WavyHair ChippedTeeth
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You talking about cac females in the workplace or just in general?
In general. The “English Rose” type particularly, they have no losses at all.
You talking about cac females in the workplace or just in general?
Honestly it's because in Britain it seems that the Black male+White female is common. That's still pretty taboo over here.Funny thing is you see a lot of IR dating within American media.
It'd be interesting to see what percentage of the black British community and African American community engage in IR dating. I'd bet in terms of numbers it would be higher within the AA community.
Why is it assumed that every biracial person will marry and procreate with white people?What's the point of securing the bag if you're going to hand it off to biracial children who'll in turn marry a white person. You have to secure a foundation of black love first.
How exactly is it different? Not being contentious.Sounds like a lot of y’all never been to the UK, London specifically. Race is perceived a lot differently there and like dude above me said, class has a lot more to do with it. While the UK, like every country in the world, is still racist, their relationship with race is much different than what you get in the United States. Plain and simple, interracial dating and interracial friendships are less taboo over there and thus more common.
Honestly the same thing applies here...does a man want to choose from 1 million women or 30 million women?London has a population of 8 million people. 4 million are women. Let's say 15% are 20-30(because I know a lot of coli posters have issues with the UK's age of consent) in an acceptable non-exclusive dating range. That's 600k women total.
The demographic of black people in total are 15% so let's say there are 90k black women, so naturally 45k women are going to be average. If a breh is looking for something a little better than average he has a much greater chance accepting all women.
Are Y'all honestly gonna say you're going to miss out on approaching 500k+ women because they aren't black? Or that waiting for the perfect black woman is a better utilitarian strategy for UK brehs?
"The beast" didn't "make" any of these men anything.IR dating IS heavily promoted in the States... from the IR celebrity couples that are promoted to be exalted by the masses... to the mixed race celebrites that have become prevalent all of a sudden... even our last president was a mulatto...
Think about all of the half cac people that the beast have made leaders for black folk...
Jessie Williams
Trevor Noah
Barack Obama
Colin Kaepernick
That news host with the nerd glasses
And so on and so forth...
Black folk still have that old “I want light skinned curly hair green eyed babies” slave mentality and the beast promotes race mixing overtly and covertly. Y’all just don’t pay attention.
London has a population of 8 million people. 4 million are women. Let's say 15% are 20-30(because I know a lot of coli posters have issues with the UK's age of consent) in an acceptable non-exclusive dating range. That's 600k women total.
The demographic of black people in total are 15% so let's say there are 90k black women, so naturally 45k women are going to be average. If a breh is looking for something a little better than average he has a much greater chance accepting all women.
Are Y'all honestly gonna say you're going to miss out on approaching 500k+ women because they aren't black? Or that waiting for the perfect black woman is a better utilitarian strategy for UK brehs?
I hear what @channelblond is saying
A lot of the social economic divide can be even put on a north south divide.
But numbers are the only thing that can do the talking.
But we don’t have it as bad as some black Americans. That’s why I despise UK rap when they say “only had 2 choices: rap or ball”
And I’m saying this as a 32 year old black British African with a BSc, MSc and a £70-80k job. My family weren’t much in this country. But if you study, work hard and do your job it’s hard to fail in this country. Anecdotal evidence I know...
That ain’t a black or white ting.
And I agree with this
Not the fact am I going to not approach non black women, but rather when I approach women, they’ll more likely not be black because of those stats.
Facts
If you are black, got a hustle mentality, sense of grit and educated in a profitable skill.......I don't see how you can fail in this city
Anecdotal experience........my parents are straight from West Africa, they had to clean toilets to survive in this country, when they were studying for their bachelors
Now in assets alone their millionaires.
Also to your point on rappers, the influence on American culture is very strong......completely agree on that point.
West African parents too
My mum worked in bingo hall and every Friday night we’d wait up until she got home as she’s bring us food that they were throwing out, like chips and cake.
Or I’d roll around with my mum on Saturdays whilst she went to peoples homes to wipe their shyt from their arse just to provide for us.
She graduated uni in her 50s. All just to provide for us
From that I learnt never to rest and keep pushing. She just got the papers to say she owns her house in full and she is an immigrant to this country.
This country gives us so much. You just need to reach out and grab it rather than letting it come to you
For one, they don’t have 400+ years of slavery in their history. The racism there isn’t built into the fabric of the society the way it is in the US. Black ppl and white ppl don’t live as far apart from each other as they do in the US and from what I’ve seen, they share more of a culture with each other than Black ppl and white folk do in the US. It’s hard to explain, but there appears to be less venom between Black and white ppl in the UK.How exactly is it different? Not being contentious.
