Why are women so obsessed with friendzoning dudes?

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A) She may slide the panties to the left for you during a moment of weakness
B) She may hook you up with one of her homegirls during one of their moments of weakness.
C) Females get invited to functions all the time, and you can roll with her. Cats at the spot wont mind cause you aint claiming her
D) You can bring her to the club with you which can accomplish:
D1) enabling you to get in the club faster and cheaper since you have a proper ratio with you
D2) Help attract other hoes who see you holding court with females, and she can help scope out and play winghoe
D3) They get free drinks from promoters and bottle service nigs that they can slide to you
E) She can help with advice if a female getting on your last nerve, and you need a point of view from vagina.

etc....

This is pretty lame
 

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Word she giving mixed signals. that shyt threw me off like :huh:.
she be hitting me up talking about she misses me or telling me to call her later after I see her.

she on some BS.

that 'i miss you' shyt could be a mass message she sends to 15 other n!ggaz all at once. Watch homegirls actions and not her words. If she misses you, cool, tell her to come thew yo crib and kick it, seein as how 'she misses you'. If she flakes or ain't wid it :usure:, relegate shorty to da minor league (forget da bench). At this point, she should probably be outta your head (which is a good thing) cuz then you can hit on other h0es infront of her as a way of punishment and to show her she took an L or genuinely move on.

me personally, i give a h0e 2 strikes. I make my intentions known usually da 1st time we kick it so i don't waste time from the jump. If she flakes after da 1st link, i'll let it slide (depending ofcourse on da bullshyt meter). Its da 2nd time dat i disregard and dispose of her completely if i realize she on dat game playin tip (in other words, she ain't interested).

I will never get mad at the situation or at her, rather, i'd feel sorry for her cuz she just missed da opportunity to get wid a cool cat. :manny:
 
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Find something better. That same girl trying to friendzone you will be all on your d!ck. Never give these h0ez too much attention because there's always something better out there. The less time you spend on the wrong one, the more time you have to find the right one.
 

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Guys who cry about the "friendzone" deserve that shyt. It only exists because you let it. Remedy the situation or move on from it, not that complicated.

Some dudes have to be taught step by step not to be in the friendzone. All this "you learn it on ya own" or " you should have had a daddy or uncle" shyt is just another term of shaming language that tell dudes not to improve.
 

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Ain't nothing wrong with being an adult and just enjoying the company of women, it has its benefits. You got serious problems if sweating your "homegirls" is your only hope of p*ssy though.
 

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I never continue to persue a woman that makes it clear she doesn't look at me like that but I have remained cool with women that ended up not being compatible on a relationship level. And that's not a bad thing because they will either give a female perspective on women you meet or know women that are your type that share you interests and would feel you.
 

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Uh yes there is, I have several and before you say anything

  • NO I wouldn't fukk any of them
  • NO I'm not attracted to them
  • NO they are not attracted to me
  • YES we have shared hobbies and interests
  • NO I didn't friend zone any of them

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Then they're prolly homo, you're ugly to them, they're too timid to admit it, they're lying, or a combination of one or more of the aforementioned jawns I mentioned :mjpls:
 

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Didnt read the whole thread but caught some parts with nikkas saying a man cant have female friends.

Really you a grown ass man and you dont have any female friends? Thats a character flaw. Im not talking about some fake friend shyt where you just too lame to admit you wanna fukk the bytch so you just hang around. Im talking about finding a person thats cool to talk to and hang out with every now and then.
 
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The only reason to have a female friend is if

A) you grew up with one
B) you stumbled into a friendship with one (casual friendship)
C) you don't have any close female family members that you can get a female POV from.
D) Status symbol and or for current social events.

Outside of that its a headache aint worth it...
 
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There is ZERO reason for me to have a friend that is not interested in the same thing I am.










Now insert female in that sentence, and thats how every man should feel.



If my interest and a females interest are the same and we can't keyword CAN'T be anything but friends than thats one thing.... but anything else and its just not happening? Nah... I'll pass
 

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A) She may slide the panties to the left for you during a moment of weakness
B) She may hook you up with one of her homegirls during one of their moments of weakness.
C) Females get invited to functions all the time, and you can roll with her. Cats at the spot wont mind cause you aint claiming her
D) You can bring her to the club with you which can accomplish:
D1) enabling you to get in the club faster and cheaper since you have a proper ratio with you
D2) Help attract other hoes who see you holding court with females, and she can help scope out and play winghoe
D3) They get free drinks from promoters and bottle service nigs that they can slide to you
E) She can help with advice if a female getting on your last nerve, and you need a point of view from vagina.

etc....
Unless she friendzoned you as a back up, A) is never going to happen if you stick around. As far as E) goes, never ever take a females advice on woman. Never. I learned to not even listen to my own sister when it comes to advice on woman.
 

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The only reason to have a female friend is if

A) you grew up with one
B) you stumbled into a friendship with one (casual friendship)
C) you don't have any close female family members that you can get a female POV from.
D) Status symbol and or for current social events.

Outside of that its a headache aint worth it...

A) even then most likely you will grow apart when one gets in a serious relationship, NO GUY or NO GIRL wants their men or woman to have a bestie of the opposite sex.

Hell i grew up with this one chick and i thought we were close ass friends, only last year she dropped the why didnt you ever ask me out? and you should take me out on a date i was like :whoa: we aint been the same since

b) :beli:


c) never take advie from a female, or ask for a female pov. chick cheats on you ask a female what should i do ":she probably still loves you, i say forgive her and follow her heart, smoetimes girls just need to see what they have is good"

d) :beli:
 

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its like they get off on that shyt...lol

another dude complaining to me about him getting told he was a brother smfh these lil nikkas never learn
There is no such thing as the friend zone. You can call rejection whatever you want but when a woman rejects your advances and you continue to hang around post rejection you aren't in a zone you're just a guy she's not into that doesn't know how to take a hint.
 
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