Winter Came and Traci Ellis Ross Kept Warm in a Blanket of Regret

[Shadow King]

My point is it’s still much more financially feasible to raise a child as a single mother earning $130K in those Midwest and Southern cities vs the North East, LA and DC. Im also sure that a larger percentage of higher income BW living in the South and Midwest probably have family who can help them raise a child.

That's irrelevant to you trying so hard to stratify locations when your own receipts lay out the numbers.

So do women in the Northeast Corridor (which includes DC) and Cali. You're acting like it's still the 50s and 60s and Black folks haven't been rooted in these regions for close to a century now.

There's 0 reason to believe 20% of this "type" of woman has a child in Boston or LA while 90% have one in Chicago or Atlanta. You keep moving the goalpost.

 

[Shadow King]

Not only that but for the first time Black women fell behind Hispanic Men in earnings.

So the lowest to highest earnings is Hispanic Women, Black women Hispanc Men Black Men Asian women white women white men and Asian Men.

Bruh as a 40+ man can you please let @lib123 know this dream of 80s born Black women with careers all running around childless and not trying to change that regardless of a ring is exactly a dream?

 

[Wiseborn]

Bruh as a 40+ man can you please let @lib123 know this dream of 80s born Black women with careers all running around childless and not trying to change that regardless of a ring is exactly a dream?

I seen what he wrote and I partially grew up in and around PG county so I know successful sisters.

But nikkas have this emotional attachment to blue pilled thinking.

I said that the average Black woman ADOS or not would happily marry a white boy and the coli lost their minds even though certain people on this board scour the internet to find examples of Delusional diverstor dreams.

nikkas got to come to their own conclusions about these delusions.

 

[Shadow King]

I seen what he wrote and I partially grew up in and around PG county so I know successful sisters.

But nikkas have this emotional attachment to blue pilled thinking.

I said that the average Black woman ADOS or not would happily marry a white boy and the coli lost their minds even though certain people on this board scour the internet to find examples of Delusional diverstor dreams.

nikkas got to come to their own conclusions about these delusions.

I hear that but I don't really care about the divesting shìt...are these women trying to hit those buzzer beaters before 40 or not? Lol

 

[Wiseborn]

I hear that but I don't really care about the divesting shìt...are these women trying to hit those buzzer beaters before 40 or not? Lol

I nut in every 40 year old I meet maybe it’s a buzzer beater play but no success stories from my end.

 

[alpo]

I had a friend in DC who looked exactly like her. shyt was wild

How she doing?

 

[lib123]

Won’t lie- you made a point here. Lol

The unfortunate part is a lot of younger women actually look up to women like Tracee Ellis Ross. Platforms like this pod would be the perfect opportunity for them to share the mistakes and missteps they made as far as wasting time and energy on the wrong types of men that played into many of them not getting wifed. But pride and/or lack of self awareness seem to get in the way. Or like a lot of y’all say the older women are competing with the younger women over the same pool of men. Seems like they don’t wanna give the younger women an upper hand. Tracee, Keri Hilson and Melyssa Ford are competing with Taylor Rooks and Lori Harvey.

Until older BW start warning younger BW with the seriousness of Wallo warning Durk, nothing is gonna change.

 

[Gloxina]

The unfortunate part is a lot of younger women actually look up to women like Tracee Ellis Ross. Platforms like this pod would be the perfect opportunity for them to share the mistakes and missteps they made as far as wasting time and energy on the wrong types of men that played into many of them not getting wifed. But pride and/or lack of self awareness seem to get in the way. Until older BW start warning younger BW with the seriousness of Wallo warning Durk, nothing is gonna change.

You right.


And many younger women get it.

Millennials are the generation that got the…different messaging. Gen Z sees the BS lol

 

[lib123]

You right.


And many younger women get it.

Millennials are the generation that got the…different messaging. Gen Z sees the BS lol

Yeah Gen Z BW seem more open to dating square men while they’re young.

 

[Wiseborn]

You right.


And many younger women get it.

Millennials are the generation that got the…different messaging. Gen Z sees the BS lol

You sure?

They say Pride goeth before a fall.

When I was YN I wasn’t tryna hear shyt so I have to assume that the new YN’s got to experience life for themselves.

 

[Wiseborn]

Yeah Gen Z BW seem more open to dating square men while they’re young.

Is this facts or do it you want it to be facts because people been telling Black women to do this for 40 years at least.

 

[lib123]

Is this facts or do it you want it to be facts because people been telling Black women to do this for 40 years at least.

Just based on my personal IRL observations. A lot of Gen Z brehettes are also into anime so I think that’s making a difference.

 

[Gloxina]

You sure?

They say Pride goeth before a fall.

When I was YN I wasn’t tryna hear shyt so I have to assume that the new YN’s got to experience life for themselves.

What I’m saying is millennials got the “girl boss” push and covid sat everyone down and folks realized that maybe…there’s more to life than that. Younger girls got to see what may have gone wrong with the precious generation.

Same for young men. They see older ppl acting a fool and discussing mistakes on social media.

 

[Wiseborn]

What I’m saying is millennials got the “girl boss” push and covid sat everyone down and folks realized that maybe…there’s more to life than that. Younger girls got to see what may have gone wrong with the precious generation.

Same for young men. They see older ppl acting a fool and discussing mistakes on social media.

well you’re a girl and you’d know more about what’s going on with YB’s than me so maybe you’re right.

 

[Wiseborn]

Just based on my personal IRL observations. A lot of Gen Z brehettes are also into anime so I think that’s making a difference.

I don’t see the connection but maybe you’re right.