Why is interacial dating promoted more in the uk than the usa

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Funny thing is you see a lot of IR dating within American media.

It'd be interesting to see what percentage of the black British community and African American community engage in IR dating. I'd bet in terms of numbers it would be higher within the AA community.
Honestly it's because in Britain it seems that the Black male+White female is common. That's still pretty taboo over here.
What's the point of securing the bag if you're going to hand it off to biracial children who'll in turn marry a white person. You have to secure a foundation of black love first.
Why is it assumed that every biracial person will marry and procreate with white people?
 

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Sounds like a lot of y’all never been to the UK, London specifically. Race is perceived a lot differently there and like dude above me said, class has a lot more to do with it. While the UK, like every country in the world, is still racist, their relationship with race is much different than what you get in the United States. Plain and simple, interracial dating and interracial friendships are less taboo over there and thus more common.
How exactly is it different? Not being contentious.
London has a population of 8 million people. 4 million are women. Let's say 15% are 20-30(because I know a lot of coli posters have issues with the UK's age of consent) in an acceptable non-exclusive dating range. That's 600k women total.
The demographic of black people in total are 15% so let's say there are 90k black women, so naturally 45k women are going to be average. If a breh is looking for something a little better than average he has a much greater chance accepting all women.

Are Y'all honestly gonna say you're going to miss out on approaching 500k+ women because they aren't black? Or that waiting for the perfect black woman is a better utilitarian strategy for UK brehs?
Honestly the same thing applies here...does a man want to choose from 1 million women or 30 million women?
IR dating IS heavily promoted in the States... from the IR celebrity couples that are promoted to be exalted by the masses... to the mixed race celebrites that have become prevalent all of a sudden... even our last president was a mulatto...

Think about all of the half cac people that the beast have made leaders for black folk...

Jessie Williams
Trevor Noah
Barack Obama
Colin Kaepernick
That news host with the nerd glasses
And so on and so forth...

Black folk still have that old “I want light skinned curly hair green eyed babies” slave mentality and the beast promotes race mixing overtly and covertly. Y’all just don’t pay attention.
"The beast" didn't "make" any of these men anything.
 

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I hear what @channelblond is saying

A lot of the social economic divide can be even put on a north south divide.

But numbers are the only thing that can do the talking.

But we don’t have it as bad as some black Americans. That’s why I despise UK rap when they say “only had 2 choices: rap or ball”

And I’m saying this as a 32 year old black British African with a BSc, MSc and a £70-80k job. My family weren’t much in this country. But if you study, work hard and do your job it’s hard to fail in this country. Anecdotal evidence I know...

That ain’t a black or white ting.

London has a population of 8 million people. 4 million are women. Let's say 15% are 20-30(because I know a lot of coli posters have issues with the UK's age of consent) in an acceptable non-exclusive dating range. That's 600k women total.
The demographic of black people in total are 15% so let's say there are 90k black women, so naturally 45k women are going to be average. If a breh is looking for something a little better than average he has a much greater chance accepting all women.

Are Y'all honestly gonna say you're going to miss out on approaching 500k+ women because they aren't black? Or that waiting for the perfect black woman is a better utilitarian strategy for UK brehs?

And I agree with this

Not the fact am I going to not approach non black women, but rather when I approach women, they’ll more likely not be black because of those stats.
 

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I hear what @channelblond is saying

A lot of the social economic divide can be even put on a north south divide.

But numbers are the only thing that can do the talking.

But we don’t have it as bad as some black Americans. That’s why I despise UK rap when they say “only had 2 choices: rap or ball”

And I’m saying this as a 32 year old black British African with a BSc, MSc and a £70-80k job. My family weren’t much in this country. But if you study, work hard and do your job it’s hard to fail in this country. Anecdotal evidence I know...

That ain’t a black or white ting.



And I agree with this

Not the fact am I going to not approach non black women, but rather when I approach women, they’ll more likely not be black because of those stats.

Facts

If you are black, got a hustle mentality, sense of grit and educated in a profitable skill.......I don't see how you can fail in this city

Anecdotal experience........my parents are straight from West Africa, they had to clean toilets to survive in this country, when they were studying for their bachelors

Now in assets alone their millionaires.

Also to your point on rappers, the influence on American culture is very strong......completely agree on that point.
 

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Facts

If you are black, got a hustle mentality, sense of grit and educated in a profitable skill.......I don't see how you can fail in this city

Anecdotal experience........my parents are straight from West Africa, they had to clean toilets to survive in this country, when they were studying for their bachelors

Now in assets alone their millionaires.

Also to your point on rappers, the influence on American culture is very strong......completely agree on that point.

West African parents too

My mum worked in bingo hall and every Friday night we’d wait up until she got home as she’s bring us food that they were throwing out, like chips and cake.

