No, I have not done that but if she is into you it shouldn't be a big deal. If you were jack hammering the puss I would hope she would tell you to stop that shyt. Sex is great when you're honest and communicate. If you're assuming the person knows what to do then you set yourself up for whatever kind of experience you get.
Why do women automatically blame bad sex on men?
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No, I have not done that but if she is into you it shouldn't be a big deal. If you were jack hammering the puss I would hope she would tell you to stop that shyt. Sex is great when you're honest and communicate. If you're assuming the person knows what to do then you set yourself up for whatever kind of experience you get.
I think it's just easier for women to tell her friends a man was trash than it is to tell a man what she likes.
Gotta treat it like almost everything else when dealin' with women. Take initiative. Most of them are waitin' on us to do so.
Gotta treat it like almost everything else when dealin' with women. Take initiative. Most of them are waitin' on us to do so.
mcdivit85
Superstar
I would assume for the same reason that women lie to men about the same thing. Not wanting to spoil the mood at that very moment.
As a man, if you tell a chick you didn't orgasm while having sex with her, it's even worse than the reverse. Because, again, women assume that just being there is good enough. So, telling a chick that having sex with her did not produce a nut would be cause for a litany of questions that one probably doesn't want to answer after not busitng a nut in the first place.
Peace
Stop tagging me in these filthy disgusting threads.
at this coming from you
I am never this vulgar.
Looking at when this thread was made, and the responses. It's pretty clear who didn't get any this morning
A certain guy motivates a chick to do more.
Most guys bust in ten min or a short time... women barely get warmed up til after 7ish....
And most guys are bad in bed, so it's not always that women are wrong .
Most guys bust in ten min or a short time... women barely get warmed up til after 7ish....
And most guys are bad in bed, so it's not always that women are wrong .
Bless't
Living the dream
Go from bad sex to no sex.
"Baby, you're beautiful and talented. I dont know what I was thinking, saying you're even slightly below average in bed. I really need to work on my skills I think. You shouldnt even be with me honestly. Please forgive me."
this is exactly what is going to happen
i had this one girl who was on some form of anti anxiety medication which made it very hard for her to orgasm. it only worked when i pressed my dikk into her p*ssy as hard as i could from behind while at the same time stimulating her breasts while she stimulated herself. it was a all very technical and not sexy at all, but i never complained since i figuered it wasn't her fault and if that was the only way she could get off than so be it. anyways, at some point in our relationship we had sex and i couldn't nut. it had nothing to do with her, i was simply stressed out at the time and couldn't relax. so the next day while i was at work she texted me.
Go from bad sex to no sex.
"Baby, you're beautiful and talented. I dont know what I was thinking, saying you're even slightly below average in bed. I really need to work on my skills I think. You shouldnt even be with me honestly. Please forgive me."
her: "why are you even together with me if you don't find me attractive"
me:
"why do you think i don't find you attractive?"her: "we have sex and you can't come. do you know how embarrassing that is for me?"
me: "listen, that had nothing to do with you. i just have a lot do deal with right now, which has me stressed out."
her: "i don't believe you. if you'd find me attractive, there would be no problems."
so we went back and forth like that for half an hour, with me trying to explain to her that it had nothing to do with her and her insisting that i must think she's ugly, until at some point i got
and said:"i never said anything about you're problems to orgasm and was very understanding. how come you're allowed to have a problem, and when i'm stressed out one time it's the end of the world?"
to which she replied: "wow, now i can never have sex with you again without feeling ashamed"
then there were no more replies and the the next couples of weeks she got totally distant until i decided to end things with her.
talking to a woman about her performance in bed is a very delicate subject.
Elle Driver
Veteran
Never fukk someone who doesn't care enough to please you. That's y'all problem. Y'all ain't pleasing each other.
Bless't
Living the dream
this is exactly what is going to happen
i had this one girl who was on some form of anti anxiety medication which made it very hard for her to orgasm. it only worked when i pressed my dikk into her p*ssy as hard as i could from behind while at the same time stimulating her breasts while she stimulated herself. it was a all very technical and not sexy at all, but i never complained since i figuered it wasn't her fault and if that was the only way she could get off than so be it. anyways, at some point in our relationship we had sex and i couldn't nut. it had nothing to do with her, i was simply stressed out at the time and couldn't relax. so the next day while i was at work she texted me.
her: "why are you even together with me if you don't find me attractive"
me:
her: "we have sex and you can't come. do you know how embarrassing that is for me?"
me: "listen, that had nothing to do with you. i just have a lot do deal with right now, which has me stressed out."
her: "i don't believe you. if you'd find me attractive, there would be no problems."
so we went back and forth like that for half an hour, with me trying to explain to her that it had nothing to do with her and her insisting that i must think she's ugly, until at some point i got
"i never said anything about you're problems to orgasm and was very understanding. how come you're allowed to have a problem, and when i'm stressed out one time it's the end of the world?"
to which she replied: "wow, now i can never have sex with you again without feeling ashamed"
then there were no more replies and the the next couples of weeks she got totally distant until i decided to end things with her.
talking to a woman about her performance in bed is a very delicate subject.
Sorry breh. I know how you feel.
@ having to essentially do this
still not enough.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
what is the frequency of this happening? If sex is so sucky for men then why do men's life consist of sex mostly.
I can actually appreciate this because nobody has ever told me I was bad at something. I don't pretend to believe that means I was good at everything, though.
Westcoastnative
All Star
Women blame everything on men.