Why Do Girls Act Like This

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They would act like you not even in the room, they ignore you and when you pull up they melt and be all on your dikk. This chick i swear never spoke to me ignored me once i started talking to her she was like oh i noticed you come in like 15 minutes early every day you werent here last week tuesday werent you....wtf, acting like i didnt even exist so if i didnt speak to you you would have acted like i never existed?

Twice this week it happened one i smiled and started convo with this girl and i left, she picked up her entire belongings just to chill with me. If i said nothing she would have acted like i never existed.
This other girl however is my on and off again girlfriend, when we were going through our shyt she never hit me up once so i stopped hollering, when i initiated convo she started crying talking about she counted the days i never called and i didnt care:why:


why do they do such a good job in acting like you dont even exist?
 

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because we like attention..especially attention from men we are feelin. I prefer u to call me and initate the conversation...:ld:
so if i dont initiate i lost my chance plain and simple?
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it's not even a gender thing. people / individuals in general are unique and approach things in very different ways.
when it comes to matters of the heart you should expect full blown kabuki dancing.

people act one way but on the inside they feel a totally different way in order to compensate
for what they believe are their short comings or just because they think it will work to their own advantage.

the sooner you learn this the sooner you will overstand yourself and the people around you.

read "The Art of War" and apply it you your personal relationships.
 

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Keeping my overhead low, and my understand high
Or if u have other females on the roster

Females love nikkas with options

That's real shyt, Drake.

You've got to keep them within arms reach and make them want you more than you want them.

It's a challenge if you don't have a stable, because your focus is narrow
it dont really its just really insane how bytches be checking you out lowkey ,waiting just waiting

I agree that it is. I always tell women that they don't know what they want. They try to refute it of course...but typically by that time I've already got 3 or 4 examples from that evening alone..smh They're a crazy breed
 

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Can I call u?
any time, suga :hug:
so if i dont initiate i lost my chance plain and simple?
goat sig by the way french da gawd
Not that u lose ur chances at all...its just that a lot of females (like myself) are very shy and if a guy doesnt out right show his interest in me, i automatically think he isnt interested in me which in turn has me thinking that i was only an option to him if it takes him forever to step to me :manny:

complicated, i know but hey...im a female.
 

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That's real shyt, Drake.

You've got to keep them within arms reach and make them want you more than you want them.

It's a challenge if you don't have a stable, because your focus is narrow


I agree that it is. I always tell women that they don't know what they want. They try to refute it of course...but typically by that time I've already got 3 or 4 examples from that evening alone..smh They're a crazy breed
Yup

The less thirsty you seem the more puss u will get

Took me a while to understand... Back in my simp Years
 

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because they try to avoid rejection like the plague. it's like ether to their soul. The ones who already have low self-worth put a lot of stock in how much in demand they are percieved. Being rejected and other people knowing about it would shatter this image and destroy what they've spent so much time trying to build (the allure, the mystique...) so instead they'd rather you take most of the risk. At the same time they figure they are above the guys who typically approach them (losers).

Also, if they show interest and they clearly see you notice it and you don't approach, it's a rejection but the worst part is that since no words are spoken, they will never truly know why and may be haunted by it for some time.
 
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