Why are women so obsessed with friendzoning dudes?

[FTBS]

Woman look at communication, approval, attention the same way guys look at head and p*ssy that's why. Of course they get off on it. Their ego is constantly stroked and they have all the power, who wouldn't get off on that? This book really goes in on the subject:

iTunes - Books - Corey D. Wilson's Girl's Best Friend by Corey D. Wilson

 

[RealAssanova]

My recent friend zone story.

I got this number from this chick the other day. We were texting back and forth for a couple days. out of the blue she said i was a cool guy but she wasn't interested in me like that, so i quickly deleted her number. The next morning i got a text saying good morning. I recognized the number as the one i deleted. i told her I'm surprised you hit me back. she said because i'm not interested in you doesn't mean i can't say Hi. SMH. the moral of the story is just to ignore a woman that will test her true intentions.

first off, you shouldn't have said that. Once you found out she wasn't feeling you, you should've ignored her text or replied to her like 10 hrs later.

secondly, text convo's are g@y as hell, not to mention the fact that ya'll been texting back and forth for couple days.

disregard dis one. Next h0e you step to, be a man about your intentions from the get. Then tell her to bless you wid her number and that you will CALL her on a certain day. And whatever you do, please keep the texting to as minimum as possible.

 

[semicko82]

first off, you shouldn't have said that. Once you found out she wasn't feeling you, you should've ignored her text or replied to her like 10 hrs later.

secondly, text convo's are g@y as hell, not to mention the fact that ya'll been texting back and forth for couple days.

disregard dis one. Next h0e you step to, be a man about your intentions from the get. Then tell her to bless you wid her number and that you will CALL her on a certain day. And whatever you do, please keep the texting to as minimum as possible.

i feel ya bro that's really good advice, but why would she keep texting if she knows my intentions is to be more than friends. it was like her ego took a blow of me turning down her friendship.

 

[RealAssanova]

i feel ya bro that's really good advice, but why would she keep texting if she knows my intentions is to be more than friends. it was like her ego took a blow of me turning down her friendship.

son, the only thing you should care about is whether or not she is game. She ain't, so why continue? ignore her even if she texts you 1000x. She wanted to make you another one of her textin b!tches that she could hit up whenever she needs attention/validation.

even if she gets desperate and tries to hook you back in by tryna switch it up and say she game, i'd be skeptical. Again, i'd delay my response, keep it short and to the point (this is only if she comes around). Otherwise, keep her deleted.

 

[thearmdealer]

From some of my convos with some of my homies, its hard to even be friends with some of these females. Like damn bytch, you might not like the dude like that but help the dude out by introducing your friends to him at least.

 

[semicko82]

son, the only thing you should care about is whether or not she is game. She ain't, so why continue? ignore her even if she texts you 1000x. She wanted to make you another one of her textin b!tches that she could hit up whenever she needs attention/validation.

even if she gets desperate and tries to hook you back in by tryna switch it up and say she game, i'd be skeptical. Again, i'd delay my response, keep it short and to the point (this is only if she comes around). Otherwise, keep her deleted.

ok that's whats up. it's like she low key disrespecting me in a way by making me just a text buddy. thanks for the advice.

 

[winb83]

Friendzoned means she knows you like her.

no friendzone means you don't know the art of dropping a non-cooperative woman. if ever you and a female aren't on the same page you go your separate ways. what you don't do is hang around some woman that rejected you and sweat her then call that the friend zone.

i spend a decent chunk of my 20s believing in such nonsense and trying to plot a way out only to realize its just a bunch of mind games you have to play with a woman that rejected you to get her to reconsider you all for the sake of your ego and the success rate isn't worth the effort.

the fact of the matter is after you play all the mind games even if you fukk her she still didn't want you you just ran a con game to get her to let you fukk. you probably bruised her ego or made her jealous and she fukked you to smooth that over. she really didn't want you and likely never will.

 

[Primetime]

no friendzone means you don't know the art of dropping a non-cooperative woman. if ever you and a female aren't on the same page you go your separate ways. what you don't do is hang around some woman that rejected you and sweat her then call that the friend zone.

I agree. she ain't ur friend, and ur not hers either. its typically either ur still young-minded and are on that 'happily ever after/she's GOT to be the one!' bullshyt.. or ur just on that dry spell with getting p*ssy/don't currently have many options readily available and so ur letting the thirst get to u in the form of bad decisions. but if you kick that young mindedness to the bushes 1, and then 2, continually seek and meet new females on some fun shyt (or if you simply decide u don't care about getting p*ssy)... then WTF r u gon care about a "friendzone"? lol

the shyt just becomes a laughable concept at that point

 

[Suicide King]

I think it is really hard on woman to friend zone a lame. I don't think they take pleasure in the whole thing.

 

[PhonZhi]

My recent friend zone story.

I got this number from this chick the other day. We were texting back and forth for a couple days. out of the blue she said i was a cool guy but she wasn't interested in me like that, so i quickly deleted her number. The next morning i got a text saying good morning. I recognized the number as the one i deleted. i told her I'm surprised you hit me back. she said because i'm not interested in you doesn't mean i can't say Hi. SMH. the moral of the story is just to ignore a woman that will test her true intentions.

update?

 

[LebronsHairline]

I once had this chick out her panties basically ready to get it poppin. Next moment i know shes breaking down crying and shyt talking bout how she only wanted to be friends and some otha shyt i wasnt listening to. I got up and put my shyt on and dipped out with the quickness cuz a nikka has no time for games. Never said bye or nothin cuz i cannot stand when bytches try and pump fake nikkas. So she hits me up the next day sayin she wants to see me and blah blah... i almost was about to say fukk it and just keep it moving but i cant even lie i still wanted to hit. Soon as i got over there she basically raped a nikka. She had that good box so at the end of the day it was worth it


but the bottom line...bytches be crazy yo

 

[Mr swag]

Dog I had the worst lead on friendzone story ever

Once I find out this bytch was lying I told her I'm cutting her off period

Talked to her all the time for a while.

Never talked to her since or seen her.

But was on twitter talking mega shyt on twitter Subliminally. I @ her and said "bytch your loss now get off my dikk forever"

Pissed her off even more. fukk her

 

[semicko82]

update?

nothing really happened after that. i think she texted me the next day on some chit chat b.s. i haven't heard from the broad since. oh i found out she's a single mother with two kids. glad i missed that bullet

 

[Neka727]

I've never "friend-zoned" a guy. When a guy ask if he can be my friend, my reply is always..."I take the word friend very serious, but we can be associates." Also, when a guy is interested in dating and/or getting to know me better, my reply is usually..."I'm not looking for a relationship!" ALL THIS MEANS IS I'M NOT INTERESTED IN THE INDIVIDUAL. AND/OR WOULDN'T EVEN CONSIDER BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM.

 

[Astroslik]

I've never "friend-zoned" a guy. When a guy ask if he can be my friend, my reply is always..."I take the word friend very serious, but we can be associates." Also, when a guy is interested in dating and/or getting to know me better, my reply is usually..."I'm not looking for a relationship!" ALL THIS MEANS IS I'M NOT INTERESTED IN THE INDIVIDUAL. AND/OR WOULDN'T EVEN CONSIDER BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM.

i thought this meant she wanted to be fukk buddies


I've became fukk buddies with 2 females that have said this