I don't know what the objective is but there is definitely an global agenda to mix black people with white people (yes, think about what happened in Brazil).
And this agenda is more aggressive towards black women/white men couples, since the buck brigade already does it naturally i guess
No the issue is people ignoring the gender roles we have in the dating world.
Also I noticed that people tend to want to paint a false picture of us because those gender roles.
I see no evidence that black women are less willing to marry out I just see that white men are less likely to ask them to marry them
I saw a breakdown of this on twitter recently. Apparently roughly around 50% (it was slightly less iirc) of black people with Caribbean lineage are dating out in the UK
But for black people with African lineage +80% dated black.
I would pull those numbers/tweets out but I’m currently banned from twitter cause I told a cac to kill himself (after he tried to justify a security guard racially profiling and following and trying to remove a breh from a store). If I get my account back I’ll try and look it up.
How else would you explain high rates of OOW births and low rates of marriage? There is something we don’t value in one another outside of fukking and it’s never addressed.
No the issue is people ignoring the gender roles we have in the dating world.
Also I noticed that people tend to want to paint a false picture of us because those gender roles.
I see no evidence that black women are less willing to marry out I just see that white men are less likely to ask them to marry them
Do you not understand that my post underscores what you are saying in your post? Conflating dating and marriage obscures the fact that we have no evidence of black people *dating out* at dissimilar rates, like you said. The bogus narratives surrounding this topic are a direct consequence of conflating the two!
I think Gen Z is simply more integrated. More and more black people are living in whiter and more diverse suburban areas than ever before. But I actually did a grow up in one of these kind of suburban areas. I saw many of the brehs dating white girls, including my older brother. A lot of these girls were fukking nothing but brehs and vice versus. Some continued through college. Its not a new trend—people just don’t measure who dates who so it’s not talked about as often. These women play the long game to get married, brehs marry them, and it typically doesn’t last because I honestly don’t think either group is compatible over the long term. Ww just love their privileges too much and brehs witness how much they change up on them and how wildly ignorant and crazy they can be soon after the babies come.
But 90% of the white women who you just swore would continue dating brehs, end up marrying Wm.that’s why their Ir rates continue to be the lowest. They mostly prefer their own.
It’s a phase ww seem to go through when they’re younger. Anyone who grew up around them, knows this.
I remember freshman year of high school(my introduction to it) this one white girl admitting to letting all these brehs fukk the shyt out of her(she was telling us her sex stories, how she would ride brehs for over an hour to make them cum—we were 14 and I was still a virgin, I just couldn’t grasp how she was being ran through and sexing like a pornstar at our age).
Same shyt my brother was doing with white girls too, (I found dirty letters they would write to them lol!) these girls would also buy him things. Their parents would too. Their parents loved my brother. And he was a delinquent who was always in trouble but an athlete, class clown, popular, cool etc. he dogged those girls out. But better them, then Black women.
it’s not a new dynamic that started with Gen z, it’s just happening more and being seen on social media by people who didn’t grow up in those environments, there’s also more integration.
Going back to the 14 year old white girl i was talking about? She is married to a white man and has three blonde kids with him now. And nearly every white girl that I knew in high school and college that fukked with brehs married white.
Another thing to add is that a lot of time the white girls chase these brehs. I saw it happening all the time. They are very assertive (they just go up to you and hug you, ask you out, etc)—they are sexually liberal, and their parents didn’t seem to have real rules. They encourage it.
For example, At my school for spring break it was standard for the white girls to go to Cancun with their boyfriends and they were only 15.... I will stop and say that some of this ends up benefitting white girls—their parents let them date and have serious relationships at early ages. So they have that experience. They are also typically in two parent households so they see marriage—so it’s important to them. They are taught to get husbands when they go to college.
Completely opposite for bw. Me and my girls all had to sneak around to date. We’re told to just focus on our education and don’t worry about finding a man or a husband. Being that WW are the standard of beauty in our country, are over represented in porn too, and everything I’ve said above, they are set up to be married and desired—whether he’s black, brown or yellow.
I think rates are increasing and will continue too but I don’t think it will be as extreme as people assume. Most white girls still prefer their own.