Or I’d roll around with my mum on Saturdays whilst she went to peoples homes to wipe their shyt from their arse just to provide for us.

She graduated uni in her 50s. All just to provide for us

From that I learnt never to rest and keep pushing. She just got the papers to say she owns her house in full and she is an immigrant to this country. :yeshrug:

This country gives us so much. You just need to reach out and grab it rather than letting it come to you
 

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West African parents too

My mum worked in bingo hall and every Friday night we’d wait up until she got home as she’s bring us food that they were throwing out, like chips and cake.

Or I’d roll around with my mum on Saturdays whilst she went to peoples homes to wipe their shyt from their arse just to provide for us.

She graduated uni in her 50s. All just to provide for us

From that I learnt never to rest and keep pushing. She just got the papers to say she owns her house in full and she is an immigrant to this country. :yeshrug:

This country gives us so much. You just need to reach out and grab it rather than letting it come to you

I may not be from the UK(though i do travel there since i got family in London and Manchester) but everything else in the post is exactly what my mom(and dad too) went through to provide for us. My parents had to start over from scratch since their previous jobs in West Africa didn't necessarily translate into a nice cushion job for them here in America.

My mom used to nanny for rich white families and my dad used to be a security guard in NYC while they were getting their degrees and medical residencies.

We were living in a tall ass housing project(what you guys over there call council estates right?) in South Bronx at the time and i barely saw my parents take a break for anything while my aunties pretty much did much of the cooking since she lived nearby.

Now, the grinding and hustling my parents went through finally paid off as my moms is a well paid nurse making over $120k and my dad a doctor bringing in over $300k with us owning our nice 4 bedroom home in the nearby suburbs away from our old hood.

And even now my mum hasn't even stopped studying despite the money she's bringing in now, now she's finishing her PhD.

It's because of them that I never gave up on my studies. WA parents don't play around man:salute:
 

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The only time I saw a lot of black Brits when I was in London was during Carnival. I stayed for five months in Kensington and Mayfair. I mean there are 61 million people total in the UK, there are anywhere from 40-70 million black or bi-racial black people in America. Doesn't seem to be an apples to apples comparison here.
 

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How exactly is it different? Not being contentious.
For one, they don’t have 400+ years of slavery in their history. The racism there isn’t built into the fabric of the society the way it is in the US. Black ppl and white ppl don’t live as far apart from each other as they do in the US and from what I’ve seen, they share more of a culture with each other than Black ppl and white folk do in the US. It’s hard to explain, but there appears to be less venom between Black and white ppl in the UK.

I’m having trouble explaining it...but when you go to the UK you feel it. Race just seems to be less of a hang up over there in general.
 

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I may not be from the UK(though i do travel there since i got family in London and Manchester) but everything else in the post is exactly what my mom(and dad too) went through to provide for us. My parents had to start over from scratch since their previous jobs in West Africa didn't necessarily translate into a nice cushion job for them here in America.

My mom used to nanny for rich white families and my dad used to be a security guard in NYC while they were getting their degrees and medical residencies.

We were living in a tall ass housing project(what you guys over there call council estates right?) in South Bronx at the time and i barely saw my parents take a break for anything while my aunties pretty much did much of the cooking since she lived nearby.

Now, the grinding and hustling my parents went through finally paid off as my moms is a well paid nurse making over $120k and my dad a doctor bringing in over $300k with us owning our nice 4 bedroom home in the nearby suburbs away from our old hood.

And even now my mum hasn't even stopped studying despite the money she's bringing in now, now she's finishing her PhD.

It's because of them that I never gave up on my studies. WA parents don't play around man:salute:


We call them council estates yep

But yeah sound story. I guess most of us are inspired by our parents.

Salute to your parents too bro

But I never want my child to go through what I had to. Those were some dark times :wow:
 

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For one, they don’t have 400+ years of slavery in their history. The racism there isn’t built into the fabric of the society the way it is in the US. Black ppl and white ppl don’t live as far apart from each other as they do in the US and from what I’ve seen, they share more of a culture with each other than Black ppl and white folk do in the US. It’s hard to explain, but there appears to be less venom between Black and white ppl in the UK.

I’m having trouble explaining it...but when you go to the UK you feel it. Race just seems to be less of a hang up over there in general.

I know what you're getting at and you're right. I've lived in London all my life and for the most part it's very multicultural.

Don't get me wrong there are areas and neighbourhoods that are predominately black or have a significantly higher black population than others, but these areas are dotted around the city, mainly concentrated in South, East and NW. Where as in America you'll have an entire side of a city that is predominately black, like I said it's segregation.

You've also got to understand that it's very common to have a crime ridden council estate populated by poor working class people right next to privately owned houses worth millions. It's a strange set up but it's just how it is. Everyone just lives side by side. Racial tension only really comes into play with the police (as far as London goes anyway, cities in the Midlands and up north have seen their fair share of racial conflict between blacks, asians and whites).

