Why do women keep tabs on you if you supposedly have no chance.

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They are just intrigued by dudes that are ABLE TO. MOVE ON WITH THIER LIVES after being curved.....


They so use to simp dudes stalking them or keeping tabs ON THEM that it makes them feel AWKWARD cause it's a new role they are not use to

And has them questioning themselves ..

Then they realize the God awful truth they are not as ATTRACTIVE as they ASSUMED

Also they realize THEY DONT HAVE A LIFE

and are once again INTRIGUED ABOUT your LIFE which DOESNT INCLUDE THIER SELF CENTERED AZZ

My ex is like that..

She broke up with ME ...

yet she sent me an angry text on Facebook asking WHY I DONT CHECK ON HER OR KEEP UP WITH HER ... CAUSE SHE THOUGHT WE STILL HAD A FRIENDSHIP

IM LIKE BISH IM BUSY :manny:

She ain't been the same since :russ:

CAUSE I AINT LIKE THEM OTHER EXES THAT "KEPT TABS' ON HER....

I KEPT IT MOVING :manny:

So realize your WINNING she is INTRIGUED by the fact she had to keep tabs on u instead of the other way around

Keep doing what u do OP
.....let that hoe CHASE U

while u chase the CHECK :salute:
LMAOOOOO
 

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Had some dumb bytch try to play me close like this back in February but I deaded her and shes been blowing me up/whining over me for months till this day

She got even more livid when I got a girl round March:mjgrin:


My situation is a lil different cuz she wasnt tryna meet up cuz she "doesnt wanna get hurt" & she knows "i talk to alot of girls" and always asks if im talking to other girls tryna be possessive but I know of 2 dudes she was talking to at the same time as me I just gave no fukks. Soon as she started asking me who else I was talking to etc I knew it was instant projection these bytches are easy to see thru.I asked her to meet up a second time excuses came out so I ghosted her till she saw me in school and i acted cordial like "Im not ignoring u, i just changed my phone number, ill call u wen I get back home:mjgrin:" and she been stalking me ever since. "I HATE HIM" to her friends and "What did I do to deserve this" lmao



I might blatantly ask her for some p*ssy since shes working so hard for it or just keep her in the bushes where shes rotting. Idk.
These broads got low self esteem and rather than reciprocate to a dude giving them attention and cooperation, they'd rather chase the nikka ignoring them.

I had a chick do some similar shyt and wouldn't stop trying to get my attention after I just kept it moving.
 

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Had some dumb bytch try to play me close like this back in February but I deaded her and shes been blowing me up/whining over me for months till this day

She got even more livid when I got a girl round March:mjgrin:


My situation is a lil different cuz she wasnt tryna meet up cuz she "doesnt wanna get hurt" & she knows "i talk to alot of girls" and always asks if im talking to other girls tryna be possessive but I know of 2 dudes she was talking to at the same time as me I just gave no fukks. Soon as she started asking me who else I was talking to etc I knew it was instant projection these bytches are easy to see thru.I asked her to meet up a second time excuses came out so I ghosted her till she saw me in school and i acted cordial like "Im not ignoring u, i just changed my phone number, ill call u wen I get back home:mjgrin:" and she been stalking me ever since. "I HATE HIM" to her friends and "What did I do to deserve this" lmao



I might blatantly ask her for some p*ssy since shes working so hard for it or just keep her in the bushes where shes rotting. Idk.
These broads got low self esteem and rather than reciprocate to a dude giving them attention and cooperation, they'd rather chase the nikka ignoring them.

I had a chick do some similar shyt and wouldn't stop trying to get my attention after I just kept it moving.
 

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Classic young woman BBD game. Keeping you as a backup. Anytime women do this they're telling you "I can get better right now, but I don't know if I can keep better, but I bet I can keep YOU."

I'm an old head these females put that shyt down when they start pushing 30. That's their magic "better find a man before I run out of gas" number
 

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Had some dumb bytch try to play me close like this back in February but I deaded her and shes been blowing me up/whining over me for months till this day

She got even more livid when I got a girl round March:mjgrin:


My situation is a lil different cuz she wasnt tryna meet up cuz she "doesnt wanna get hurt" & she knows "i talk to alot of girls" and always asks if im talking to other girls tryna be possessive but I know of 2 dudes she was talking to at the same time as me I just gave no fukks. Soon as she started asking me who else I was talking to etc I knew it was instant projection these bytches are easy to see thru.I asked her to meet up a second time excuses came out so I ghosted her till she saw me in school and i acted cordial like "Im not ignoring u, i just changed my phone number, ill call u wen I get back home:mjgrin:" and she been stalking me ever since. "I HATE HIM" to her friends and "What did I do to deserve this" lmao



I might blatantly ask her for some p*ssy since shes working so hard for it or just keep her in the bushes where shes rotting. Idk.
These broads got low self esteem and rather than reciprocate to a dude giving them attention and cooperation, they'd rather chase the nikka ignoring them.

