Why Do Girls Act Like This

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How old are yall? :dwillhuh:


I learned the contradictive nature of women early on in college, in the dorms. Girls will do everything to get your attention but initiate a blunt conversation. Had girls sit next to me EVERYDAY in class, ask for laundry detergent or study guides, stare me the fukk down, talk to my friends so that I'd know they like me, etc

Sometimes I was oblivious but then I smartened up. They put out the bat signal and you got to respond.

As far as why you're girl acts like you don't exist if you don't hit her, that's odd, maybe she got another nikka?

Chicks be asking you for help knowing damn well they know the answer :heh: One girl I used to mess with stayed looking in my direction in class (before). Not a cocky dude but, there weren't really any of cats worth noting behind me....so I knew. Remember one day she looked back and I just kept reading my paper :heh:

I made up some bullsh*t to ask her and it was on from there. Some chicks gonna stare, some might smile, some might talk to you first. You just gotta peep it. Personally, I don't waste my time unless a girl gives me a sign. My nikkas are more ruthless, they'll step to any broad on some cold approach sh*t. I ain't with that public embarrassment :whoa:
 

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They would act like you not even in the room, they ignore you and when you pull up they melt and be all on your dikk. This chick i swear never spoke to me ignored me once i started talking to her she was like oh i noticed you come in like 15 minutes early every day you werent here last week tuesday werent you....wtf, acting like i didnt even exist so if i didnt speak to you you would have acted like i never existed?

Twice this week it happened one i smiled and started convo with this girl and i left, she picked up her entire belongings just to chill with me. If i said nothing she would have acted like i never existed.
This other girl however is my on and off again girlfriend, when we were going through our shyt she never hit me up once so i stopped hollering, when i initiated convo she started crying talking about she counted the days i never called and i didnt care:why:


why do they do such a good job in acting like you dont even exist?



Because you're dealing with just that. GIRLS.

Most women (not all) are fairly assertive when it comes to catching the attention of a potential interest or making themselves noticed. They may not speak, but there WILL be subtle clues, random conversations, questions, bumps, or eye contact if she figures you to be out of the loop with her interest in you. Girls, on the other hand, play games, WILL ignore you, because they don't have the real life experience of courting men, or making themselves noticeable...Which is why they end up settling a lot of the time for the nikka who holla'd at them first. You'd be surprised to know how many "girls" (regardless of age -- its a maturity/experience thing) actually WANT you but won't say it or make it even a thought in your mind through the slightest gestures.
 

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Chicks be asking you for help knowing damn well they know the answer :heh: One girl I used to mess with stayed looking in my direction in class (before). Not a cocky dude but, there weren't really any of cats worth noting behind me....so I knew. Remember one day she looked back and I just kept reading my paper :heh:

I made up some bullsh*t to ask her and it was on from there. Some chicks gonna stare, some might smile, some might talk to you first. You just gotta peep it. Personally, I don't waste my time unless a girl gives me a sign. My nikkas are more ruthless, they'll step to any broad on some cold approach sh*t. I ain't with that public embarrassment :whoa:


Man, I will say NY nikkaz are a different breed. I got up there and them cats will holler at a girl at any moment, anything could pop off.
 

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I ignore dudes I like because I'm shy when it comes to dudes that I'm attracted to but once we get talking and there's a chance he also likes me, I can't stop talking to him :sadcam:



Then after a few weeks or so I get faded out by them :sadbron:
 

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Man, I will say NY nikkaz are a different breed. I got up there and them cats will holler at a girl at any moment, anything could pop off.

Philly cats no different. That aint my style though. If your mouth piece aint good enough to get her guard down, you gonna play yourself and after a few times, you'll be the thirsty nikka on campus.
 

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Girls like to be chased


Fixed. :childplease:

That's not to say women DON'T, or that they would rather chase men...But with time & experience, most "women" give up that immature shyt and put out some signs...U kno u my 18th baby mother & all boo, but :camby:
 

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Because you're dealing with just that. GIRLS.

Most women (not all) are fairly assertive when it comes to catching the attention of a potential interest or making themselves noticed. They may not speak, but there WILL be subtle clues, random conversations, questions, bumps, or eye contact if she figures you to be out of the loop with her interest in you. Girls, on the other hand, play games, WILL ignore you, because they don't have the real life experience of courting men, or making themselves noticeable...Which is why they end up settling a lot of the time for the nikka who holla'd at them first. You'd be surprised to know how many "girls" (regardless of age -- its a maturity/experience thing) actually WANT you but won't say it or make it even a thought in your mind through the slightest gestures.

This is why you see threads on the Coli like: "Why do I see fly azz broads with bummy looking nikkas".

Well....those bummy looking nikkas have no shame. None. Whatsoever. At all :pachaha:


But that's easier said than done for alot of dudes out here.
 

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Man there was this bad chick look just like Iggy azalea i mean looked just like her.

Son idk if i was tripping but she eyed me down while waiting for her food.

I could tell she was shy,but i said nothing and she said nothing and walked out after she got her food.

I like women to come at me i hate having to start a convo with hoes.

Ever chick i fukked came to me or said i was cute.



