nikka what is wrong with you???!?? Women you got lucky with???? If y'all aren't together why are they telling you that you aren't giving them enough attention?
Get some self esteem about ya self
Why do women keep tabs on you if you supposedly have no chance.
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What do you mean what's wrong with me? The issue I'm bringing up is the fact they demand this shyt out of me for no reason how am I at fault here and how does my esteem play into his when I already gave up?nikka what is wrong with you???!?? Women you got lucky with???? If y'all aren't together why are they telling you that you aren't giving them enough attention?
Get some self esteem about ya self
SheWantTheD
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I don't know why women crave male attention so much. I've yet to meet a heterosexual female that can go a long time without male attention.
I get attention from a lot of women and I don't like it. Especially in crowded public areas, it makes me uncomfortable.
SheWantTheD
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Your at fault for entertaining women who use men for attention and as emotional tampons.
I've had women use me for attention but I've never had a woman I wasn't dating keep tabs on me.
Maybe because I don't play that shyt. I don't even text or call women twice with no response.
I keep that sh moving, I care too much about myself to allow others to waste my time and play with my emotions.
MalikX
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They keep tabs on in case:
- You become somebody in the future
- Other women start paying attention to you
- To have someone that pays them attention
- In case they need a simp to marry one day
Well I guess being a friend is probably just entertaining to them cause I really don't provide most the shyt other guys would (constant compliments dates n such) most I do is give advice. I guess it's just a rush they get cause of the lack of attention, you right tho I probably shouldn't fukk with people trying to take advantage of me that's not mutual at all
SheWantTheD
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nikkas need to be put on game.They keep tabs on in case:
Women
- You become somebody in the future
- Other women start paying attention to you
- To have someone that pays them attention
- In case they need a simp to marry one day
Entropy Fan
Superstar
They keep tabs on in case:
Women
- You become somebody in the future
- Other women start paying attention to you
- To have someone that pays them attention
- In case they need a simp to marry one day
This ain't the 90s these hoes are setting themselves for failure.
Marriage based caping is at an all time low
Entropy Fan
Superstar
Women are schooled from damn near day one. They are cut throat with their games by high school
Yet you still got brehs who think girls are nice and sweet
They are just intrigued by dudes that are ABLE TO. MOVE ON WITH THIER LIVES after being curved.....
They so use to simp dudes stalking them or keeping tabs ON THEM that it makes them feel AWKWARD cause it's a new role they are not use to
And has them questioning themselves ..
Then they realize the God awful truth they are not as ATTRACTIVE as they ASSUMED
Also they realize THEY DONT HAVE A LIFE
and are once again INTRIGUED ABOUT your LIFE which DOESNT INCLUDE THIER SELF CENTERED AZZ
My ex is like that..
She broke up with ME ...
yet she sent me an angry text on Facebook asking WHY I DONT CHECK ON HER OR KEEP UP WITH HER ... CAUSE SHE THOUGHT WE STILL HAD A FRIENDSHIP
IM LIKE BISH IM BUSY
She ain't been the same since
CAUSE I AINT LIKE THEM OTHER EXES THAT "KEPT TABS' ON HER....
I KEPT IT MOVING
So realize your WINNING she is INTRIGUED by the fact she had to keep tabs on u instead of the other way around
Keep doing what u do OP
.....let that hoe CHASE U
while u chase the CHECK
They so use to simp dudes stalking them or keeping tabs ON THEM that it makes them feel AWKWARD cause it's a new role they are not use to
And has them questioning themselves ..
Then they realize the God awful truth they are not as ATTRACTIVE as they ASSUMED
Also they realize THEY DONT HAVE A LIFE
and are once again INTRIGUED ABOUT your LIFE which DOESNT INCLUDE THIER SELF CENTERED AZZ
My ex is like that..
She broke up with ME ...
yet she sent me an angry text on Facebook asking WHY I DONT CHECK ON HER OR KEEP UP WITH HER ... CAUSE SHE THOUGHT WE STILL HAD A FRIENDSHIP
IM LIKE BISH IM BUSY
She ain't been the same since
CAUSE I AINT LIKE THEM OTHER EXES THAT "KEPT TABS' ON HER....
I KEPT IT MOVING
So realize your WINNING she is INTRIGUED by the fact she had to keep tabs on u instead of the other way around
Keep doing what u do OP
.....let that hoe CHASE U
while u chase the CHECK
You must be young. Here is what's happening. These women are using you for attention. You are getting a glimpse of the power of rationing it out.
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:AU_MJS:You's backup, dikk.
