Why do women only appreciate you when they’ve lost you?

JA_Carter

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I’ll never get this, you can do everything to make a woman happy yet a lot have this ‘grass is greener’ mentality, even trying to make you jealous like they’ve got real options. But the moment you take them up on it and return them back to the streets that’s when they see you value.

Why is it so hard for women to just appreciate you while they’re with you?
 

Mowgli

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You doing everything to make her happy like you the female bruh.

Did she

Cook
Clean
Do what you say


If not? Brother? It was never gonna be OK.

Give her the moon she want the stars
Give her the stars she want the universe
Give her the universe she says you're too controlling.

Start taking Brazillian Jiujitsu and upgrade to a real woman
 

JA_Carter

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You doing everything to make her happy like you the female bruh.

Did she

Cook
Clean
Do what you say


If not? Brother? It was never gonna be OK.

Give her the moon she want the stars
Give her the stars she want the universe
Give her the universe she says you're too controlling.

Start taking Brazillian Jiujitsu and upgrade to a real woman

:russ:You right, I have boundary issues/people pleasing tendencies so it’s something I’m more conscious of moving forward
 

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Because you are constantly fighting forces out of your control
Most of her council
Family specifically her female members
Friends
Coworkers
Modern TV or any media she consumes tells them there is something always better out there
Even when they have a man that really cares for them
That itch will always be there
It takes a strong, independent woman out of the matrix to realize what she has
A woman’s ecosystem is more evolved than men’s but it’s more detrimental to their lives
Many women will leave a ideal situation for them because maybe the season is filled with trials and tribulations
They can’t see how that builds a relationship or they can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel
So they go chasing that “feeling”
Then that feeling goes away and they see that new nikka ain’t no better once the gold stops gleaming
This has been going on for years
Social media didn’t bring the down fall
It just highlighted it
My ex wife been on that train since our divorce
I get weekly texts of bullshyt :russ:
If I wasn’t with the amazing woman I’m with today
I would possibly entertain going back just because of history
But nah
Women’s nature
Mens pragmatism :wow:
 
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When you crossed me you lost me, now if I was guarding Derrick Rose I’d be more understanding but, you ain’t Derrick Rose! :camby:
 
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