Really, because I find the issue in this thread to be women trying to explain/justify why they and others are overweight or even obese. Moreover I find that women in this thread are at least implicitly shaming dudes to be open to women who weigh north of 140 or 150 pounds, even if those women aren't tall at all. Furthermore, it's apparent that many women in this thread are catching feelings real quick when men are stating THEIR preferences in women THEY want to date; men are really coming under attack in this thread simply for saying they won't wife a female that's overweight.
Of course people carry their weight differently and a lot of that is based on height, muscle, level of athletic activity, etc. But women in this thread are trying to delude men that each one of them carry their weight train like Serena Williams or Buffy the Body (without working out nearly as much or without working out at all).
No matter how differently weight can be distributed in one's body, overweight is overweight and obese is obese.
But y'all can keep shaming dudes for preferring healthy/fit women. Women are entitled to their preferences in men. Likewise, men are entitled to their preferences in women.