You's 'break incase of emergency' dikk.:AU_CHTC:
:AU_TEF1:You's one day I might gotta lay low so I'll trick this nikka into going out of town on a vacation on his quid, fukk him until my main nikka stop fukking with that bytch Deltreese, dikk.
You's settling down once he makes manager and I think I should quietly reign my Hoe period in and attempt to start a family with a nikka that still wanna hit, dikk.:AU_SK:
:AU_JD:You's post dated, dikk.
And that ain't bad breh unless you gonna obsess about it. How you gonna play it?
You's 'break incase of emergency' dikk.:AU_CHTC:
:AU_TEF1:You's one day I might gotta lay low so I'll trick this nikka into going out of town on a vacation on his quid, fukk him until my main nikka stop fukking with that bytch Deltreese, dikk.
You's settling down once he makes manager and I think I should quietly reign my Hoe period in and attempt to start a family with a nikka that still wanna hit, dikk.:AU_SK:
:AU_JD:You's post dated, dikk.
And that ain't bad breh unless you gonna obsess about it. How you gonna play it?
Had some dumb bytch try to play me close like this back in February but I deaded her and shes been blowing me up/whining over me for months till this day
She got even more livid when I got a girl round March
My situation is a lil different cuz she wasnt tryna meet up cuz she "doesnt wanna get hurt" & she knows "i talk to alot of girls" and always asks if im talking to other girls tryna be possessive but I know of 2 dudes she was talking to at the same time as me I just gave no fukks. Soon as she started asking me who else I was talking to etc I knew it was instant projection these bytches are easy to see thru.I asked her to meet up a second time excuses came out so I ghosted her till she saw me in school and i acted cordial like "Im not ignoring u, i just changed my phone number, ill call u wen I get back home" and she been stalking me ever since. "I HATE HIM" to her friends and "What did I do to deserve this" lmao
I might blatantly ask her for some p*ssy since shes working so hard for it or just keep her in the bushes where shes rotting. Idk.
She got even more livid when I got a girl round March
My situation is a lil different cuz she wasnt tryna meet up cuz she "doesnt wanna get hurt" & she knows "i talk to alot of girls" and always asks if im talking to other girls tryna be possessive but I know of 2 dudes she was talking to at the same time as me I just gave no fukks. Soon as she started asking me who else I was talking to etc I knew it was instant projection these bytches are easy to see thru.I asked her to meet up a second time excuses came out so I ghosted her till she saw me in school and i acted cordial like "Im not ignoring u, i just changed my phone number, ill call u wen I get back home
" and she been stalking me ever since. "I HATE HIM" to her friends and "What did I do to deserve this" lmaoI might blatantly ask her for some p*ssy since shes working so hard for it or just keep her in the bushes where shes rotting. Idk.
Ditto
basically you got the nice guy syndrome... aka won't fukk you but willing to put you in the backburner for boyfriend/relationship.
i know cause i got the same issueand i do the exact same thing as you. don't pay them no attention, don't gas them up, talk to them like they are females and not someone i wanna smash and the result i get put in the friend zone.
Lol some of you are off the deep end......You can't always explain personal relationships through sweeping statements and generalities, but I'll try my hand, with a less extreme rhetoric and intolerant tone....
We are all options to each other, at various points in our lives, and it's possible, as well as incredibly likely, that we all like each other, and "use" each other at the same time, it's with what degree of consideration that separates acceptable from non acceptable behavior. We all choose at different points to turn our attention on and off people whom we are attracted to and interested in. It's like musical chairs. One month, I'll go out with three different girls, the next, I'll get a text from someone I haven't seen in 5 months, and we will go out. We both have our own motives for accepting, and extending invitations. It's not nearly as horrible, or malicious, as some will make it sound.
You either do this, or cling to anyone who will have you, and sit down in the corner somewhere. Or obviously, find someone whom you truly love, and loves you, and do that.
We are all options to each other, at various points in our lives, and it's possible, as well as incredibly likely, that we all like each other, and "use" each other at the same time, it's with what degree of consideration that separates acceptable from non acceptable behavior. We all choose at different points to turn our attention on and off people whom we are attracted to and interested in. It's like musical chairs. One month, I'll go out with three different girls, the next, I'll get a text from someone I haven't seen in 5 months, and we will go out. We both have our own motives for accepting, and extending invitations. It's not nearly as horrible, or malicious, as some will make it sound.
You either do this, or cling to anyone who will have you, and sit down in the corner somewhere. Or obviously, find someone whom you truly love, and loves you, and do that.
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