Why do women automatically blame bad sex on men?

[Mr.Plan B]

this is exactly what is going to happen

i had this one girl who was on some form of anti anxiety medication which made it very hard for her to orgasm. it only worked when i pressed my dikk into her p*ssy as hard as i could from behind while at the same time stimulating her breasts while she stimulated herself. it was a all very technical and not sexy at all, but i never complained since i figuered it wasn't her fault and if that was the only way she could get off than so be it. anyways, at some point in our relationship we had sex and i couldn't nut. it had nothing to do with her, i was simply stressed out at the time and couldn't relax. so the next day while i was at work she texted me.

her: "why are you even together with me if you don't find me attractive"
me: "why do you think i don't find you attractive?"
her: "we have sex and you can't come. do you know how embarrassing that is for me?"
me: "listen, that had nothing to do with you. i just have a lot do deal with right now, which has me stressed out."
her: "i don't believe you. if you'd find me attractive, there would be no problems."

so we went back and forth like that for half an hour, with me trying to explain to her that it had nothing to do with her and her insisting that i must think she's ugly, until at some point i got and said:

"i never said anything about you're problems to orgasm and was very understanding. how come you're allowed to have a problem, and when i'm stressed out one time it's the end of the world?"
to which she replied: "wow, now i can never have sex with you again without feeling ashamed"
then there were no more replies and the the next couples of weeks she got totally distant until i decided to end things with her.

talking to a woman about her performance in bed is a very delicate subject.

Yup women say they want the truth but they can't handle the truth...................

 

[karim]

Are you NOT better off without her in your life? If she can't take the honesty That goes for guys too. If sex is important in a relationship then it's worth it to have some honest conversations. If you're just looking to hit and dip, then it doesn't matter.

this is just one example. i have honestly never been in a relationship with a woman who could take criticism well and that doesn't just mean in terms of sex. for most woman, if you tell them they did something wrong or they could be better at something alomost equals you telling them they are worthless. my personal conclusion is that most woman have a very fragile sense of self, which probably comes from them constantly being put in competition with each other, which creates self esteem issues and the notion that they always have to be perfect. but that's just my two cents

 

[John Mayer]

no need to blame the media. Men really do talk about sex all the damn time. Like posters have said on here. Men really only go to clubs and places like that to get laid. They aren't there to just enjoy themselves.




Shifting the blame I see. Now men barely busting from sex cause women suck in the bedroom

Da da da Coli.com

Actually it's the opposite, men who only go to clubs to have sex with a lot of women don't do it for the sex these dudes want to maintain a certain image of themselves, they want to see how many females they can pull it's mostly ego for them. If these dudes only wanted to have sex, they wouldn't put up with the risk. If it were really about sex these nikkas would just get a girlfriend because nikkas who are single or hook up with women causally are not having sex as often as a man who's in a committed relationship.

I'm not shifting the blame the statistics indicate 50% of women can't orgasm or 75% can't orgasm from penetration alone, what percentage of these women do you think are just lying there on their back motionless, wondering why the can't get an orgasm? Like I said women think all they gotta do is lay there or occasionally suck you off if that....

 

[BlackBall]

This is why Latinas (Ricans, Venezuelans, Brazilians) are hands down the best in bed and why men pay good money to go down there. When they fukk its like a dance, first time this brazilian girl was grinding from the bottom I was like Now I have to teach girls how to do this. This one rican chick would wrap her legs around my legs (heels on my hamstrings) and use it as leverage, she would change up pace, twirl, spring bounce, all kinda shyt from the bottom, her rhythm was feels like yo dikk is getting milked, you'd think it would put a strain bouncing off rhythm, but the way she was doing it, it actually made humping easier. I still can't teach girls how to move like that, but years later I smashed venezuelan chick who did the same thing. they always bounce it back in doggy. Must be cultural or something

honorable mentions go to israeli chicks as well. they're down right freaks with energy.