I had a chick do some similar shyt and wouldn't stop trying to get my attention after I just kept it moving.
 

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Lol some of you are off the deep end......You can't always explain personal relationships through sweeping statements and generalities, but I'll try my hand, with a less extreme rhetoric and intolerant tone....

We are all options to each other, at various points in our lives, and it's possible, as well as incredibly likely, that we all like each other, and "use" each other at the same time, it's with what degree of consideration that separates acceptable from non acceptable behavior. We all choose at different points to turn our attention on and off people whom we are attracted to and interested in. It's like musical chairs. One month, I'll go out with three different girls, the next, I'll get a text from someone I haven't seen in 5 months, and we will go out. We both have our own motives for accepting, and extending invitations. It's not nearly as horrible, or malicious, as some will make it sound.

You either do this, or cling to anyone who will have you, and sit down in the corner somewhere.
Yea you can. Most of the time if a woman is doing what OP is going through it's because of attention and there being other dudes in the picture. They keeping tabs on him, why????

And not everyone does what you said in your post. I don't do none of that time wasting sh
 

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Classic young woman BBD game. Keeping you as a backup. Anytime women do this they're telling you "I can get better right now, but I don't know if I can keep better, but I bet I can keep YOU."

I'm an old head these females put that shyt down when they start pushing 30. That's their magic "better find a man before I run out of gas" number
Women still do this in their 30s and up, the game playing don't stop.

And it doesn't mean the other dude is better, just means she's feeling him more
 

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Lol some of you are off the deep end......You can't always explain personal relationships through sweeping statements and generalities, but I'll try my hand, with a less extreme rhetoric and intolerant tone....

We are all options to each other, at various points in our lives, and it's possible, as well as incredibly likely, that we all like each other, and "use" each other at the same time, it's with what degree of consideration that separates acceptable from non acceptable behavior. We all choose at different points to turn our attention on and off people whom we are attracted to and interested in. It's like musical chairs. One month, I'll go out with three different girls, the next, I'll get a text from someone I haven't seen in 5 months, and we will go out. We both have our own motives for accepting, and extending invitations. It's not nearly as horrible, or malicious, as some will make it sound.

You either do this, or cling to anyone who will have you, and sit down in the corner somewhere.

You're talking abotu something else. OP is talking about females who aren't trying to get with him, but still seem to want to stay in touch with him.

When I was younger, I had a woman text me just to see if I'd text her back she never even responded :mjlol:
 

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Can't rationalize the irrational -

'I don't want you but I don't want no one else to have you...'

Pay them dust.


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I think it's more in his mind then reality that they have absolutely no interest in him, though exact details were not really given......Women, and men, are not always aware of the various ways we can send mixed messages, or be inconsiderate to each other, but generally women, and men are aware of whom they are texting and for what reason, whether they can articulate it or not. It takes interest on some level to text someone, scroll through contacts, or threads way down at the end, and get in touch. So, you ask her if she wants to get together in whatever form is suited to you and her, and if she doesn't, then you have your answer. Until the next time.
 

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because they want you to be thirsty over them. tho they dont want you, they still want you to lust after them and be an annoying simp. they dont want you to move on and pursue someone else and that attention is gone. you dont wanna be with those types of women anyway. very few are gonna be like "you were the guy for me all along"
 

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That's ji weird to me, cause like they're assuming you're just always gonna be there, I don't get that, like idk how someone can come to that mindset, it's borderline controlling really
basically you got the nice guy syndrome... aka won't fukk you but willing to put you in the backburner for boyfriend/relationship.

i know cause i got the same issue :yeshrug: and i do the exact same thing as you. don't pay them no attention, don't gas them up, talk to them like they are females and not someone i wanna smash and the result i get put in the friend zone.
it's amazing that you both have the same problem, both can figure out why you have this problem, but keep doing the same shyt as if it will change


they are using you for...................... nevermind.. just listen to this


 

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They are saving you like a PS4 game

Might play u later but first they fukking with COD nikkas
 
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