FunkDoc1112
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And Reggie's mom caught em in the act too
Why was Faith Evans a mother of 4 behaving like this on camera?
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Not doing or saying the things u want to do or say is being fake.
That isn't a debate.
You know decorum is fake because what's is appropriate and not appropriate depends on the society u live in. Someone or some people create the standard of what's proper decorum
What u wrote about it being a Way for humans to live together is accurate tho. The Human beings in societies can only function by suppressing its nature and conforming. Which is being fake. Its not really who they are. But it's for the good of society.
But usually not good for the individual.
This is how all kinds of oppressions happen. And then people being liberated from those oppression.
In this case women being able to express themselves. And having agency and control of their own minds and bodies
Human beings aren't apes. I don't think any of us wants to shyt where people are eating.
That's animalistic.
But I'm sure each human, ones with dikks and ones without, Wish to Be able to do and say what they want when it comes to sex and other issues.
But it seems only the ones with dikks are allowed to do so.
Obviously things are changing tho
African Peasant
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There is a place and a moment for it. People should be able to express themselves, but there is a manner for it.
Yeah things have changed, but for the worse I think.
there is a double standard when it comes to sexuality, you right. But I think there are some reasons behind it.
But in this case, Faith acted like an idiot.
So we agree that people should be able to express themselves.
But you want to say there's a place and manner for it.
Who gets to decide that. What is the people who get to decide that say it's never a place or manner for women to do it.
Or there's never a place or manner for blacks to do it. "It's not proper decorum"
This is a good convo because it lets me add in another point I've been wanting to make in regards to one of the dame dash threads.
It's about "humility".
These words decorum and humility are just fake things that people want from others, just to make themselves feel good.
They want people to have decorum so we can all lie to each other like everything is a certain way, when it really isn't.
And they want others to be humble so we can all feel good about ourselves.
But no, some people are just better than u at stuff and if they want to tell you how much better they are, then so be it.
Cause No matter what, as soon as they fall, you're gonna bash them anyway.
And as soon as the lady with the decorum has a moment of being human and shows her true nature, you're gonna bash her too.
So it's no sense in being like that unless for some reason you want to be.
But most people only want to be cause it makes others feel better and people are happier when u make them feel good about themselves
What she described was being emotionally dried up
when girls are overactive sexually it is based on a need for intimacy, and sometimes validation
As humans, our emotionality is like a wet rag, if you leave it out in the sun it dries out quicker
there is value to emotional temperance, it keeps you young
she is saying, all of the sexual experience has led her to be exhausted of any of the emotional availability to sex and has burnt up all of the chemicals involved - it’s like doing ecstasy too often, you no longer feel the magic
everything you feel during sex is perceived as pleasure, but if those chemicals weren’t firing (which is a big part of why sex is better when the engine is warm, don‘t put it in drive when the engine is cold) it would just be pain
the answer to all of the questions on human nature can be found within the animal kingdom …. Cats are notably in pain during sex. They have all the same parts that we do. They just don’t walk up right. 4 legs? They don’t have 4 hips. What legs you ever heard of that had shoulders?
during the evolutionary line we developed chemicals to make us enjoy sex that we will proliferate
without these chemicals sex hurts or for a woman you’d be wondering why the fukk am I letting somebody insert themselves into me. There is literally someone inside of me right now, pumping themselves into me. For a man it is like why I am causing all of this friction. There literally needs to be lubricant for this not to hurt … therefore, the action itself is painful and the lubricant is subsistence for that
I understand where she’s coming from
I stopped counting when I’d had sex with over 100 different girls by the end of high school. If you went to high school in Amesbury, Exeter, Haverhill, Lawrence, Portsmouth or even Kittery there’s a good chance I had sex with more girls in your school than you did
when girls are overactive sexually it is based on a need for intimacy, and sometimes validation
As humans, our emotionality is like a wet rag, if you leave it out in the sun it dries out quicker
there is value to emotional temperance, it keeps you young
she is saying, all of the sexual experience has led her to be exhausted of any of the emotional availability to sex and has burnt up all of the chemicals involved - it’s like doing ecstasy too often, you no longer feel the magic
everything you feel during sex is perceived as pleasure, but if those chemicals weren’t firing (which is a big part of why sex is better when the engine is warm, don‘t put it in drive when the engine is cold) it would just be pain
the answer to all of the questions on human nature can be found within the animal kingdom …. Cats are notably in pain during sex. They have all the same parts that we do. They just don’t walk up right. 4 legs? They don’t have 4 hips. What legs you ever heard of that had shoulders?
during the evolutionary line we developed chemicals to make us enjoy sex that we will proliferate
without these chemicals sex hurts or for a woman you’d be wondering why the fukk am I letting somebody insert themselves into me. There is literally someone inside of me right now, pumping themselves into me. For a man it is like why I am causing all of this friction. There literally needs to be lubricant for this not to hurt … therefore, the action itself is painful and the lubricant is subsistence for that
I understand where she’s coming from
I stopped counting when I’d had sex with over 100 different girls by the end of high school. If you went to high school in Amesbury, Exeter, Haverhill, Lawrence, Portsmouth or even Kittery there’s a good chance I had sex with more girls in your school than you did
ReturnOfJudah
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I would never marry a NY woman. Did you hear how easy she said that shyt? No shame
raoulduke187
All Star
LMAOOOOOOO
cant help but respect the honesty
cant help but respect the honesty
This was way before Stevie J married her and a year later divorced her
Her, mary j blige and puffy baby mamas stayed on death row getting ran through
Her, mary j blige and puffy baby mamas stayed on death row getting ran through
Not enough discussion on that “when I was little” part 
why do y'all want the pac shyt to be true so bad?
And she beat lil kim up too
Sleepy Floyd
Superstar
African Peasant
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Not talking about your p*ssy in public is not lying.
If we take the 'who decides what', we can apply it to everything... What would be the result? Peace and happiness?
We grown, have common sense and a certain experience from our old folks. We can understand that certain things can be discussed in certain settings only, and with certain people only.
Acting otherwise is a lack of wisdom.
And I don't see how Faith talking about her p*ssy being f'ed up makes her better than anyone.
Humility... It's bad becuse it makes other people feel good. Why do you want to make other black people feel bad?
And in general, a group needs rules and regulations. You're advocating for more looseness, I don't think it's what black people lack or need...