This to me is the root of it

men only find happiness with women they can exert emotional dominance over. The very position they are sooooo uncomfortable with is the one they want women to live their lives by
You seem real clear on your no slut shaming but personally don't fukk with hoes outlook

and I respect you so I can respect it
But what I quoted

is why I think women need to take a larger role in defining their own terms as far as men go. A system where I get minimal sex, tons of compromises and emotional disconnects is like

why? I just think women don't think enough about what THEY want like fearing autonomy
It's always about what nikkas like/want/think/need

like dafuq?
Thing about hoes

Im a scorpio with an amazing imagination. And a super late bloomer. I want to be able to give a woman many, many firsts, and with a hoe, i am likely just next in line. Im not against potentially getting with a girl with a significant number of bodies, but she has to be something really special, because my preference is for someone who invests as deeply onto the act (not on some religious shyt) as i do. Im trying to fukk like her first, last, and best, and im not gonna do that for just anyone. I prefer to have the same courtesy. I have no personal problem with hoes, but like the girl i loved, when she told me bout the cable guy, and the dudes back in school...and she was recounting how she didnt enjoy much of it for various reasons, i was like

Here is the girl i would do anything for, and she is complaining to me about dudes going in without eating her,putting a finger in her booty when she didnt like that, etc. basically, people who didnt even care about her got to sample the goods, and that is a mark against her character to me. I cant be the only dude who has turned down oodles of easy p*ssy but
In any case, about my comment, it isnt about dominance. You have to understand, much of the disdain dudes display on the board come from a place of hurt. We simpin, we laying it all on the line for that one girl and she fukks us over. When the hearts broken, you have time to think about what went wrong, and much of it was making ourselves too vulnerable and too attached even when a woman was wishy-washy at best.
Men who aint stars or rich dont have the ability to flip quality women on a dime. Women can kinda just show up and take their picks if they play the part right, but we men have to initiate a ton, and it can be time consuming to weed through the bad apples, whereas women have men come to them. With our time and inevitable monetary investments, for those of us who dont want to play the field and would rather lock a chick down, its better to do the hurting before they hurt us, cause we have been there. Feeling like you can lose your girl if someone spits the right code sequence is torture. Hence #hoh. If she is used to moving from one to the next, why would i be any different? Better to be proactive and :punksaysgo:
Its much the same for women, because putting your heart out there to have it taken for granted is excruciating. Difference is, if a lady is hurting, her friends and probably a few simps are ready to
As a man?

Nobody gives a fukk about my hurt, and a lady isnt going to massage my ego for long, if at all.
We have to be this way cause we only have ourselves to trust until we luck into the down-ass woman who looks at us as her other half.