Why do a lot of married men seem so miserable?

[Duke Wy Lin]

I know a lot of brehs that are happily married (even though they'll be the first to tell you marriage is hard work). But there are also brehs who been beaten down by life (including their spouses).

 

[Baka's Weird Case]

Why do a lot of married men seem miserable and dead inside?

I straight up bump into a lot of older guys that tell me unprompted not to get married and enjoy being single.

They be looking like this in the face when their "better half" is around.

#DogsetK

why does the dog look like mitch mcconnell?

 

[ba'al]

I don't doubt the existence of people who are not happy with the marriages, but people lie about how well they're doing all of the time.

What I'm calling bullshyt on is a old heads randomly telling you not to get married and how bad it is. It is on par with announcing to the world that you're struggling financially which people don't do because for the sake of pride.

Most I have heard from old heads is that marriage is hard work.

I don't blame ya'll cats for not believing me after last week with @Luken. I don't see what I gain from lying to ya'll. So what would be the true story every man is happy in his marriage?

 

[WaveMolecules]

Men want to marry a woman because of who she is, thinking she won't change drastically.

Women tend to marry a man that they like but want to change into their ideal person.

We stay the same, and often times they switch up. Women do an incredible job playing their part until they are locked in.

Now you stuck. Bewildered at how come she is so different. Where is the woman you married? Driving you fukkin NUTS lol.

The craziest part is I'm sure all these dudes saw some hints/red flags showing who she really was but ignored it.

Source: Married 12 years together 15

as a married man, you hit the nail on the head.

still wouldnt change anything though

its like buying your dream car and getting frustrated cuz its need maintenance. it is what it is.

 

[The ADD]

I did talk to this old Italian guy who's been married for like 37 years. And he said basically his adult kids not living up to his expectation in life and him having to tuck his tail in and let his wife win 80 percent of the arguments in the household. That is what he said almost verbatim minus the tucking your tail in part. His son wants to be a Youtube gamer but dude is in his 30s.

Maybe you're right idk that's why I'm asking.

Lmao Mike is funny.

So 50% of it is not based on marriage

 

[ba'al]

So 50% of it is not based on marriage

With the Italian Guy idk? That's just what he told me unsolicited. He also mentioned his wife not cooking him pork. Idk if that fits into the percentage too.

 

[The ADD]

With the Italian Guy idk. That's just what he told me unsolicited. He also mentioned his wife not cooking him pork. Idk if that fits into the percentage.

Sounds like he needs to boss up.

Lol at being unhappy in a marriage because your wife won’t cook pork

 

[ba'al]

Sounds like he needs to boss up.

Lol at being unhappy in a marriage because your wife won’t cook pork

Ant is old ass hell only thing my mans is bossing up is some depends diapers.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Trapped financially. 99% of the time.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

They don't want to be locked down with they wives and women are throwing action at them left and right


Alot of women love taken men they will never admit it tho.

Also it's not what they thought it would be

And the burden of taking care of everything is getting to them


Making sure kids good
She happy all the time
Ur job and money right so it's not tight financially

Also worrying bout ur own happiness and mental health it's not easy

 

[Juggalo Fred]

Because most of them aren't married to a down ass Juggalette

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Because women are so incredible and great that men feel bad about themselves

 

[duncanthetall]

I work in construction and 90% of married dudes I work with talk about their wife like she’s an enemy combatant. Dudes getting married just to be married and not even liking the lady

 

[The ADD]

They don't want to be locked down with they wives and women are throwing action at them left and right


Alot of women love taken men they will never admit it tho.

Also it's not what they thought it would be

And the burden of taking care of everything is getting to them


Making sure kids good
She happy all the time
Ur job and money right so it's not tight financially

Also worrying bout ur own happiness and mental health it's not easy

Well then they goofed getting married

 

[Edub]

Why do a lot of married men seem miserable and dead inside?

I straight up bump into a lot of older guys that tell me unprompted not to get married and enjoy being single.

They be looking like this in the face when their "better half" is around.

#DogsetK

Because a lot of times they are miserable… but single ninjas be miserable too….