Why is cheating on your significant other immoral?

[Kyle C. Barker]

How would ever know if your significant other is cheating on you?

Bcuz people talk mang


And even if no one says a thing about it you can tell if your significant other is cheating due to behavior changes. You gotta be a real sociopath to believe everyone is dumb and can't pick up on the way you move. Keeping thinking your girl ain't gonna be up on you being a lil out of pocket

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Is it because it could potentially cause anguish and emotional pain to your significant other?


Why? Someone tell me.

Answer your own question brehs.

 

[Tombstone]

Then you really didn't care about them in first place. Most people that cheat know that their gf or bf would be hurt by it so they try there best to keep it under wraps in order to protect their feelings

And it would be worse if I kept lyin to em about it and found out or to have a relationship built on lies. I did care for them but obviously not as much as I thought when I being a scumbag. I fukked up but I would rather them know the truth than being with someone who they think they're with but they're not.

 

[Guru]

Bcuz people talk mang


And even if no one says a thing about it you can tell if your significant other is cheating due to behavior changes. You gotta be a real sociopath to believe everyone is dumb and can't pick up on the way you move. Keeping thinking your girl ain't gonna be up on you being a lil out of pocket

But do you still think cheating is immoral?

 

[Raava]

Most people when they enter a relationship do so because like one another not because they expect the other one to be faithful. Being faithful is something that is expected but it's not a guarantee.

Um no they like one another AND expect them to be faithful

 

[Versa]

Look up the definition of the word "cheating"

It'll help you understand

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

Some guys like the perks of having a girlfriend or wife (dates, family, commitment) while also getting some every now and again, just remember to be discreet if you really love the person you with

Why not just find a girl who wouldn't mind an open relationship? Why build deception?

 

[Guru]

Um no they like one another AND expect them to be faithful

I disagree but that is not the basis of this thread

If you engage in safe sexual practices and don't get emotional caught up in it and keep it discreet is there really a devastating effect to a relationship?Is it immoral?

 

[Larry Lambo]

You didn't agree to be in a monogamous relationship. You agreed to be in a relationship because you liked each other.

And that's basically a "dont ask don't tell policy" which I referred to earlier

The monogamy in my relationships has been agreed upon. But I like clarity before having some chick try to justify sleeping around because "it was never established".

Don't ask don't tell is fine, but you're trying to be selfish and have her interpret the relationship one way, while you interpret it another way. It's deceit.

Dudes trying to justify "cheating" but don't want their woman to do the same.

 

[Guru]

Why not just find a girl who wouldn't mind an open relationship? Why build deception?

Why not have an open relationship then? Well the problem is, I don't want to KNOW that she is actually doing these things. I like the illusion of commitment more than the actual commitment and DEEP DOWN I think most people do as well

 

[Guru]

The monogamy in my relationships has been agreed upon. But I like clarity before having some chick try to justify sleeping around because "it was never established".

Don't ask don't tell is fine, but you're trying to be selfish and have her interpret the relationship one way, while you interpret it another way. It's deceit.

Dudes trying to justify "cheating" but don't want their woman to do the same.

Ok you've agreed upon monogamous relationship but then you cheat, do you keep it under wraps in order to protect your partners feelings or tell them and or allow them to find out and it's break up the good partnership you have already?

 

[Guru]

ironically this is how women think

about bodycounts

their pasts

cheating

lots of shyt

Men think like this as well

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Is it because it could potentially cause anguish and emotional pain to your significant other?


Why? Someone tell me.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Ok you've agreed upon monogamous relationship but then you cheat, do you keep it under wraps in order to protect your partners feelings or tell them and or allow them to find out and it's break up the good partnership you have already?

I think you have to. You've already violated her trust. It's gonna hurt her, but it's not the act of you telling her that is hurting her. It's what you actually did.

I can't tell you how to live your life tho. You gotta do what works for you.

But what is right for me is to be honest and ask for forgiveness.

 

[King Musa]

I've never cheated on any of my girlfriends (Didn't even have sex with the first two GF's to begin with) but, I had sex with a married woman while I was single just this year and that's still some scumbag shyt, I'll admit from my end and I strongly regret it even though her S/O doesn't know but, what makes cheating on your S/O so immoral, especially one you are married to, is the fact that you are breaking your word, your bond with the person you are involved with....Lying and being deceitful would be immoral in it's own....Especially to someone so close, someone so intimate...