True but that’s not a good thing, lol, to just simply think about yourself and what will ultimately just effect you and that type shhit…that’s supposed to die when you have kids, I know it did in me, pause. Express yourself…but realize that it may effect your loved ones in ways that it doesn’t directly effect you,
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You right about the double standard…I admittedly co-sign it lol, women need to have some sort of lady decorum imo. Men, we savages bro lol
The issue is actually the last part. So I'll start there first.
No one really needs "decorum" because it's really fake. The human being, in general, is what we can call savage. If we all didn't have to abide by other people's rules and standards, and just be honest, you'd see the truth.
I don't know if the world would be better or worse, but it would be honest.
Women are true savages. They are more on code around other men tho. Especially men they know care about them. They have to put up a front to keep these men caring about them, to support them and protecting.
With all due respect, if we knew exactly what our mother's and daughters felt honestly about things we would not look at them the same and treat them like we do.
This is apart of their leverage and apart of what we think our purpose of being a man is.
This is why we hate seeing women act and talk like faith. We hate seeing women not be on code.
They are less on code around other women and when the get older like faith.
So thinking about other people's feelings and not speaking or being the way you truly are seems to be a standard we hold only for women, like I said.
But that actually hurts us as men in the long run.
Keeps most men from NOT truly understanding women. And making mistakes with them