Why is cheating on your significant other immoral?

[Raava]

If the only reason it's immoral is because it makes her feel bad, then is it moral if she doesn't find out? answer this for me but I'm sure you'll deflect with some bullshyt

I already did it's the lies and deceit. Lying about being faithful, lying or omitting what you were doing while cheating. Lying about where you are going etc... For there to be trust and you constantly betraying it regardless if she finds out it doesn't change the lies and what you are doing. You are either a selfish coward who doesn't want to face the consequences so you lie all the time or a sociopath with no conscious

I am guessing the former because you keep trying to justify your cowardice as protecting her when it's really protecting yourself. Do you breh breh

 

[Guru]

 

[Guru]

I already did it's the lies and deceit. Lying about being faithful, lying or omitting what you were doing while cheating. Lying about where you are going etc... For there to be trust and you constantly betraying it regardless if she finds out it doesn't change the lies and what you are doing. You are either a selfish coward who doesn't want to face the consequences so you lie all the time or a sociopath with no conscious

I am guessing the former because you keep trying to justify your cowardice as protecting her when it's really protecting yourself. Do you breh breh

So the only thing immoral about cheating is the possibility of hurting your partners feelings?

 

[Guru]

what kind of dumb ass reasoning is this, do you get tested every time you have a sexual encounter with someone other than your significant other?

No. That's why when you cheating you can't be out and about sliding up in and out of random hoes you gotta be discreet and safe. Cheating ain't some fukk whoever whenever type of jig

 

[Raava]

So the only thing immoral about cheating is the possibility of hurting your partners feelings?

Can you read?

 

[StickStickly]

No. Honesty and responsibility are manly. You're avoiding both. A man's thought process will force him to acknowledge the fact that he's deceiving his partner because he knows it's wrong and if YOU truly believed cheating to not be immoral you wouldn't bother lying. Where your thought process goes from there is your business but you would acknowledge that the fault here lies with YOU. I bet you never told your girl or any girl offline you thought cheating isn't immoral

A woman would rationalize their deception by saying the truth would hurt him too much (enough for him to dump me) so keep lying. Or by spinning the blame off on everything from their partner (women's go to) to human nature (unmanly men's go to). "It's not my fault I'm doing something everyone knows it's wrong, It's biology fault for making me desire other women! It's society that forced me to lie to my girl! it's women's fault for looking good! Committed relationships are the problem, they're too hard! "

just cut the obtuse bullshyt already. are you a troll or what

hold on though. regarding this post and your other women about "women lying about their sexual history and cheating", dating pasts isn't cheating. are you saying that men are more likely to tell their current monogamous partners their TRUE body counts, the grimy details of their PAST sex lives like they participated in a train, they had sex at a young age, or they had sexual feelings for a man? or are you saying men own up to their pasts?

 

[StickStickly]

No. That's why when you cheating you can't be out and about sliding up in and out of random hoes you gotta be discreet and safe. Cheating ain't some fukk whoever whenever type of jig

so you should know your cheating partner intimately enough to ensure they have had a recent std test and are clear? sounds like you have to have a type of relationship with them because you don't ask one night stands for their disease results

 

[Saiyajin]

its not

 

[Matt504]

No. That's why when you cheating you can't be out and about sliding up in and out of random hoes you gotta be discreet and safe. Cheating ain't some fukk whoever whenever type of jig

What it the woman you're cheating with doesn't disclose that she's sleeping with other men?

 

[Londilon]

a relationship requires honestly. If you cheat and hold back that information you are lying to her. Lying to someone only lasts for so long until it gets exposed. Once she finds out you are a liar and made it a point to hide your cheating its over. You can never get that woman back. You might as well go your separate ways because she will never trust you again and the relationship will never be healthy.

 

[Guru]

so you should know your cheating partner intimately enough to ensure they have had a recent std test and are clear? sounds like you have to have a type of relationship with them because you don't ask one night stands for their disease results

What it the woman you're cheating with doesn't disclose that she's sleeping with other men?

Cheating partner is just another word for side chick... I'm talking about a fling with someone you know wellor ex you still cool with just remember no raw dogging, not only is your partners health at risk but so is yours

 

[Guru]

Can you read?

Apparently you can't either

 

[BaldingSoHard]

If she does that then she never loved or cared about me in the first place

It's easy to default to absolutes when you've never had it / don't get it.

I would argue it's more likely that, at some point over the relationship, a person's feelings changed which opened the door for uncharacteristic behavior. People are ultimately driven by survival instincts, after all.

 

[Matt504]

Cheating partner is just another word for side chick... I'm talking about a fling with someone you know wellor ex you still cool with just remember no raw dogging, not only is your partners health at risk but so is yours

Knowing someone well doesn't preclude them from having sex with someone other than you, this is literally the argument your entire rationale anchors on. The person you're having a fling with doesn't earn magical trust points because you've known them for a while, I'd argue that they're less trustworthy considering they're knowingly having sex with someone who's already in a relationship.

 

[Guru]

Knowing someone well doesn't preclude them from having sex with someone other than you, this is literally the argument your entire rationale anchors on. The person you're having a fling with doesn't earn magical trust points because you've known them for a while, I'd argue that they're less trustworthy considering they're knowingly having sex with someone who's already in a relationship.

I see you what you saying but that's still not basis if this thread

If the only reason it's immoral is because it makes her feel bad, then is it moral if she doesn't find out?