Why some girls can't accept that they just not attractive?

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See this is why we can't ever have this discussion without some chick gettin in her feelings and posting some emotion filled dribble like this. READING COMPREHENSION, @FilliBuster and @thewiz703 already had this talk earlier in the thread but to a lesser degree. I'm not talking about the pretty or even decent looking darkskinned girls whose attractiveness is obvious but they were ridiculed by their skin tone and that lead to their insecurity. I'm talking about the really ugly girls who blame their skin tone and shyt on why dudes ain't checkin for them :snoop:. The ones who be like "OMG I can't get a man cuz they want a _insert complexion/or skin color here__ girls" when they really look like a big ass cantaloupe. I hate when a lot of you nikkas go around callin people c00ns for the stupidest shyt (I used an eggplant example? there are light skinned hos whose face and body look like mac and cheese too), I am attracted to black women of all complexions but a lot of girls use the colorism as an excuse and try to paint a picture for the reason nikkas ain't checkin for you damn.
again you are still deflecting. Like I said a child being called black their whole life will equate that to them being ugly so if a dark skinned woman who just so happens to not be that attractive is complaining, you have no right to call her delusional. DO NOT blame the victim, blame the system that poisoned her mind.
 

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It's annoying.
They're really no different than those dusty negros they complain about not staying their lane.
It's just easier to blame everyone else than it is to look in the mirror and come to terms that if she was a guy, she wouldn't even date herself.
Real talk too many nikkas feed into the shyt about you can fukk anybody long as you got enough game :mjlol:
Women are the ones who do the choosing, game is just having a set of rules you follow in order make sure the woman doesn't change her mind about you
Too many broke ass crusty lookin nikkas tryin to bag a dime, but they bring nothing to the table LOL why would that chick want you if she can get a Trey Songz lookin nikka with a degree who can take her to Paris and shyt?
 

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again you are still deflecting. Like I said a child being called black their whole life will equate that to them being ugly so if a dark skinned woman who just so happens to not be that attractive is complaining, you have no right to call her delusional. DO NOT blame the victim, blame the system that poisoned her mind.
I'm not deflecting girl :dahell: Yes I do blame the systematic white supremacy that American society was based and built upon for these issues of complexion and skin color that black women face every single day but...if this chick looks like
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and thinks the main reason she cant get a man is her skin tone then yes that is DELUSIONAL and I WILL BLAME HER AND THE FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS WHO ARE LYING TO HER. Dont come into topics and see the words "light skin" and "dark skin" and try to bend the topic of discussion into something you want it to be. I understand what you are saying and that you seek a discussion of the deeper issues at play behind these feelings of inadequacy and that is ok, you probably have suffered in the past from these things but this is not the thread for it
 

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Men can be so damn mean about it when they tear down a woman's looks.

Yeah and women let ugly men down really delicately.
:heh:
People are usually colder to unattractive men & women. And nobody goes harder on ugly women than other women.
Yall invented the backhanded compliment.
They may not say it to their face, but females are just as ruthless if not more, especially if they don't like a chick.
 

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Yeah and women let ugly men down really delicately.
:heh:
People are usually colder to unattractive men & women. And nobody goes harder on ugly women than other women.
Yall invented in the backhanded compliment.
They may not say it to their face, but females are just as ruthless if not more, especially if they don't like a chick.

You're really mean yourself actually.
 

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I'm not deflecting girl :dahell: Yes I do blame the systematic white supremacy that American society was based and built upon for these issues of complexion and skin color that black women face every single day but...if this chick looks like
Precious3_red.jpg

and thinks the main reason she cant get a man is her skin tone then yes that is DELUSIONAL and I WILL BLAME HER AND THE FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS WHO ARE LYING TO HER. Th
Oh so now you're throwing fat into the mix when your original post only focused on them being ugly. Dude just stop. This whole thread is just an attack on dark skinned women and you know it.
Name me another subset of women who complain about guys not finding them attractive bc of their skin tone? Aint that what this thread is about?
FOH with your shyt.
 
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