My Friend is Doing a Racist Slave/Master Sexual Relationship with Her Sugar Daddy
I doubt this will get many views as I am in Asia and with the time difference, most of yall are probably sleep right now but it is weighing very heavy on my heart and I need to post this.
I was recently chatting with a good friend of mine from back in the states via Skype. We were catching up on life and I mentioned that it seemed that she had come into some good fortune lately via viewing her instagram. She had just purchased a brand new luxury car, a condo, and just looked better overall with her hair, makeup, skincare, and clothes styling. Considering 6 months ago she was unemployed, I figured she had just landed a banging job.
After beating around the bush, she finally confessed to me that she had met an extremely wealthy guy aka a sugar daddy and that he loved to lavish her with expensive gifts because he had a particular fetish that she catered to. She told me that I would probably think she was a traitor to her race (she's black obviously) but ended up telling me anyway. The guy is older and white and he gets off on 'race play'. She said that she pretends that he is her master and he treats her like a plantation slave (yes, like an 1800's slave) and calls her all kinds of racially degrading names including the "N" word while they have sex. She told me that he claims he can only get off on degrading and humiliating black women in this way and that it's a very specific fetish and I probably would never understand. She also followed it up by saying that she doesn't feel bad because she is already naturally submissive in the bedroom and that race play is just another form of BDSM.
I was extremely shocked but I implored her to tell me more. She said that he has used her sexually with some of his friends and that during sexual roleplay she is only allowed to refer to herself as an "n-word whore" and other racially degrading names. I was getting sick to my stomach. I asked her how much money she was getting and she told me he had put her on salary at the company he runs as a consultant and that she was making at least $15K a month. She also told me that outside of his racist sexual practices, that he was very normal, liberal, and that he even "voted for Obama twice" like that is supposed to mean something. She said that he and his small circle of white male friends just get off on degrading black women in racially motivated gangbangs and sex parties.
But get the shocker. He has BIRACIAL (black/white) children!!! When she told me this, it made me sick to my stomach. Not only is he acting out his pre civil war plantation fantasies with her, but he is also raising biracial children with a black wife!!!! She is is slave side piece and it is truly disgusting to me. I am also biracial with a black mother and if my mother had not instilled a strong sense of black pride within me when I was young, I would've been truly corrupted with self hatred fueled by the racism and discrimination I faced in my younger years here in Japan
I found this out two weeks ago and it disturbs me to my core that someone would do this for money. Now most who know me, especially here on LSA, know that I don't judge how anyone gets their money and I used to be a regular contributor to the sugar baby/trophy wife/spoiled girlfriend threads here but I am just in complete and utter shock about this. I really don't want to judge my friend, but she is truly lost.
I tried to ask her how she REALLY feels about this whole situation and I can tell she is ashamed but her excuse is that she is finally debt free and able to live the life she wants to live. I'm not even sure I want to talk to her anymore. I am just really feeling disgusted by this whole situation. I really feel sorry for her that she is so money hungry that she would let someone use her in this way sexually. We both went to a very prestigious school and she should have no issue finding a job because we both got finance degrees. It is just so confusing.
I have no idea what to do. I'm thinking of just cutting her off. I love all my friends but this...this is wayyyyy too much to deal with. I can't even imagine being happy in that type of scenario.