Why do women want to label interactions so quickly?

[Mowgli]

 

[Mowgli]

As other ladies have said, its so that they don't invest in someone who won't invest in them.

However I don't agree with some of the other stuff that's being said. Contrary to popular belief it is entirely possible for women to be okay with just sex, but they need to know upfront if that's all there is to it so they can act accordingly. I also don't agree that if a woman asks what the relationship is she lost. I think assuming she can "just tell" from a man's words and actions is what gets women in trouble in the first place.

Put dikk into a womans cervix for 90 days with no relationship and watch how she behaves.

All women have a gameplan until they get dikked down.

 

[PartyHeart]

Put dikk into a womans cervix for 90 days with no relationship and watch how she behaves.

All women have a gameplan until they get dikked down.

 

[Jimi Swagger]

I would be more concerned if she didn't ask this question. Who wants to be knocking someone who casually sleeps around with people after undergrad? Hope you are protected. People are rank with all types of diseases.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

She needs to know so she can priotize your dikk. Good sex= she sticks around regardless of label, Bad sex= she looks for guy with good sex

Hol up! This girl sucked my dikk, but I never smashed. then she asked me "what are we" after in incident. I'm confused. She sucked my dikk I didn't smash now she ask me "what are we?" Explain breh

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Hmm interesting strategy. Whenever I sense a woman has more than me on the table she ends up in the trash pile or a pump and dump. Then again I assume all women are talking to other dudes. So I act accordingly.

This. Women are hoes. Rep

 

[Crayola Coyote]

fukk! What the name of this anime?

 

[Crayola Coyote]

She may be asking because while she likes you, there's someone else that wants to date her (and she may like him too). Not wanting to ruin what you two have going on, she'll ask to see what's the next step she should take.

The next step is getting rid of the all her options that she has. cause I'm the only friend on her MySpace and only follower on her Twitter.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I can't feel sorry for a chick that gets played. Not my issue or job to fix it. Welp.

 

[Neuromancer]

fukk! What the name of this anime?

Seven deadly sins

 

[Neuromancer]

 

[Neuromancer]

Why wouldn't she? Frankly, why would she have sex with you outside of a relationship anyway?

I'm with Amethyst on this one. Yes men have a million ways to shame, coerce, finesse or seduce a chick into sex. But women gotta wise up. The risk of fukking a nikka who a.) don't love you, b.) don't respect u, c.) don't even like or wanna be bothered by you, d.) would push you to abort any reproductive life that might happen from intercourse...

Like I don't get it. Ain't enuff desperation in the world to jump on a dyck without having some semblance of certainty that he cares about me or wants to be exclusive with me.

But I digress, in answer to ur question, sex is rarely just about gettin a nut for a chick. When a woman is economically, and physically safe and secure and her emotional needs are met elsewhere, THEN it might be about getting a nut.

But otherwise, (and I dunno why we playing these games cuz u already know this) she is looking for a committed relationship with a dude who is devoted to her and willing to love, protect and provide for her. Ect.

She just wants to clarify the purpose of ya'll fukking so as not to let you #wastehertime2016.

And by clarify I mean affirm what she already knows but is too desperate or delusional to admit to...

My question had a follow up. Don't know if you saw. I dealt with several women whom after I made my intentions crystal clear, verbally mind you. They decided to ask me for some sort of clarity. This is what confuse me.

 

[Londilon]

To ask where we are after sex is hustling backwards, she should have asked or let dude know she is looking for a serious relationship before sex. Dude thought from the beginning that it's was just sex only to be forced to now wife her. She thinks her p*ssy is going to make a nikka cuff her, but she is wrong.

 

[Arishok]

As other ladies have said, its so that they don't invest in someone who won't invest in them.

However I don't agree with some of the other stuff that's being said. Contrary to popular belief it is entirely possible for women to be okay with just sex, but they need to know upfront if that's all there is to it so they can act accordingly. I also don't agree that if a woman asks what the relationship is she lost. I think assuming she can "just tell" from a man's words and actions is what gets women in trouble in the first place.

This. Its usually more for clarity than out of insecurity.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Women want to feel special to men. It's really that simple.