Why Men Fear Commitment

[SheWantTheD]

Men don't fear commitment. I'm assuming this false assumption and belief came from women having trouble getting men to commit to them. The truth is he just didn't want to commit to you.

Women place men in different categories ie one time fling, fukk buddy, relationship material, marriage material etc like men do.

He just didn't see you as someone that he wants to commit to, not necessarily that he's afraid of commitment. And there are some men out there that want to have sex with different women so they won't commit to one woman, and if they do they may sleep with other women behind her back.

You opened your legs up to him without him having to commit to you, so what incentive does he have to want to commit?

 

[Michael9100]

 

[Jean Jacket]

Women really want loyalty.

Loyalty is unconditional.

Commitment is contractual, and most people with something to lose are wary of signing up for lifetime subscriptions.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I don't agree just off the title. I understand where dude's coming from but I think it's due to people not really taking breaks from relationships and working on themselves. A lot of women jump from man to man, and eventually time comes for them to settle down so they choose the first dude that's willing to marry them.

They don't really love each other, People are marrying the wrong people. They are just doing it for comfort, safety, predictability etc. Ain't really marrying the person they are compatible with, share the same goals, aspirations etc. That's why women are getting bored and cheating on their husbands, divorcing them etc.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Women really want loyalty.

Loyalty is unconditional.

Commitment is contractual, and most people with something to lose are wary of signing up for lifetime subscriptions.

Do they really? I don't think women are any more loyal than men are. And by commitment I didn't mean marriage, but a relationship between just the two of you, exclusivity, etc.

 

[Worthless Loser]

Some may not be ready from a mental standpoint. Timing is important.

Good men won't commit if they know their temptation to cheat is too high. If they know they still plan on being out there, they won't tie themselves down knowing that it's going to cause nothing but drama when the dude's temptations get the best of him.

 

[Black]

I fukk better

 

[010101]

i made the choice to be honest
females choose to open up when the attraction is mutual
and more love is more love

deny all for the sake of one that's just bad mathematics

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[Jean Jacket]

Do they really? I don't think women are any more loyal than men are. And by commitment I didn't mean marriage, but a relationship between just the two of you, exclusivity, etc.

No one is 100% loyal.

We're human.

It's impossible to be commited without a contractual arrangement in my opinion. Dating is fair game.

 

[Abayo]

Maybe they just don't like commitment.
Women have been socialised into thinking having a man is some sort of goal. Men haven't...so maybe it's just either or for them
Indifference you know

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

Commitment is like a Lion giving up his section of territory in the wild and freedom to live in a damn zoo

 

[SheWantTheD]

I fukk better

what does that mean?

 

[SheWantTheD]

No one is 100% loyal.

We're human.

It's impossible to be commited without a contractual arrangement in my opinion. Dating is fair game.

You know what I mean. Loyalty within the confines of a committed relationship ie no cheating. That is very much possible within a relationship whether you're married or not.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

My fear of commitment stems from how men get ruined come divorce time

 

[SheWantTheD]

Maybe they just don't like commitment.
Women have been socialised into thinking having a man is some sort of goal. Men haven't...so maybe it's just either or for them
Indifference you know

Men are socialized to have women also. Don't you see those cats on YouTube whining and complaining about not having a girlfriend? They perceive themselves as less than because of their difficulty in attracting women.

In 2016 both men and women go through a period where they don't want to be in a committed relationship, and want to go out there and have fun. Women are becoming more like men in that regards, or maybe that's just how women have always been.