I may not be from the UK(though i do travel there since i got family in London and Manchester) but everything else in the post is exactly what my mom(and dad too) went through to provide for us. My parents had to start over from scratch since their previous jobs in West Africa didn't necessarily translate into a nice cushion job for them here in America.
My mom used to nanny for rich white families and my dad used to be a security guard in NYC while they were getting their degrees and medical residencies.
We were living in a tall ass housing project(what you guys over there call council estates right?) in South Bronx at the time and i barely saw my parents take a break for anything while my aunties pretty much did much of the cooking since she lived nearby.
Now, the grinding and hustling my parents went through finally paid off as my moms is a well paid nurse making over $120k and my dad a doctor bringing in over $300k with us owning our nice 4 bedroom home in the nearby suburbs away from our old hood.
And even now my mum hasn't even stopped studying despite the money she's bringing in now, now she's finishing her PhD.
It's because of them that I never gave up on my studies. WA parents don't play around man
For one, they don’t have 400+ years of slavery in their history. The racism there isn’t built into the fabric of the society the way it is in the US. Black ppl and white ppl don’t live as far apart from each other as they do in the US and from what I’ve seen, they share more of a culture with each other than Black ppl and white folk do in the US. It’s hard to explain, but there appears to be less venom between Black and white ppl in the UK.
I’m having trouble explaining it...but when you go to the UK you feel it. Race just seems to be less of a hang up over there in general.
are the factors of all this similar to how it is in the US?
You got me.. Wut is I gonna do now..
Jim Crow laws - Wikipedia
Sundown town - Wikipedia
Not this type of legal segregation there wasn't. Signs in windows don't cut it.
I think you don't understand exactly what happened in the United States.
Erm... I was there and it was not 'US' terrible. Barbecues while 'strange fruit' were hanging.. Not allowed to even look at people. Sundown towns.. Nope!
Nope. I said social is ok economic (and the things that this implies - education, housing etc) not. Maybe I should have said socially is 'superficially' ok. In short social lines are not as clearly drawn based on race. That is self-evident in the numbers. The lines are drawn using class as a factor so SOCIALLY deprived white and deprived blacks mingle more. By social I mean the deprived wallowing together like epicurus' swine; blasé, bonded, blissful, bloated and befuddled in and by their common paucity and penury.
I think premature emotion driven actions and invective can be added to your list of ignorance being a cause of a lack of progress. Failings in reading comprehension too. Next step address what I said. Rather than incorrectly infer something just ask first for clarification. I would wager that I am just as in touch as you on the ills of racism in the UK. That is why I no longer live there. I spoke in my previous post about the paucity of real (governmental) action but somehow that lovely article+comment escaped your wit.
Yes socially racism in the UK is less than in the USA but with regard to the things that matter in life (actually being able to make economic progress) it is worse and that is why I prefer the USA (or even Germany) to the UK.
I wouldn't go back to all the BS (re. the things that really matter) in the UK for all the tea in China.
This is not the discussion to get into all of that but in short the UK talks a lot but is rooted in age old attitudes. This means that Blacks are able to 'get along' in certain parts of societies but to a greater degree than in the US are unable to become stakeholders and that is not about to change any time soon.
In nominally racist Germany or the United States, if you do the right things you can more readily make economic progress and that is the key to making (real) social progress.
UK breh here. The below is patently not true. At all. Meet a 28 year old black breh in London. Meet 20 of them. Their girlfriend or BM probably isn’t black. I say 12 of them.
Although - I think in the next generation this will fall.
Islington is a nice area.
Expensive too
I'm from Greenwich, London.
@Bonk negged me, because he doesn't believe I'm from London.
Get your money up. Send me a deposit, I will show you that I'm black, Nigerian to be exact.
I'm from London, all video evidence
£500 deposit.
We can do a ban bet
Both of my parents are born in Nigeria.
I was born in London
I will show proof. Ban bet, and 1000 in cash.
If I loose I will send a stack to whoever wants to bet, if I win the looser sends the cash and I get banned.
Easy beer money, if posters want to put their money where their mouth is
You're a beg and it's very obvious in your posts. What type of London man talks about "easy beer money"? You sound Aff asf.I enjoy my anonymity, but if someone wants to bet a grand which I will easily win.
I'm happy to take it
@Bonk .... lets do this