That chick is hilarious! Right about a few things that men don’t wanna hear. Wrong about some things due to female insecurities and commonly held perceptions in society.
Here’s the truth. Men want sexual access to everything and any attempts to put logic into the equation will be met with super anger from them. Because reproduction, sex drive life…blah, blah, blah.
Yes too much of an age gap can be predatory or transactional. Just like men accuse women of being delusional, many are just trying to deflect from their own delusions. Dikks do have an expiration date on them. Sperm starts mutating from all that Hennessy. Men be carrying around bitterness, bad credit, erectile dysfunction, emotional baggage, child support, failed marriages, sparse hairlines and general curmudgeonry but trying to polish their shyt like it’s gold. Just come off looking weird.
But…BUT Ma’am. Come on. That ain’t pedophilia. Insecure Women need to stop conflating sexual predation with large age gaps between two A D U L T S.
Key word: ADULTS!!!!
Past the age of 18, you can literally die for your country. You are an adult.
Sure there is still an element of attempted manipulation there b/c
some older men look for much younger women due to the perceived ease in which they can groom them. Men have literally admitted to this shyt. And those dudes are weirdos.
But sometimes, it’s just simple lust or physical attraction. And IMO that’s normal.
The other side of this is also that in a lotta cases, the older men ain’t the predators all the time.
A lot of them older men getting their entire wallets ran by younger chicks who already fukking with younger dudes they really want. It’s a lotta boomers inadvertently funding PS5 for young bulls this Crimmus, and they ain’t eeen know it.
Also, live long enough and you see that with ADULTS….sometimes age is NOT associated with maturity. I know what conventional wisdom says and our elders are supposed to be more mature. I know!
But ya’ll…I won’t lie. I’ve met some people in their 20s who had their shyt more together than some people in their 40s.
I know some 20 something chicks with a plan and on the grind doing better than some late 30s chicks.
I know some 20 something dudes more established than some 40 something dudes.
Life will surprise you sometimes like that. It’ll make you rethink some shyt.
Regardless, stats actually show that relationships work best when you are equally yoked as too big an age difference is associated with relationship instability.
But from the shyt I’ve seen
, I’ve learned not to automatically press the “PREDATOR ALERT” anytime I see an older gent with a younger woman. Take it on a case by case basis.
AND, frfr there should be just as much cause for concern with some of these Sex in the City matrons grooming young dudes too if we being real…
But I’ve also seen some young dudes step to older women too.
Case by case basis. Not everything is always as it seems. This world is crazy and it’s a lotta ways to look at this shyt if we are being honest.
Disclaimers: No I do not support actual sexual predators. Nor do I think all older men are nasty. No I don’t think every situation with a large age gap is predatory and no I’m not glossing over actual instances of this shyt happening. Just saying things are not always what they seem.