Why do women label failed relationships “toxic” and/or “abusive”?
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Yeah maybe....but let's hear the other side first 
M.O.N.E.Y.
No lie
A lot of people refuse to admit they attract who they are.
I have been on dozens of dates, flings, and i'll only categorise one woman as a 'piece of work'. And guess what? I immediately bushed her after the first date. 99% of my interactions with women have been pleasant and cordial even if it didn't go further than the 1st date.
Where are people finding all these 'toxic' people and how are they letting them into their lives past the 1st, 2nd, 3rd date?
I have been on dozens of dates, flings, and i'll only categorise one woman as a 'piece of work'. And guess what? I immediately bushed her after the first date. 99% of my interactions with women have been pleasant and cordial even if it didn't go further than the 1st date.
Where are people finding all these 'toxic' people and how are they letting them into their lives past the 1st, 2nd, 3rd date?
Some people don't because oftentimes it's what they grew up with so they don't realize their parents were in toxic relationships and they're repeating the pattern. Some of us didn't grow up with parents in toxicity so we can recognize it and other red flags instantly and leave without hesitation.
Hungerpain
Banned
Another way to play victim and real in a sucker.
Saying you were in a toxic relationship is not necessarily saying you played no part in it.
Exactly. Realizing it and that using it as a lesson learned or realizing it and choosing to do the same exact things/choosing the same type of person again... and again.
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Dallas' 4 Eva
Superstar
I'd estimate about 80% of relationships are toxic bro. A lot of people didn't grow up seeing healthy relationships and don't know how to weed out the bullshyt usually until it's too late.
It's part of the Avoiding Accountability Handbook women use. Society (simps and other women) don't hold women's feet to the fire the way they do men so we get this type of vague copout.
Frankly a woman who subjected herself to a toxic relationship/prolonged abuse is too stupid/too much of damaged goods for me to take seriously so once I hear these buzzwords I know she's a cum dumpster
Frankly a woman who subjected herself to a toxic relationship/prolonged abuse is too stupid/too much of damaged goods for me to take seriously so once I hear these buzzwords I know she's a cum dumpster
Json
Superstar
Not all relationships start out toxic.
The fact you are comparing flings and first dates to long term relationships means you really don’t understand the challenges of having someone’s baggage and well-being as part of your life 24/7 for years.
People’s mental state can deteriorate for internal( unhandled emotional trauma) and external( job losses) reasons. And not everyone knows how to process it without hurting those around them.
bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
the only frame of reference is other men. some men i know are fukkin idiots and that effects the relationship, then some are cool.
then you can even use this forum as a frame of reference where posters tell their toxic tales. so you have a forum full of examples, either that or they are lying for daps which is weird.
the weirdest thing to me tho is how toxic men are to themselves. seems like they will put up with a lot they claim to hate just to get a nut. that energy can't be healthy for the mind and soul.
couldn't be me tho
then you can even use this forum as a frame of reference where posters tell their toxic tales. so you have a forum full of examples, either that or they are lying for daps which is weird.
the weirdest thing to me tho is how toxic men are to themselves. seems like they will put up with a lot they claim to hate just to get a nut. that energy can't be healthy for the mind and soul.
couldn't be me tho
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$cam-U-Well_Jack$on
Superstar
Sounds like some of yall just want women to suffer in silence...like the good ol' days.
Otherwise, there is no reason to be triggered by women saying they were in toxic relationships. Like, what's the point?
Otherwise, there is no reason to be triggered by women saying they were in toxic relationships. Like, what's the point?
We always rewrite the stories afterwards to make ourselves seem better and push the blame to the other person. Even I'm guilty if this