Why Women Hating On "CookingwitKya"?

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I think the women are mad because either they, or someone they know has cooked for a man, and he still cheated, or left, or never married her after years of delicious home cooked meals. There’s a lot of videos out there of women of various races complaining they have to work full time to pay half the bills, AND come home to clean, and cook by themselves, and take care of the kids while the man does nothing. I’m also seeing videos of women at restaurants having to eat their food while helping their kids eat, but the husband is enjoying his meal without helping. So those are the kind of men getting backlash, not ones who help with domestics and child-rearing.

And I have to point out the hypocrisy of y’all not wanting to buy a woman a nice meal on a first date, but expecting her to cook for you.

I say this as a married man whose wife cooked for me for our second date. Guess what I bought her for our first date?

A dinner at a nice restaurant and some flowers!

Y’all just don’t date women who really like you, and are excited about you. This is why you have to stop begging women to give you a chance. They have to really want you. Otherwise, she’s going to have an attitude over every single time she doesn’t get her way, and will treat you like you should be grateful to be in her presence, regardless of what she brings, or doesn’t bring into your life.
You're doing a lot of projecting
 
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There was an entire Twitter thread about how the song Cater to you is bad because women shouldn't cater to a man and this is what you came with? Really? It's mens fault that these women are insecure? That they don't 'date men that really like them?'

It's mens fault that women are upset at another woman? This is why women have an aversion to accountability. :snoop:
Again, they have catered to men, and still been played. I don’t think there is a tried and true method to keep a man, but if I’m not happy, some good meals isn’t stopping me from leaving. This isn’t to say women shouldn’t cook or cater to their men. But women have done that, and it hasn’t worked.

Not only is that woman saying cooking is enough to keep a man around, she says she will take your man. That sounds like thot speech, so I get women not liking her. There is a black woman on Tik tok who cooks, and starts every video with “Let’s feed that man, and these kids.” She doesn’t get the backlash.



Her and her husband have a good dynamic, a nice house, and she makes money from this channel, and most likely contributes to the bills. She doesn’t dress like a thot, and notice how they physically match.



Here, she’s making him help with laundry, which is reasonable. She still does the majority of the work, but he helps.



Her comments aren’t full of women telling her to stop doing what she’s doing, or to not cater to her man. That family is well fed.
 

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Again, they have catered to men, and still been played. I don’t think there is a tried and true method to keep a man, but if I’m not happy, some good meals isn’t stopping me from leaving. This isn’t to say women shouldn’t cook or cater to their men. But women have done that, and it hasn’t worked.
Again why is this her fault? Maybe they need to do the work of finding out why their men aren't happy. Are these women not smart enough to understand that? Your reasons for the anger aren't strong at all.
 
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