Why some girls can't accept that they just not attractive?

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Its ingrained in every aspect of our culture.
And not based on weight, but on how Eurocentric a woman's look is. There are threads bashing darker-skinned women in this subforum, and many more priasing lighter-skinned women.

Most people on earth prefer lighter skinned mates. What are we to do about it? Why is it so hard for so many biitches to like who likes them?

 

[Draje]

Most people on earth prefer lighter skinned mates. What are we to do about it? Why is it so hard for so many biitches to like who likes them?

Lmao you tell this to dark skinned or short dudes too, right?

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Most people on earth prefer lighter skinned mates. What are we to do about it? Why is it so hard for so many biitches to like who likes them?

It because you're light skin and can't find anyone. You're trying to convince yourself your worthy. Dark skins taking all your girls






You is smart
You is kind
and You is important.

 

[Eternally Jaded]

I actually agree to a certain degree with the op, but let's keep it funky; some people do just outright rate darker complexions as a negative.
I've chilled with plenty of dudes n when we talked about females, cats would tear into one, centering all the negativity on her skin tone.
But at the same time, plenty just saw sexy as sexy.
I can't tell someone if they were right or wrong to be offended, especially when it comes to skin tone. As a caramel brother, I never got that treatment, but apparently some of my darker relatives did. I just wasn't cognizant at the time.
Also, I never knew the eggplant thing was a jab at darker skin. I thought it was more about the funny shape.

 

[Hijo de luna]

I'm not sure if we taking about colorism or uglyism but I'll add my experience as a midnight nikka. I come from a brown family. My moms was big on that complexion shyt, she stayed dropping lighter>. But that never affected me in the least, never had a preference. But typically the dark girls wanted the light nikkas and I couldn't keep the yellow chicks off of me so 95% of my women were light skinned.

But to ops point, black ppl can't blame everything on racism, women can't blame everything on sexism, and not-so attractive black ppl can't blame everything on colorism

 

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It because you're light skin and can't find anyone. You're trying to convince yourself your worthy. Dark skins taking all your girls






You is smart
You is kind
and You is important.

 

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Lmao you tell this to dark skinned or short dudes too, right?

YES! That's life. Get it how you live.

 

[aXiom]

Dumb fukking p0ast. An ugly motherfukker is an ugly motherfukker. If ur ugly, everything on u is ugly in a space where ppl are making snap judgments on each other based on first impressions. Same way a fat bytch is fat, has nothing to do with whatever dumb ass psychobabble ur talking about. If the nga ain't into dark skinned women, u shaming him ain't gon make him want em, what're u fukking stupid?

The world is not tasked with making u feel good about urself, bytch fukk u. I've seen hoes clown ngaz for all types of shyt, and rightfully so, cuz the ngaz was wack as fukk and ugly and had no confidence in themselves. Don't nobody owe u jack shyt, why the fukk should a man try to make u feel good about some shyt that he doesn't fukking like about u?

If I go to a restaurant and the waiter offers me ceviche and I tell him I don't like ceviche, does ur dumb ass think him tryna shame me into ordering ceviche is gon give me a change of heart? bytches sound dumb as a sack of wet hammers on here with this insecure sociological shyt.

I'm light skinneded, and a lotta bytches either don't like light skinneded ngaz or think red ngaz is on some simping ass Drake shyt. I ain't bout to try and shame bytches into accepting me, especially when there's a ton of bytches who are really into light skinneded ngaz. I take wtf I can get while the gettin is good.

Talkin some middle school, u act like ur in middle school, trying to force ppl to accept u the way u wanna be accepted, which just makes motherfukkers reject the fukk outta u harder cuz instead of shining based on ur own merits u have to try and psychoanalyze a nga and make him feel like he's crazy for not being into ur wack ass.

Hoes talking about Bria Myles like children lookin at baseball cards. Give a spit lube fukk about a Bria Myles, bytch stand on ur own goddamned two. If u an awesome thoughtful intelligent bytch, let ur fckn light shine and ngaz will step up.

I don't even like light skinneded chicks like that and I'm messing with a red chick now, why, cuz the bytch is the shyt and I like spending time with her and I like the way she makes me feel. It took 5 minutes of convo for me to see that this was spot on my type of chick.

Sound like some damn peckerwoods, always tryna turn everything into a "thing". I wish ngaz could shame u nutty hoes out here, maybe we'd stop blowing each other's brains out chasing money cuz u wack ass hoes would accept a nga for who and what he is rather than what's in his pockets. But real ngaz don't complain, we enhance our pro's and downplay our cons, dust ourselves off and get back in the game.

Why is this nikka in the red

May Allah guide you to a treadmill

The lack of chill

 

[HoloGraphic]

Idiosyncrasies and individual personality >>> all this.

I'd rather work on myself and have the pick of the litter than wandering around looking for handouts from others.

If you don't love and accept who you are right now, no one else will. All this is victim-sheep mentality.

But I guess the sheep will never be wolves either. #weaksauce

 

[tater]

The dark skin thing is real. I've had countless guys say things to me about me being the darkest they would go. I'm a caramel color guys saying that oh she's cute, but she'd look better if she was light skinned, etc. Honestly I'm not dark skinned so I don't have those problems so I can't comment on them, but to brush it off like it doesn't exist is not facing reality.

On the original premise of this thread though . I can't comment either, I'm cute. Or at least my family and friends said I was .

 

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The dark skin thing is real. I've had countless guys say things to me about me being the darkest they would go. I'm a caramel color guys saying that oh she's cute, but she'd look better if she was light skinned, etc. Honestly I'm not dark skinned so I don't have those problems so I can't comment on them, but to brush it off like it doesn't exist is not facing reality.

On the original premise of this thread though . I can't comment either, I'm cute. Or at least my family and friends said I was .

Most of those nigggas will wined up with darkskinned women. Ive seen this countless times. Trust me.

 

[Mountain]

bruh she says the dumbest sht lol.

 

[WhodatWhoadi]

That's that bruh but dead ass I be seein dimes with gargoyle lookin ass friends talkin bout OMG GIRL YOU SLAYIN, YOU LOOKIN WAY TOO GOOD TODAY

you see that all over facebook and IG.

 

[LadySimone]

The dark skin thing is real. I've had countless guys say things to me about me being the darkest they would go. I'm a caramel color guys saying that oh she's cute, but she'd look better if she was light skinned, etc. Honestly I'm not dark skinned so I don't have those problems so I can't comment on them, but to brush it off like it doesn't exist is not facing reality.

On the original premise of this thread though . I can't comment either, I'm cute. Or at least my family and friends said I was .

I'm not dark skinned but I DO have these problems. Any problems that affect other black women based on racism and bigotry is my problem.

 

[philmonroe]

Most men on earth prefer lighter skinned mates. What are we to do about it? Why is it so hard for so many biitches to like who likes them?

Fixed that for you because women actually prefer darker skinned men than themselves on avg.