The one dynamic that wasn’t common growing up in an integrated suburb was bw with wm. That is what is different about Gen z. if you know anything about wm, they do not approach and are not very assertive with getting women. They are subtle with it. That is one of the reasons white girls are more assertive to begin with—their men aren’t. Bw are typically more reserved so I’m wondering if the younger bw are not as reserved anymore?
Here's my hypothesis: the reason there is a marked difference in the rates at which black women and men marry out is because black men buy into white supremacy at higher rates than black women and therefore value white women as more feminine, prettier, and generally better (in accordance with white supremacy).
Why?
I'd argue that sexism provides black men with with a smidgen of power... just enough so that can be deluded into buying into this white supremacist system. If they just make enough money, they too can participate. Black women are (by and large) under no such illusion. We understand, by virtue of our position in the social hierarchy, that the only way is to dismantle the system totally and that buying in gets us nowhere. Colorism plays a part as well. Dark skinned black women understand the above concept far more than lighter skinned black women.
NOPE not gon happen. Black women all bark no bite. And non-Blk men want black women to have not to hold in a lotta cases.
Besides which that’s not what black women really want anyway. I don’t even think black men really want white chicks like that either to be completely honest.
Most just want attention of the blacks they were rejected by/ignored by growing up from what I see.
I think Gen Z is simply more integrated. More and more black people are living in whiter and more diverse suburban areas than ever before. But I actually did a grow up in one of these kind of suburban areas. I saw many of the brehs dating white girls, including my older brother. A lot of these girls were fukking nothing but brehs and vice versus. Some continued through college. Its not a new trend—people just don’t measure who dates who so it’s not talked about as often. These women play the long game to get married, brehs marry them, and it typically doesn’t last because I honestly don’t think either group is compatible over the long term. Ww just love their privileges too much and brehs witness how much they change up on them and how wildly ignorant and crazy they can be soon after the babies come.
But 90% of the white women who you just swore would continue dating brehs, end up marrying Wm.that’s why their Ir rates continue to be the lowest. They mostly prefer their own.
It’s a phase ww seem to go through when they’re younger. Anyone who grew up around them, knows this.
I remember freshman year of high school(my introduction to it) this one white girl admitting to letting all these brehs fukk the shyt out of her(she was telling us her sex stories, how she would ride brehs for over an hour to make them cum—we were 14 and I was still a virgin, I just couldn’t grasp how she was being ran through and sexing like a pornstar at our age).
Same shyt my brother was doing with white girls too, (I found dirty letters they would write to them lol!) these girls would also buy him things. Their parents would too. Their parents loved my brother. And he was a delinquent who was always in trouble but an athlete, class clown, popular, cool etc. he dogged those girls out. But better them, then Black women.
it’s not a new dynamic that started with Gen z, it’s just happening more and being seen on social media by people who didn’t grow up in those environments, there’s also more integration.
Going back to the 14 year old white girl i was talking about? She is married to a white man and has three blonde kids with him now. And nearly every white girl that I knew in high school and college that fukked with brehs married white.
Another thing to add is that a lot of time the white girls chase these brehs. I saw it happening all the time. They are very assertive (they just go up to you and hug you, ask you out, etc)—they are sexually liberal, and their parents didn’t seem to have real rules. They encourage it.
For example, At my school for spring break it was standard for the white girls to go to Cancun with their boyfriends and they were only 15.... I will stop and say that some of this ends up benefitting white girls—their parents let them date and have serious relationships at early ages. So they have that experience. They are also typically in two parent households so they see marriage—so it’s important to them. They are taught to get husbands when they go to college.
Completely opposite for bw. Me and my girls all had to sneak around to date. We’re told to just focus on our education and don’t worry about finding a man or a husband. Being that WW are the standard of beauty in our country, are over represented in porn too, and everything I’ve said above, they are set up to be married and desired—whether he’s black, brown or yellow.
I think rates are increasing and will continue too but I don’t think it will be as extreme as people assume. Most white girls still prefer their own.
The one dynamic that wasn’t common growing up in an integrated suburb was bw with wm. That is what is different about Gen z. if you know anything about wm, they do not approach and are not very assertive with getting women. They are subtle with it. That is one of the reasons white girls are more assertive to begin with—their men aren’t. Bw are typically more reserved so I’m wondering if the younger bw are not as reserved anymore?
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