How is anyone deflecting? Is my personality good enough to hold a man for three years with no sex? Probably not. Because men want sex. That's what y'all tell us . I like spontaneity as much as the next person but I'm not going to lie people get bored with one another and if he can't have sex, well fukk. Let's all pretend men care about personality over looks. Hell general Mills made a thread about marrying and giving his all to A hoodrat because her ass was phat. He didn't even truly know that lying bytch. If he spent the time to get to know his future wife instead of cuffing her ass, he could have dodged that bullet. Most men are like that though, you hit them with the personal shyt and they're all. Just goes to show you a cute girl who is fun to be around but can't have sex with you isn't going to win over a cute girl who is fun and can have sex with you. No personality is that magnetic. Logic.
They just don't want to admit that their thirst for sex usually trumps any personality a girl can have. The issue is not that women cannot have personality...the issue is a man willing to pursue a wpman with personality or a woman who is sexually pleasing?
why didnt just pm me
breh why aint you smashed in a year and a half, no homo
and after me and my ex fiance split up. My head was all messed up, I almost become a bitter whore 
but instead I flipped it and just made the choice that if I dont find something special about a woman I not wasting my time on them that includes sex.
fair enough
but a year and a half...damn
hol up... I'm lost. I'm lost as fukk!