Why has the Rate of black people in interracial Marriages sharply increased in recent years?

[philmonroe]

You're skipping ahead. We can't even begin to address this issue until the first questions are answered.

Why are Black people marrying out, why are Black men marrying out at twice the rate of Black women.

We can't change or address something we do not understand.

Why are you trying to understand unless you trying to be in an ir relationship fakkit

 

[Matt504]

are we in the twighlight zone? It’s no way these bruhs can really be this dense

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They're not dense at all and have the same ability as us to interpret data, the data is just inconvenient and this is how people respond when people are confronted with things that don't fit into their preconceived notions.

 

[kingofnyc]

It is if that's all you do. No one respects a house husband. Imagine being a man told by your wife to sleep on the couch because you let her plate get cold one too many times when she comes home from work. And you can't say anything because everything is in her name. No women respects a man in that position. Gender bending shyt. Yall did what yall had to do out
of necessity but that m.o is not sustainable let alone productive. It's telling when you see so many examples of quote unquote strong independent black women switch up and become demure when they date out. Look at eve.

great point : it’s really interesting to think of her history coming up in Philly from a local stripper to becoming one of the big-time female rappers to taking it to Hollywood doing movies and television she always claimed herself “as the pitbull in a dress” but now has said she submitted it to her Caucasian husband

 

[Be Strong Blackman]

Pawgset is the army, better yet the navy. nikkas will ignore Latisha to spit at Amy.

i like black women but it can be a challenge on a daily basis. I hate that everything has to become a debate

 

[Be Strong Blackman]

For one,, we have a really stagnant population- abortion, prison, murders etc

Breakdown of the nuclear family meant few strong black communities. No black church. No generational wealth. So nothing worth marrying within for. No societal pressure, no money. Do your own thing. Black college men and women aren't even marrying each other at the rate of other races


There are more white women than the entire black race. Think about that

very true... the family structure is too broken. don't even get along. abortion is the number killer of black folks. Us black folks have that highest number of abortions.

 

[qwer]

That’s not shocking. The UK doesn’t have segregated communities to the level of America


Also Caribbean and African people in general love dating out.


It is what it is.

Wrong Africans in the UK date out the least it’s just Carribbeans

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

So you wouldn't have no problem with intermarriage with cacs if they were genuinely non-racist?

If we lived in an ideal world where everyone was truly equal, and race wasn’t a factor, then I wouldn’t have a problem with it. But group economics matters. We can’t pretend that the only difference is skin color. I’m not going to marry into a family where everything I worked for will eventually go back to white people. It is not up to us to fix a system they created. We are just looking out for our own as defense. That’s how I see it.

 

[Shoog Shatmi]

It looks like there was a noticeable uptick in IR marriages (all IR marriages, not just those with black folk) when Obama got elected in 2008, and another smaller bump when he got re-elected.

 

[EndGame]

If we lived in an ideal world where everyone was truly equal, and race wasn’t a factor, then I wouldn’t have a problem with it. But group economics matters. We can’t pretend that the only difference is skin color. I’m not going to marry into a family where everything I worked for will eventually go back to white people. It is not up to us to fix a system they created. We are just looking out for our own as defense. That’s how I see it.

Even in the world you described, I'd still wouldn't be cool with it.

 

[Bigsuk]

That's because black men are more desirable to non-black females than black women are to non-black males.

Now watch as everyone attacks me for stating the obvious.

Not totally true ... many white dudes Desiree black females but they just think black women don’t feel them based on things they see on tv etc ...

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

whats the gender breakdown

This.

 

[The Intergalactic Koala]

When I moved down here to Greenville that's all I ever seen. Interracial relationships out the ass and it's always the same situation:

• Black dude losing his balls in his wife/gf's purse
• Black woman having heated attitudes and looks at me and my wife like some sort of buyer remorse
• The dustiest looking bi racial children I ever seen
• Old Stinkmeiner ass black dudes
• Cornball ass black folks

The straight up works. Like look "love is love" and all that bullshyt, but I would not change my experience with my wife fibromyalgia and all for a thick PAWG that will break my blackness because they fail to understand the black man's struggle and inner strength.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Even in the world you described, I'd still wouldn't be cool with it.

