Winter is Coming

[marcuz]

Broke? Why are you so focused on this point. Why do you jeep talking about it when i never said a word about it. I am talking about expanding choice. You are on another agenda.

If only people with money could have children the whole planet would be gone in 50 yrs. You're being emotional an illogical. Stop it.

i am being logical. if a man gets a woman knocked up, and doesn't have the resources to provide for a family--he's a deadbeat, right? so why is it different for women?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

choosing to be a proper parent has a lot to do with finances. what is a broke man without resources supposed to do for his kids? so you're okay with not sterilizing men who are in their childrens lives, even though they cant provide anything?

Yes. Plenty of poor people with kids. In fact most people on the planet are poor so yeah you can be a good parent and be poor.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

i am being logical. if a man gets a woman knocked up, and doesn't have the resources to provide for a family--he's a deadbeat, right? so why is it different for women?

That is not the definition of a deadbeat. A deadbeat leaves and doesn't raise his/her children. Plenty of reasons people walk out.

 

[marcuz]

Yes. Plenty of poor people with kids. In fact most people on the planet are poor so yeah you can be a good parent and be poor.

how are you a good parent when you're unable to provide for your kids? what is this penniless man supposed to do for his children?

this is the reason a lot of deadbeats and broken homes exist. BW think procreating with some manchild is a viable option, long as he's in the home.

 

[marcuz]

That is not the definition of a deadbeat. A deadbeat leaves and doesn't raise his/her children. Plenty of reasons people walk out.

a deadbeat dad is defined by a man who refuses to support his children FINANCIALLY

 

[marcuz]

dead·beat
ˈdedˌbēt/
noun
informal
noun: deadbeat; plural noun: deadbeats; noun: dead-beat; plural noun: dead-beats

1. 1.
   North American
   a person who tries to evade paying debts.
   • an idle, feckless, or disreputable person.
     synonyms: layabout, loafer, idler, good-for-nothing, bum, sponger;
     literarywastrel
     "there's no room for deadbeats in the navy"

adjective

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Do I want to be a deadbeat dad? No but handing out a cheque for 18 years is also not fatherhood.

So no money and no father is a better option for the child? Money so important to you you'd walk out on ya kids huh?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

a deadbeat dad is defined by a man who refuses to support his children FINANCIALLY

how are you a good parent when you're unable to provide for your kids? what is this penniless man supposed to do for his children?

this is the reason a lot of deadbeats and broken homes exist. BW think procreating with some manchild is a viable option, long as he's in the home.

You are so dramatic. Plenty of penniless people exist and raise fine children. Your being very limited.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

dead·beat
ˈdedˌbēt/
noun
informal
noun: deadbeat; plural noun: deadbeats; noun: dead-beat; plural noun: dead-beats

1. 1.
   North American
   a person who tries to evade paying debts.
   • an idle, feckless, or disreputable person.
     synonyms: layabout, loafer, idler, good-for-nothing, bum, sponger;
     literarywastrel
     "there's no room for deadbeats in the navy"

adjective

Debts can be financial but the definition is something that is owned. You owe your children a father. Finances are part of it. It is not the entirety. So if you choose not to provide your child with a father you are a deadbeat.

 

[marcuz]

You are so dramatic. Plenty of penniless people exist and raise fine children. Your being very limited.

i'm not being dramatic, i'm being realistic. being a proper parent requires proper finances. like i asked, what are these penniless men supposed to bring to the table for their children? he cant provide a roof, food, diapers, nothing--but he's a good parent? HOW, SWAY?

 

[marcuz]

this is why women perpetually deal with these type of nikkas. they dont see the harm in fukking broke nikkas until its too late

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

i'm not being dramatic, i'm being realistic. being a proper parent requires proper finances. like i asked, what are these penniless men supposed to bring to the table for their children? he cant provide a roof, food, diapers, nothing--but he's a good parent? HOW, SWAY?

Okay hun. I'm not sure why are trying to make deadbeats bums on the street with nothing but the shirts on their backs. That's mad dramatic and not even worth addressing. You're being silly at this point. Leave planet internet and you will see people all over the planet who barter and trade and who still survive with little to no money yet have families with happy children.

 

[marcuz]

Okay hun. I'm not sure why are trying to make deadbeats bums on the street with nothing but the shirts on their backs. That's mad dramatic and not even worth addressing. You're being silly at this point. Leave planet internet and you will see people all over the planet who barter and trade and who still survive with little to no money yet have families with happy children.

why you keep bringing up people all over the planet, we're addressing the black community in america. i'm asking you a very specific question that you've ignored several times now. if a man does not have the proper finances, what is he supposed to be doing for his children?

cus i was raised to believe a mans job is to protect and provide for his family. not just EXIST in the home with the children.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

this is why women perpetually deal with these type of nikkas. they dont see the harm in fukking broke nikkas until its too late

Um yeah throw that someone else's way. I have no kids and I don't date broke men but I do know that father's are more that bank accounts. You really seem to have a hard time understanding that. It's kinda frightening.

 

[marcuz]

Um yeah throw that someone else's way. I have no kids and I don't date broke men but I do know that father's are more that bank accounts. You really seem to have a hard time understanding that. It's kinda frightening.

nah i'm not talking about you personally. ironically, if you were a stripper, you know exactly the importance of a man being financially fit