30, we gonna have to talk about this thing cause
basically, people who didnt even care about her got to sample the goods, and that is a mark against her character to me.

this sounds like late bloomer bias to me. Tying something like that to her character is deep and misguided imo. Some folks didn't bloom late and when you're young a lot of LIFE can get lived. Honestly, if found the more shyt people have gone through often the chiller and more real they are but if your preference is that untouched vibe, I get that. My ex told me "a man always wants to be a woman's first, a woman wants every man to be her last."
With our time and inevitable monetary investments, for those of us who dont want to play the field and would rather lock a chick down, its better to do the hurting before they hurt us, cause we have been there. Feeling like you can lose your girl if someone spits the right code sequence is torture. Hence #hoh.

this is the game tho. It's all a risk. Women catch even harder Ls because they often get stuck with kids

or socially trashed because of their age

this is male entitlement boo. Male feelings aren't worth any more than womens. This myth of

emotionally broken women is a tyler perry lie

. Everyone's Ls taste bad, male or female. This is why I advise women to put themselves first during dating. A lot of guys more worried about protecting their delicate feelings and maintaining emotional and sexual control than building anything

the criteria nikkas have listed on this site for what make a hoe or what makes a woman "wifey" or what makes her wet?

total lack of understanding
This relationship shyt is a major L waiting to happen for women, that's all I can say.
What you say makes sense but

nope