Ok, that’s fine.

 

[Sensitive Christian Grey]

Wrong Africans in the UK date out the least it’s just Carribbeans

Lol found out your demographic

 

[kingofnyc]

Haven’t read through the thread yet. Has anybody blamed Black women yet?

But seriously, this isn’t new.
Reasons vary but all of it is social conditioning. Hip hop culture drove a lot of this for young black males viewing white women and exoticals and spicy Latinas defining them as what’s “poppin”. There’s is going to be a shift in black female thot rap that follows this trend soon. Mark my words. Slow ass black female rappers gon soon be talking about only wanting redbone men with straight hair they can run they fingers through. Coming to a ep mixtape near you.

Add positive stereotyping of non-black women as being “submissive or feminine”, colorism, and Black women image being associated with poverty and the ghetto and you get the handful of black men who are marriage-minded thinking that whiteness or anything but blackness is the answer. In spite of many anger-filled bitter scorned hoe tears from countless posters on this site towards me, I’ve been saying this shyt for years.

(Cue “FAT FEMINIST bytch! YOU FUKKIN AN ASIAN! YOU HATE BLACK MEN! DYCK WATCHING!”
Sorry. I can’t resist because these lames be mad as hell wit it too.)

Meanwhile, a lot of black women generation Z chicks are stupidly following the exact playbook they ironically mad at black dudes for following. But just like a lot of these black dudes have problems in these IR relationships, a lotta black women will get their wake up calls too. Because in spite of the issues we have in our community, foreign communities have JUST as much fukkery, if not more. Then you adding the possibility of racism, cultural differences and language barriers on top of that...AND these chicks being food for any man they meet regardless of race because they got bottom of the barrel self-esteem. AND the increased risk for women due to their vulnerability when it comes to dating men regardless. There’s a reason why a lot of women ain’t YOLO on foreigner dikk like that in most races in comparison to their men (Asians got some crazy shyt going on because them chicks chase a bag over anything.)

But oh well. You can try to tell people that the stove is hot, or you can watch em ignore you and catch them 8th degrees burns.


Solutions: Teach black love. Not just in relationships. But black self love. Little black girls and little black boys should look at this

And this

as the prototype. Sure others in other races can be attractive. But not more attractive than what we see when we look in the mirror if you got two black parents.

Fix black image, fix black self-esteem and you fix black love.

The rest is white noise and excuses. All that “they accepted me more” shyt or “I ain’t have nobody black on my level...” it’s excuses.

Because saying the truth for a lotta people is too hard apparently and gets people hurt.
Saying “Im a mentally broken buffoon who has internalized every single negative stereotype about the opposite sex in my own race and the top attractive people in my race don’t want me, so I’m going to switch it up completely for a non-black mate, date a non-black 5 and treat em like a dyme, take all kinds of racist, insulting shyt from them that I wouldn’t tolerate from somebody in my own race because their social value will give me the validation I need to overcome my inadequacies from wanting high value Black mates who didn’t want me in the past.”
I’m sure not everybody in an IR relationship is like this but a lotta people seem to have these hang ups.And whites profit from all races vying for them while they get the pick of the litter.

Or just ignore all of this and watch our race to the bottom continue as we get more Eve’s willing to c00nsplain for racist MAGA white husbands and more Chelsea Handlers socially pegging 50 cents in the media as he can only fix his mouf to bully blacks.

I don’t know why you keep regurgitating this over and over and over
the truth is this already happened which only makes me believe that you must be sort of young but as an old head myself I can tell you in the 80s in the very early 90s all black women did was lust after those same red, lite skin racial ambiguous types ... and it didn’t affect us one bit