the gym, video games, or sports. For women, probably shopping or reality television. The vast majority of shyt we do really isn't that interesting. We might go on a vacation a couple times a year but ask anyone "What is the most interesting thing that's happened to you this year." and 9 times out of ten you'll get a blank stare.
street heat
merchant of death
I HATE when I feel like I have to entertain some chick. I'm not your court jester.
I like being boring.. Ive watched my "entertaining" peers grow up to be dead beat loser drug addicts who have a high propensity for dying young.
Im literally boring on purpose as a survival mechanism.
Yes you canyou can't really tell that by a computer screen
For starters, if someone is demonstrating that having to be "entertaining" for women is stressful, as the OP did, they are probably boring.
Plus being that this is forum is casual as fukk, its fair to say what and how people post is a reflection of their personalities.
if that's the case then tell me minesYou seem like a regular dude. Mostly date 5-7s. Probably drive a Kia Optima Turbo or something similar.
close i had a mitsubishi outlander (gave it to my sis) and rock a subaru outback now
You think you're a woman the complete opposite of what you are
Engaging in logic with Someone who denies his chromosomes
Lol *know (not think)You think you're a woman the complete opposite of what you are
Engaging in logic with Someone who denies his chromosomes
You're horrible at this btw.
10 1 star ratings.
trash thread and trying too hard.
trash thread and trying too hard.
being interesting is not terribly challenging
storytelling has two tracks
1) the sequential narrative or factual explanation
2) the perspective or unique details
..weave them together
#1 is speaking on things you know
#2 is how you feel about those things
you have to mix
Going all #1 or all #2 makes you insufferable
And most important ., when you listen to others
Let them talk but help them with their mix if it's off
Sometimes they need to get more factual, other times they need to share more personal
That builds true rapport
storytelling has two tracks
1) the sequential narrative or factual explanation
2) the perspective or unique details
..weave them together
#1 is speaking on things you know
#2 is how you feel about those things
you have to mix
Going all #1 or all #2 makes you insufferable
And most important ., when you listen to others
Let them talk but help them with their mix if it's off
Sometimes they need to get more factual, other times they need to share more personal
That builds true rapport