After beating around the bush, she finally confessed to me that she had met an extremely wealthy guy aka a sugar daddy and that he loved to lavish her with expensive gifts because he had a particular fetish that she catered to. She told me that I would probably think she was a traitor to her race (she's black obviously) but ended up telling me anyway. The guy is older and white and he gets off on 'race play'. She said that she pretends that he is her master and he treats her like a plantation slave (yes, like an 1800's slave) and calls her all kinds of racially degrading names including the "N" word while they have sex. She told me that he claims he can only get off on degrading and humiliating black women in this way and that it's a very specific fetish and I probably would never understand. She also followed it up by saying that she doesn't feel bad because she is already naturally submissive in the bedroom and that race play is just another form of BDSM.