i understand both mindset.
i've worked with so many people that own houses and the number of expenses i hear them speak of collectively is enough to make me think twice about owning a home.
first u have to have 20% down payment...which is a sizeable amount. i'm not like most people that like to hop around from house to house. i hate moving. and the only way i deal with things i hate doing is to avoid doing them altogether.
so when i buy a house it'll be one i intend to grow old in. i aint in no rush.
here at my apartment, if anything goes wrong i call my super. he's here within 20 minutes. fixes my sh1t and leaves and doesn't charge me a dime. my rent is set. no surprises.
i must say though, blessed are those with homes all paid off. when i paid off a car years ago, i know the feeling i got when i received my title. sh1t was extraordinary. so i can just imagine how it feels living in a house where u aint goto pay mortgage and the only thing u responsible for is taxes.
however, most of the people in here who own houses will probably never pay that sh1t off in their life time. yeah ur suppose to pay it off in 30 years, but considering how most of u live ur lives, are you sure u'll actually live to see the end of those 30 years? something to think about. not to mention the fact that most of u carry all kinds of other debt, i.e. student loans, car loans, etc. u add that to your mortgage and u should realize how much of a hell hole you're in.