You will never know the thrill of a man's most ingrained genetical impulse, the HUNT. You, my friend...Are a fukknikka. :camby:




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Ol girl ass nikka....ur father would be ashamed....:ohhh: Actually, he prolly a bytch too, so he might be proud of ya lil easy bake oven ass :wrist: :umad: :scusthov:






























































































:troll: I'm jus fukkin witchu :russ:







































































But u still a bytch nikka :ufdup:
 

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Man there was this bad chick look just like Iggy azalea i mean looked just like her.

Son idk if i was tripping but she eyed me down while waiting for her food.

I could tell she was shy,but i said nothing and she said nothing and walked out after she got her food.

I like women to come at me i hate having to start a convo with hoes.

Ever chick i fukked came to me or said i was cute.

How old are you?
 

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i was flying this past august to london..lookin all right. Lineup, clean shaven, fresh white nike low-rise creps, white v-neck and jeans. 2 italian sisters were on the flight with me. We exchanged glances here and there at the check-in counter and prior to boardin, but i thought nothin of it. One of da sisters was straight :noah:..brunette, curvy, face like :blessed:. So we over da atlantic and dinner was just served when the hotter of the 2 sisters comes up the aisle all the way towards da back where i'm at lookin for god knows what. Now, again i thought nothin of it, so i kept watchin my movie. Keep in mind, i had 2 other empty seats next to me, so i was chillin. :salute:



bout 5 minutes later, i see da same shorty come back and at the corner of my eye i can see she stopped by the aisle seat. So naturally, i turn to her, put my beats headphones down and ask her wassup. She asks me if anyone is sitting in these 2 seats and i say naa, i'm solo. So she asks if i wouldn't mind if she sleeps here? All this time i'm thinkin, she was with her sister and there are empty seats up there, so why she comin back here? Is it in the cards? Am i gonna fukk this broad into oblivion and join the mile high club finally? :banderas:

So ofcourse, we get to chattin. Her and her sis were goin on em contiki tours throughout europe for bout 17 days or so. She was also startin law school when she got back, so this was her final hoo-rah. Man, her face, lips and smile when we was upclose :ohlawd:.

So i lay off da convo and go back to watchin da movie, cuz i ain't tryna press. She extends herself and ofcourse, she can't help but make contact with my thigh :whew:. Bout 20-30 restless minutes later she says she can't sleep and decides to head back to her sis. Said she was gonna come back cuz there was still 5 hours left to go and i told her not to be a stranger and she laughed and said i won't.


Well, she didn't come back. :to:and after landing when we went to get our luggage, i saw her, but didn't bother saying anything. Just got my bags and was :salute:


My game really needs a whole makeover. Either that or she wasn't really interested to begin with and really just wanted to sleep. :manny: But why abandon your sis and sleep next someone you don't even know? :patrice:
 

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i was flying this past august to london..lookin all right. Lineup, clean shaven, fresh white nike low-rise creps, white v-neck and jeans. 2 italian sisters were on the flight with me. We exchanged glances here and there at the check-in counter and prior to boardin, but i thought nothin of it. One of da sisters was straight :noah:..brunette, curvy, face like :blessed:. So we over da atlantic and dinner was just served when the hotter of the 2 sisters comes up the aisle all the way towards da back where i'm at lookin for god knows what. Now, again i thought nothin of it, so i kept watchin my movie. Keep in mind, i had 2 other empty seats next to me, so i was chillin. :salute:



bout 5 minutes later, i see da same shorty come back and at the corner of my eye i can see she stopped by the aisle seat. So naturally, i turn to her, put my beats headphones down and ask her wassup. She asks me if anyone is sitting in these 2 seats and i say naa, i'm solo. So she asks if i wouldn't mind if she sleeps here? All this time i'm thinkin, she was with her sister and there are empty seats up there, so why she comin back here? Is it in the cards? Am i gonna fukk this broad into oblivion and join the mile high club finally? :banderas:

So ofcourse, we get to chattin. Her and her sis were goin on em contiki tours throughout europe for bout 17 days or so. She was also startin law school when she got back, so this was her final hoo-rah. Man, her face, lips and smile when we was upclose :ohlawd:.

So i lay off da convo and go back to watchin da movie, cuz i ain't tryna press. She extends herself and ofcourse, she can't help but make contact with my thigh :whew:. Bout 20-30 restless minutes later she says she can't sleep and decides to head back to her sis. Said she was gonna come back cuz there was still 5 hours left to go and i told her not to be a stranger and she laughed and said i won't.


Well, she didn't come back. :to:and after landing when we went to get our luggage, i saw her, but didn't bother saying anything. Just got my bags and was :salute:


My game really needs a whole makeover. Either that or she wasn't really interested to begin with and really just wanted to sleep. :manny: But why abandon your sis and sleep next someone you don't even know? :patrice:

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I am very shy. If guys didn't come up to me I would never speak to them :yeshrug:. People take my shyness and quietness for being stuck up.
 

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Hmm... do you look stuck up, though?

Cause there are plenty of cute, shy, approachable looking women
How do one look stuck up? I don't walk around turning my nose up at people or mugging. But I do look away from people because of the shyness. When I am out with friends I am laughing and smiling all the time. I have no idea...:patrice:

Edit: Also people randomly talk to me and guys do so I don't think it's that. I just hear it after someone gets to know me they tell me.
 
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