Why do women keep tabs on you if you supposedly have no chance.

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I'm a bit curious as to if they are naturally possessive? I don't hook up with girls often, I get lucky about once a year, twice if I'm rollin, but I do shoot my shots still and I brick. Even so, they're good quality women so I still remain friends with them but I can't help but notice they have certain mannerisms with me. Often times if I don't talk to them enough they hit me with hella side eye emojis randomly with a sarcastic comment about being a stranger on social media. They ask about who I'm with and what I'm doing, if I get too distant they'll just straight up tell me I'm not paying them enough attention or I need to act nicer to them. They always seem to want to have some hand and ear in my business and I don't get it.

And I'm a bit confused, cause I always assumed that if a girl doesn't want you then nothing you do really matters to them. Is it like a maternal instinct thing? Have you ever had these situations? What did it reveal to you about your friends and did it change your belief on what "friendzone" really means?
 
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I'm a bit curious as to if they are naturally possessive? I don't hook up with girls often, I get lucky about once a year, twice if I'm rollin, but I do shoot my shots still and I brick. Even so, they're good quality women so I still remain friends with them but I can't help but notice they have certain mannerisms with me. Often times if I don't talk to them enough they hit me with hella side eye emojis randomly with a sarcastic comment about being a stranger on social media. They ask about who I'm with and what I'm doing, if I get too distant they'll just straight up tell me I'm not paying them enough attention or I need to act nicer to them. They always seem to want to have some hand and ear in my business and I don't get it.

And I'm a bit confused, cause I always assumed that if a girl doesn't want you then nothing you do really matters to them. Is it like a maternal instinct thing? Have you ever had these situations? What did it reveal to you about your friends and did it change your belief on what "friendzone" really means?

basically you got the nice guy syndrome... aka won't fukk you but willing to put you in the backburner for boyfriend/relationship.

i know cause i got the same issue :yeshrug: and i do the exact same thing as you. don't pay them no attention, don't gas them up, talk to them like they are females and not someone i wanna smash and the result i get put in the friend zone.
 

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basically you got the nice guy syndrome... aka won't fukk you but willing to put you in the backburner for boyfriend/relationship.

i know cause i got the same issue :yeshrug: and i do the exact same thing as you. don't pay them no attention, don't gas them up, talk to them like they are females and not someone i wanna smash and the result i get put in the friend zone.
That's ji weird to me, cause like they're assuming you're just always gonna be there, I don't get that, like idk how someone can come to that mindset, it's borderline controlling really
 

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Can't rationalize the irrational -

'I don't want you but I don't want no one else to have you...'

Pay them dust.
Kind of a scary thought, I wouldn't want to run into a woman that'll take it to heart and go a bit crazy, I've already had a few girls sus me out before, not trying to end up on id for some reverse rejection
 

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They have low self esteem so they want your attention even though they may not want you, it validates their desire 2 be seen as desirable and provides a temporary relief from their own insecurities.
Isn't that basically personality suicide almost? Cause what's my attention really going to do in the long run? Besides Reid excitement, I'm starting to think this extreme self validation people are getting needs a lot of monitoring this is kind of ridiculous
 

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Isn't that basically personality suicide almost? Cause what's my attention really going to do in the long run? Besides Reid excitement, I'm starting to think this extreme self validation people are getting needs a lot of monitoring this is kind of ridiculous
If what i said is true, your attention wont do shyt in tha long rum, which means tht most likely u not tha only one shes doin this 2. idk what u mean by personality suicide tho
 

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Text buddy fool

A guy they can send stupid texts to see how you respond before they send it to the dude they really like...

And you not the only text buddy they got...they have a few in rotation when they bored of another

Attention is powerful. It's the reason social media blew up. Stop giving your attention to women who didn't want you.
 

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If what i said is true, your attention wont do shyt in tha long rum, which means tht most likely u not tha only one shes doin this 2. idk what u mean by personality suicide tho
When I say personality suicide I mean by this manipulative behavior (to others and herself) she's going to basically falsify who she actually is which will probably lead to a bevy of problems related to their other actions
 
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