Women accepting drinks while in relationships

[Diondon]

nikkas gon do what nikkas do
but why is your girl entertaining it?

 

[Jean Jacket]

My woman shouldn't be entertaining any men for any reason while out in a club with female friends.

The moment she engages in transactions with someone interested in her...she's foul.


There are no such things as free.

Some women are extemely dumb and naive...Obviously...those are ones you DO NOT marry or seed up.

 

[MajesticLion]

Call up the dj/promoter breddren, and go to one of their gigs with a camera to help work for the event. Watch and see how fast their story changes.



Some people love pretending it's all just "harmless" until they're not the ones getting the attention.

 

[King Kai]

Women love being purposely obtuse about shyt like this

 

[Jazzy B.]

I know it will most likely happen and they will not want to tell me. I think it's disingenuous and showing lack of accountability for them to say it's not the same thing as me buying a girl drinks out. Both acts are disrespectful to the relationship.

In this instance I actually get it


A woman can accept random drinks from a man and not even be interested in that man.

A man buying a woman drinks means he IS interested in the woman and trying TO BAG.

Sorta of like how us cheating on our girl doesn't mean we don't love her.

But if a woman cheats on her man then it means she DOESN'T love him.

It all comes down to needs needing to be satisfied in that moment/situation.

In this situation the woman's need would be not to spend her money/pay for something she wants and to get it or free.

But on a technical level IT IS hypocritical

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

ive had guys buy me drinks in front of their girl and in front of people related to their girl
i have bought dudes drinks for no reason
it's a sad reality when the majority of people think there has to be a sexual reason for breaking bread with folks, this can't be life.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Set boundaries early and often. Or stay on the sidelines. I guarantee that's not a conversation that's been had.
When you hear folks brimg up communiction...they mean set the boundaries.

 

[RealCrownHeights]

In this instance I actually get it


A woman can accept random drinks from a man and not even be interested in that man.

A man buying a woman drinks means he IS interested in the woman and trying TO BAG.

Sorta of like how us cheating on our girl doesn't mean we don't love her.

But if a woman cheats on her man then it means she DOESN'T love him.

It all comes down to needs needing to be satisfied in that moment/situation.

In this situation the woman's need would be not to spend her money/pay for something she wants and to get it or free.

But on a technical level IT IS hypocritical

I can understand your pov when you articulate it like this. But yes, still very hypocritical.

 

[RealCrownHeights]

nikkas gon do what nikkas do
but why is your girl entertaining it?

"It's a free drink, or I'm not interested in them or I'm coming home drunk to you"

 

[BaggerofTea]

That's how a woman gets fukked, a free drink turns into a mack session

 

[Stuntone]

You have to be fatherless to think it's ok to let a man do anything for your woman.

 

[Geek Nasty]

Offering a woman a drink used to be an opener. If you’re interested you accept, if you’re not you refuse the offer. Now these goofy birds will suck it down then act confused or annoyed when the same dude tries to talk to them.

 

[RealCrownHeights]

ive had guys buy me drinks in front of their girl and in front of people related to their girl
i have bought dudes drinks for no reason
it's a sad reality when the majority of people think there has to be a sexual reason for breaking bread with folks, this can't be life.

Those men wanted to sleep with you. There is no other reason for a male stranger to buy you a drink lmfao. It's great that you bought a guy a drink for no reason but let's be serious here

 

[Grand Cru Boo]

If my wife accepts a drink from a man knowing the implications behind it are likely not out of genuine love or spreading love (most dudes don’t give with no intent sorry bae) you belong to the concrete. There is no way you can word salad your way out of it. It’s a proposition and you took it, therefore, what we have doesn’t mean anything to you.


Call it emotional, overzealous, whatever…


I can’t get behind it

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Those men wanted to sleep with you. There is no other reason for a male stranger to buy you a drink lmfao. It's great that you bought a guy a drink for no reason but let's be serious here

sad mentality you got there. has anybody just treated you nicely?!
i would assume no cuz i believe if you had been treated nicely you would treat others nicely in return without an agenda but obviously that's against your character

#sad