It's part this
and part this
A LOT of people are in toxic relationships.
Why do women label failed relationships “toxic” and/or “abusive”?
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If it never got physical verbal manipulative and there wasn’t cheating then it wasn’t toxic
I just wonder how these "toxic" dudes keep getting all these women.
She said don't be like that dude, he's a jerk. I said "why not? He bagged u and your bestie...and your frenemy".
Clearly there's something he's doing right lol. I'm never too proud to learn more.
She said don't be like that dude, he's a jerk. I said "why not? He bagged u and your bestie...and your frenemy".
Clearly there's something he's doing right lol. I'm never too proud to learn more.
MasterOfAllHeSurveyz
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Truth.
Yo Mama
...the sweeter the juice.
Also most people will only show their teue colours when they see that you are now emotional invested/attached to them...
One could easily flip this argument and say the 'brotherhood' is trying to protect themselves and each other by trying to dictate what parameters abuse/toxicity is.
Basically. All this gender war riggamarole is unnecessary when you start at the bold. If a woman says she was in a toxic relationship...you gonna tell her to present her case and prove it? I'll take her word for it...because I know that you can't be in a 'toxic relationship' without being able to relate to toxic motherfukkers...
You don't have to be actively trying to beat, manipulate or talk down to people to be toxic. Putting someone on a pedestal is toxic. That's just one of the many behaviors outside of outward abuse that just FEELS BAD, it fosters stagnation, self loathing and there is no way to be unaffected without removing it or yourself.
They can blow smoke up your ass all day but if they are constantly beating themselves up, putting your needs before their own, they start looking and feeling like this
Now if you part ways with someone with low self esteem in order to better tend to your well being...and you find that you feel better, they were indeed toxic. Not necessarily bad or even abusive, just doing more harm than good in your life at that time
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In the past 5 years, intimate partner homicide has been the 3rd, 4th, and 5th leading cause of death for women 18-44, and in Louisiana, it's the #1 cause of death for pregnant women. So yeah I most of these women saying their ex was toxic or abusive are probably telling the truth.
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Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
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everyone is a victim and no one is accountable to their own role in their mess
im at fault for every situation and relationship i was ever in...
even if its as simple as me choosing the broads
cant blame this on anyone but me
im at fault for every situation and relationship i was ever in...
even if its as simple as me choosing the broads
cant blame this on anyone but me
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
no one is discounting that.....
the point is these women play a role in their misery in almost all of these cases....
they CHOSE these men...if nothing else
nobody is getting into a relationship unless they want to
nobody is getting pregnant and having a child UNLESS they want to
outside of rape of course
these are CHOICES
None of this negates the fact that a woman or man was in a toxic/abusive relationship. Acknowledging that you were in a bad relationship and recognizing the part you played are not mutually exclusive conditions.
A lot of them are.
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Less important than if they learned from the experience.
Also men don't publicly complain about their exes unless it was something serious, we think no one cares and we don't really look for validation in that way.
Also men don't publicly complain about their exes unless it was something serious, we think no one cares and we don't really look for validation in that way.