Why do women want to label interactions so quickly?

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

how is this not common sense?



I'm reading through this thread legit confused on one hand but on the other I know why nikkas are apprehensive about not wanting clarity, because they're garbage and want to lead women on. If you're real, you'd let a woman know upfront what the situation is, either she's with it or she's not, but a lot of men would much rather just avoid "inconvenient" discussions if the result of those discussions might mean they can't have sex anymore.

How you gonna ask me the question but then answer it?
yes most of them are just tryna lead females on because answering it may result in the possibility of them not getting any sex and because of that, females get played. Judging by alot of what most these guys saying on the thread, they tryna make it out that females are being insecure or stupid for asking when it's really just wanting clarity. Men just would do anything to brush that question off but then again, if the guy has the same interest (beyond sex) trust that they are more upfront about it. When I first dated my ex, he's the one that told me we BOTH needa cut off whoever else we talking to because he wanted us to be serious. He's the one, after the first date, after the first sex to say he want us to be exclusive. That's how we ended up married but that just comes to show, guys can be straight forward like that if she is who they want. I think if a brotha brush me off once I ask that, that would be a clear sign to bang it then again, that's me. Some females are end too deep at that point.

 

[Neuromancer]

She may be asking because while she likes you, there's someone else that wants to date her (and she may like him too). Not wanting to ruin what you two have going on, she'll ask to see what's the next step she should take.

I always assumed she's got one other guy that's why I always have another girl somewhere with some potential.

 

[Neuromancer]

How you gonna ask me the question but then answer it?
yes most of them are just tryna lead females on because answering it may result in the possibility of them not getting any sex and because of that, females get played. Judging by alot of what most these guys saying on the thread, they tryna make it out that females are being insecure or stupid for asking when it's really just wanting clarity. Men just would do anything to brush that question off but then again, if the guy has the same interest (beyond sex) trust that they are more upfront about it. When I first dated my ex, he's the one that told me we BOTH needa cut off whoever else we talking to because he wanted us to be serious. He's the one, after the first date, after the first sex to say he want us to be exclusive. That's how we ended up married but that just comes to show, guys can be straight forward like that if she is who they want. I think if a brotha brush me off once I ask that, that would be a clear sign to bang it then again, that's me. Some females are end too deep at that point.

Who are you addressing?

 

[BaggerofTea]

Queen's Gambit.....

GOAT opening

 

[Mowgli]

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

If she needs to ask then she should already know the answer. When someone wants to be with you it's obvious.

 

[Penny 95]

You have been dropping a lot of knowledge and wisdom... You from the South?

Nope I'm from the Midwest

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

Who are you addressing?

@Matt504

 

[Geek Nasty]

If she has to ask she already lost.

Men are declarative with their intent in a relationship through actions and words.

She's asking because she's insecure and knows that she's moved too quickly.

Unfortunately many women are out here hustling in reverse. They think that they can get a solid commitment even after rushing on intimacy and other things. Some are so thirsty that they are not letting men date them, instead they are getting rode hard and put away wet and wondering why he doesn't call.

A true meaningful relationship is not something that can be rushed but by putting the cart before the horse people are out here getting played

I got respect for women who flat out ask where they stand. If she wants more, I'd rather her have a conversation than playing stupid games.

 

[Neuromancer]

 

[Neuromancer]

@Matt504

Oh.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Why wouldn't she? Frankly, why would she have sex with you outside of a relationship anyway?

I'm with Amethyst on this one. Yes men have a million ways to shame, coerce, finesse or seduce a chick into sex. But women gotta wise up. The risk of fukking a nikka who a.) don't love you, b.) don't respect u, c.) don't even like or wanna be bothered by you, d.) would push you to abort any reproductive life that might happen from intercourse...

Like I don't get it. Ain't enuff desperation in the world to jump on a dyck without having some semblance of certainty that he cares about me or wants to be exclusive with me.

But I digress, in answer to ur question, sex is rarely just about gettin a nut for a chick. When a woman is economically, and physically safe and secure and her emotional needs are met elsewhere, THEN it might be about getting a nut.

But otherwise, (and I dunno why we playing these games cuz u already know this) she is looking for a committed relationship with a dude who is devoted to her and willing to love, protect and provide for her. Ect.

She just wants to clarify the purpose of ya'll fukking so as not to let you #wastehertime2016.

And by clarify I mean affirm what she already knows but is too desperate or delusional to admit to...

 

[Ironman]

I just give her the

"Why does it matter? If we're feeling each other what does a label even mean? Isn't what we have good? A label would just mess what we have up. And I like what we have bae"

Sounds like scumbaggery

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

WThis why I'm bout to tell this bish she sound desperate and she should have 5-9 nikkas on her line at all times in case one falls off until she finds that one.

haha yo on dawgs i swear nikkas get tight when females have a roster

 

[PartyHeart]

As other ladies have said, its so that they don't invest in someone who won't invest in them.

However I don't agree with some of the other stuff that's being said. Contrary to popular belief it is entirely possible for women to be okay with just sex, but they need to know upfront if that's all there is to it so they can act accordingly. I also don't agree that if a woman asks what the relationship is she lost. I think assuming she can "just tell" from a man's words and actions is what gets women in trouble in the first place.