Then why you fukkin a china chick?

 

[Rawtid]

this is just one example. i have honestly never been in a relationship with a woman who could take criticism well and that doesn't just mean in terms of sex. for most woman, if you tell them they did something wrong or they could be better at something alomost equals you telling them they are worthless. my personal conclusion is that most woman have a very fragile sense of self, which probably comes from them constantly being put in competition with each other, which creates self esteem issues and the notion that they always have to be perfect. but that's just my two cents

I agree with you actually. I still don't think you should be faking nuts or just dealing with dead fish sex because you're scared to hurt someone's feelings.

 

[CarltonJunior]

This is why Latinas (Ricans, Venezuelans, Brazilians) are hands down the best in bed and why men pay good money to go down there. When they fukk its like a dance, first time this brazilian girl was grinding from the bottom I was like Now I have to teach girls how to do this. This one rican chick would wrap her legs around my legs (heels on my hamstrings) and use it as leverage, she would change up pace, twirl, spring bounce, all kinda shyt from the bottom, her rhythm was feels like yo dikk is getting milked, you'd think it would put a strain bouncing off rhythm, but the way she was doing it, it actually made humping easier. I still can't teach girls how to move like that, but years later I smashed venezuelan chick who did the same thing. they always bounce it back in doggy. Must be cultural or something

honorable mentions go to israeli chicks as well. they're down right freaks with energy.

 

[Robert California]

This is why Latinas (Ricans, Venezuelans, Brazilians) are hands down the best in bed and why men pay good money to go down there. When they fukk its like a dance, first time this brazilian girl was grinding from the bottom I was like Now I have to teach girls how to do this. This one rican chick would wrap her legs around my legs (heels on my hamstrings) and use it as leverage, she would change up pace, twirl, spring bounce, all kinda shyt from the bottom, her rhythm was feels like yo dikk is getting milked, you'd think it would put a strain bouncing off rhythm, but the way she was doing it, it actually made humping easier. I still can't teach girls how to move like that, but years later I smashed venezuelan chick who did the same thing. they always bounce it back in doggy. Must be cultural or something

honorable mentions go to israeli chicks as well. they're down right freaks with energy.

Venezuelan chicks have started to peak my interest.
Some of the ones i've seen are just so
Just not sure if they on that

This Israeli chick approached me at the mall. (She was working at one of those booths in the middle of the mall that sells you those soaps from the "Dead sea")
She was touching all on my hand while making eye contact the whole time. Had these pretty hazel eyes.
Something about her. She just had this vibe like she'd be good and freaky in bed
The entire time I was

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

all stimulation
originates in the brain

your sexuality is based on the signal sent from the brain

if you have an orgasm problem

it is most likely a problem with YOUR brain

 

[CarltonJunior]

this is exactly what is going to happen

i had this one girl who was on some form of anti anxiety medication which made it very hard for her to orgasm. it only worked when i pressed my dikk into her p*ssy as hard as i could from behind while at the same time stimulating her breasts while she stimulated herself. it was a all very technical and not sexy at all, but i never complained since i figuered it wasn't her fault and if that was the only way she could get off than so be it. anyways, at some point in our relationship we had sex and i couldn't nut. it had nothing to do with her, i was simply stressed out at the time and couldn't relax. so the next day while i was at work she texted me.

her: "why are you even together with me if you don't find me attractive"
me: "why do you think i don't find you attractive?"
her: "we have sex and you can't come. do you know how embarrassing that is for me?"
me: "listen, that had nothing to do with you. i just have a lot do deal with right now, which has me stressed out."
her: "i don't believe you. if you'd find me attractive, there would be no problems."

so we went back and forth like that for half an hour, with me trying to explain to her that it had nothing to do with her and her insisting that i must think she's ugly, until at some point i got and said:

"i never said anything about you're problems to orgasm and was very understanding. how come you're allowed to have a problem, and when i'm stressed out one time it's the end of the world?"
to which she replied: "wow, now i can never have sex with you again without feeling ashamed"
then there were no more replies and the the next couples of weeks she got totally distant until i decided to end things with her.

talking to a woman about her performance in bed is a very delicate subject.

