Why Men Fear Commitment

[Swirv]

Why we have to make promises though? I'd rather just be.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

shyt I get nervous when my top button too tight

 

[SheWantTheD]

I get what you're saying but his incentive should be he likes whatever about me as a person and sees not only am I a good fit for him but I can make his life better on a mental, emotional, and financial level and he doesn't want to lose that nor does he want another man to gain what he could have so he commits to me.

I don't know what you mean. Those are all incentives men take into consideration before committing to a woman. Thing is men can have sex with a women and not want to commit to her. That's my point. So just because a man has sex with one woman and doesn't want to commit to her, it doesn't mean he's afraid of commitment. He might commit to another woman who he perceives as relationship material.

In today's world, both men and women have sex with people who they wouldn't raise a family with.

 

[SheWantTheD]

You ain't spitting facts. You rehashing the same boring topics that been done to death on this board.

Just keep it 100. You just trying to get a plat thread and this is the easiest way to do it.
Low risk. High potential for reward since the lames love to discuss it over n over.

I don't blame ya but I can't praise ya either

not really breh and I'm just opening a discussion. Whether it goes plat or not I don't care.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Once again..the fact that she is bringing the relationship word up at the beginning means she is gonna push the agenda in some way..

If both of their end goals are a relationship, then there would be no pushing. It would just happen naturally. The only time a man is gonna feel that he was pushed into a relationship is if he didn't want to get into one. Making what you want known from the get go solves all of this.

 

[Arishok]

I don't know what you mean. Those are all incentives men take into consideration before committing to a woman. Thing is men can have sex with a women and not want to commit to her. That's my point. So just because a man has sex with one woman and doesn't want to commit to her, it doesn't mean he's afraid of commitment. He might commit to another woman who he perceives as relationship material.

In today's world, both men and women have sex with people who they wouldn't raise a family with.

I was just making the comment on your OP where you said a man already had sex so what's the point in making a commitment. The way that could be taken is wait to have sex with a dude to make him commit, I get that's not what you're saying though.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I was just making the comment on your OP where you said a man already had sex so what's the point in making a commitment. The way that could be taken is wait to have sex with a dude to make him commit, I get that's not what you're saying though.

Yep. A man should want to commit to you out of his own will, not because the woman has threatened him or held off sex until he commits.