Why was Faith Evans a mother of 4 behaving like this on camera?

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Same thoughts I had exactly. A lot of females are freaky as shhit and like sex just as much as us… The goofy shhit is to say this publicly…especially as a grown woman, your kids and grandkids are gonna see this, smh. Corny. Being a whore is lit in hip hop tho, 🤷🏽‍♂️🤮🤮. When shorty married Stevie J I knew what type time she was on.

Why they cant say the truth or how they really feel
 

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Why they cant say the truth or how they really feel
Peace and love and blessings to your mom champ, but just as an example, how would you feel if you saw your moms on TV saying this? 😲

Or, how would your kids feel seeing their grandma say this?

That’s all I’m saying,🤷🏽‍♂️. All that “I’m a hoe and I’m proud” energy in rap now is corny, everybody is Lil Kim on roids now, lol
 

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yeah, she's not going to admit that. I was shocked to find out her and Redman were fukking in high school. Then she married one of biggie's producers/friends decades after his death. Yeah, I'm starting to believe that Pac shyt more and more every year
Rocking Redman and Naughty....

Rap about another man that's been in your wife.

Couldn't be me :mjlol:
 

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Peace and love and blessings to your mom champ, but just as an example, how would you feel if you saw your moms on TV saying this? 😲

Or, how would your kids feel seeing their grandma say this?

Thank you..same to you brother.

But How I would feel has nothing to do with who she is, her feelings and her expressing her feelings.

I personally would be embarrassed. But we get like that when we feel like we are emotionally tied to other people. Forgetting that they are their own person.

It's like feeling embarrassed when another black person does something dumb, knowing craccaz are watching. I personally shouldn't give a fck but I'm embarrassed because I'm emotionally attached to other blacks. Even though they're just living their own lives

But my main point was going to be, we seemed to only do this with women.

No one would say this about a father
 

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Thank you..same to you brother.

But How I would feel has nothing to do with who she is, her feelings and her expressing her feelings.

I personally would be embarrassed. But we get like that when we feel like we are emotionally tied to other people. Forgetting that they are their own person.

It's like feeling embarrassed when another black person does something dumb, knowing craccaz are watching. I personally shouldn't give a fck but I'm embarrassed because I'm emotionally attached to other blacks. Even though they're just living their own lives

But my main point was going to be, we seemed to only do this with women.

No one would say this about a father
True but that’s not a good thing, lol, to just simply think about yourself and what will ultimately just effect you and that type shhit…that’s supposed to die when you have kids, I know it did in me, pause. Express yourself…but realize that it may effect your loved ones in ways that it doesn’t directly effect you, 🤷🏽‍♂️.

You right about the double standard…I admittedly co-sign it lol, women need to have some sort of lady decorum imo. Men, we savages bro lol
 

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True but that’s not a good thing, lol, to just simply think about yourself and what will ultimately just effect you and that type shhit…that’s supposed to die when you have kids, I know it did in me, pause. Express yourself…but realize that it may effect your loved ones in ways that it doesn’t directly effect you, 🤷🏽‍♂️.

You right about the double standard…I admittedly co-sign it lol, women need to have some sort of lady decorum imo. Men, we savages bro lol

The issue is actually the last part. So I'll start there first.

No one really needs "decorum" because it's really fake. The human being, in general, is what we can call savage. If we all didn't have to abide by other people's rules and standards, and just be honest, you'd see the truth.
I don't know if the world would be better or worse, but it would be honest.

Women are true savages. They are more on code around other men tho. Especially men they know care about them. They have to put up a front to keep these men caring about them, to support them and protecting.
With all due respect, if we knew exactly what our mother's and daughters felt honestly about things we would not look at them the same and treat them like we do.
This is apart of their leverage and apart of what we think our purpose of being a man is.
This is why we hate seeing women act and talk like faith. We hate seeing women not be on code.

They are less on code around other women and when the get older like faith.

So thinking about other people's feelings and not speaking or being the way you truly are seems to be a standard we hold only for women, like I said.
But that actually hurts us as men in the long run.
Keeps most men from NOT truly understanding women. And making mistakes with them
 

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The issue is actually the last part. So I'll start there first.

No one really needs "decorum" because it's really fake. The human being, in general, is what we can call savage. If we all didn't have to abide by other people's rules and standards, and just be honest, you'd see the truth.
I don't know if the world would be better or worse, but it would be honest.

Women are true savages. They are more on code around other men tho. Especially men they know care about them. They have to put up a front to keep these men caring about them, to support them and protecting.
With all due respect, if we knew exactly what our mother's and daughters felt honestly about things we would not look at them the same and treat them like we do.
This is apart of their leverage and apart of what we think our purpose of being a man is.
This is why we hate seeing women act and talk like faith. We hate seeing women not be on code.

They are less on code around other women and when the get older like faith.

So thinking about other people's feelings and not speaking or being the way you truly are seems to be a standard we hold only for women, like I said.
But that actually hurts us as men in the long run.
Keeps most men from NOT truly understanding women. And making mistakes with them
Decorum is not 'fake'... Not saying or doing whatever crosses your mind is not fake, it's an essential part of what make human able to live together without killing and/or destroying each other.

If you're eating and someone start shytting in the table next to yours, you won't give him an HI 5 for being 'real'.
 
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