Sorry breh. I know how you feel.


@ having to essentially do this

to please her.


still not enough.

Underrated exchange in this thread

 

[mcdivit85]

no need to blame the media. Men really do talk about sex all the damn time. Like posters have said on here. Men really only go to clubs and places like that to get laid. They aren't there to just enjoy themselves.

And women don't have ulterior motives for the club? Women don't go for free drinks? Women don't go to get attention from random men to stroke their ego? Women don't go to actually meet men?

That's a bad example, lady. Women may tell themselves and their girlfriends that they take hours to get dressed, wear uncomfortable heels and spend their rent money just to "enjoy themselves" dancing in a circle. But let's not be obtuse for the sake of trying to make an argument that isn't there.

Let's just put this to rest and agree that I'm right and you're wrong

Peace

 

[mcdivit85]

I make my women freaks, as soon I introduce them to that ass eating game is game over.

 

[KinksandCoils]

And women don't have ulterior motives for the club? Women don't go for free drinks? Women don't go to get attention from random men to stroke their ego? Women don't go to actually meet men?

That's a bad example, lady. Women may tell themselves and their girlfriends that they take hours to get dressed, wear uncomfortable heels and spend their rent money just to "enjoy themselves" dancing in a circle. But let's not be obtuse for the sake of trying to make an argument that isn't there.

Let's just put this to rest and agree that I'm right and you're wrong

Peace

no. Never have me n the girls went to a club for some damn drinks. U can get. A 20 bottle from the abc store. nikkas r cheap these days anyways. I dont drink by the way. We go to enjoy ourselves

 

[Jimi Swagger]

From what I hear many dudes cant phuck, only Jamaicans and Italians. Never hear of older women needing performance enhancing drugs to stay aroused or having heart attacks while grinding on top of dudes half their age....unfortunately bruhs cant say the same.

 

[MillionMills]

this is exactly what is going to happen

i had this one girl who was on some form of anti anxiety medication which made it very hard for her to orgasm. it only worked when i pressed my dikk into her p*ssy as hard as i could from behind while at the same time stimulating her breasts while she stimulated herself. it was a all very technical and not sexy at all, but i never complained since i figuered it wasn't her fault and if that was the only way she could get off than so be it. anyways, at some point in our relationship we had sex and i couldn't nut. it had nothing to do with her, i was simply stressed out at the time and couldn't relax. so the next day while i was at work she texted me.

her: "why are you even together with me if you don't find me attractive"
me: "why do you think i don't find you attractive?"
her: "we have sex and you can't come. do you know how embarrassing that is for me?"
me: "listen, that had nothing to do with you. i just have a lot do deal with right now, which has me stressed out."
her: "i don't believe you. if you'd find me attractive, there would be no problems."

so we went back and forth like that for half an hour, with me trying to explain to her that it had nothing to do with her and her insisting that i must think she's ugly, until at some point i got and said:

"i never said anything about you're problems to orgasm and was very understanding. how come you're allowed to have a problem, and when i'm stressed out one time it's the end of the world?"
to which she replied: "wow, now i can never have sex with you again without feeling ashamed"
then there were no more replies and the the next couples of weeks she got totally distant until i decided to end things with her.

talking to a woman about her performance in bed is a very delicate subject.

Typical female statement

 

[mcdivit85]

no. Never have me n the girls went to a club for some damn drinks. U can get. A 20 bottle from the abc store. nikkas r cheap these days anyways. I dont drink by the way. We go to enjoy ourselves

N#ggas are cheap because they don't want to buy an overpriced drink for a random attention whoere who aint interested anyway? Yea ok

Peace