But having said all of this racism and discrimination against black people is very much alive in the UK.
 

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Jim Crow laws - Wikipedia
Sundown town - Wikipedia

Not this type of legal segregation there wasn't. Signs in windows don't cut it.
I think you don't understand exactly what happened in the United States.


Erm... I was there and it was not 'US' terrible. Barbecues while 'strange fruit' were hanging.. Not allowed to even look at people. Sundown towns.. Nope!


Nope. I said social is ok economic (and the things that this implies - education, housing etc) not. Maybe I should have said socially is 'superficially' ok. In short social lines are not as clearly drawn based on race. That is self-evident in the numbers. The lines are drawn using class as a factor so SOCIALLY deprived white and deprived blacks mingle more. By social I mean the deprived wallowing together like epicurus' swine; blasé, bonded, blissful, bloated and befuddled in and by their common paucity and penury.


I think premature emotion driven actions and invective can be added to your list of ignorance being a cause of a lack of progress. Failings in reading comprehension too. Next step address what I said. Rather than incorrectly infer something just ask first for clarification. I would wager that I am just as in touch as you on the ills of racism in the UK. That is why I no longer live there. I spoke in my previous post about the paucity of real (governmental) action but somehow that lovely article+comment escaped your wit.

Yes socially racism in the UK is less than in the USA but with regard to the things that matter in life (actually being able to make economic progress) it is worse and that is why I prefer the USA (or even Germany) to the UK.

I wouldn't go back to all the BS (re. the things that really matter) in the UK for all the tea in China.

This is not the discussion to get into all of that but in short the UK talks a lot but is rooted in age old attitudes. This means that Blacks are able to 'get along' in certain parts of societies but to a greater degree than in the US are unable to become stakeholders and that is not about to change any time soon.

In nominally racist Germany or the United States, if you do the right things you can more readily make economic progress and that is the key to making (real) social progress.

But some would argue that Jim Crow laws and Sundown town were a Southern thing in the US as well. However, does that mean those on the West Coast, North, and Mid-west in the US didn't go through whatever they went through in terms of hateful racism? The 60s in the UK were just as bad as it was in the US, those who lived through it, would tell you that. Even David Olusoga who's mixed with a white mum and lived through the 70s UK, shared the horrific things he went through as a kid.

Regardless, the emboldened excerpt of your post is the only thing I care about. Since you agree with me, there's no point dragging the issue.

UK breh here. The below is patently not true. At all. Meet a 28 year old black breh in London. Meet 20 of them. Their girlfriend or BM probably isn’t black. I say 12 of them.

Although - I think in the next generation this will fall.

You lot need to start talking about your bits in London and stop making blanket statements about everywhere else. I can't relate to this.Where in London are you from?

I'm from South London (the real South) and I seldom see mandem with white tings. My circle of friends alone is bigger than 20 and no one is dating a white ting. Mandem beat white tings from time to time but no one is wifeying or procreating with them tings there. You mans just give this overblown shyt too much air and you gas the ting up. London is small but it's also very big as well and mandem do different things in different endz. Just allow it and relate your experience and your bits, without speaking for everyone else.
 

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Islington is a nice area.

Expensive too

I'm from Greenwich, London.
@Bonk negged me, because he doesn't believe I'm from London.

Get your money up. Send me a deposit, I will show you that I'm black, Nigerian to be exact.

I'm from London, all video evidence

£500 deposit.

We can do a ban bet

Both of my parents are born in Nigeria.

I was born in London

I will show proof. Ban bet, and 1000 in cash.

If I loose I will send a stack to whoever wants to bet, if I win the looser sends the cash and I get banned.

Easy beer money, if posters want to put their money where their mouth is

I enjoy my anonymity, but if someone wants to bet a grand which I will easily win.

I'm happy to take it

@Bonk .... lets do this
You're a beg and it's very obvious in your posts. What type of London man talks about "easy beer money"? You sound Aff asf. :russ:

Anyway, I'm from South London (the real South London - Lambeth, Southwark, and Lewisham boroughs). So since you're claiming Greenwich, we're going to have to do this based on who you know and the schools you attended. I used to jam around those parts when I was in school and I done a year in college there, before transferring to a college in my bits. And my cousins went to Woolwich Poly and Plumstead Manor. Evidently, that should tell you I know mandem from there from way back and man used to be out there a lot back in day - from Greenwich, all the way to Thamsmead/Erith/Bexleyheath/Eltham. Back when mandem used to beef with those white yutes and when black people just started moving to them endz from other parts of South London. And that's also where the pengest naija tings in South London live.

We're going to start with your age. How old are you? If I start asking you to describe what mandem from your bits who're major look like and you can't describe them, then we're gonna have a problem.

How old are you and are you a male or a female?
 
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